So These Are Some Negatives I've Been Experiencing

Admittedly I’ve cut back on jelqing and stopped pumping. Felt like I was having circulation issues from pumping. Not sure. I was reaching 9bp when really aroused. 8.75 when moderately aroused. Now all I do is try to edge and get those measurements again, but I’m stuck between 8.3 and 8.7. No matter how much I edge. Then the edging makes me ooze semen after a while. And it makes my dick really sensitive. To the point I have to stop or I’m going to cum. I’ve also gained about 20lbs. Will I ever see my 9bp again?

I only find edging valuable for training myself for orgasm delay. Otherwise, I consider it to be glorified masturbation. I eventually chafe so much with edging, that it’s not worth it. After a while, it seems to shorten me, too.

So you think edging causes smaller measurements?

I view edging as a “natural” erection, as opposed to pumped or clamped. I edge for 10 minutes at a time. Does it enhance length or girth? Probably not. But I started with ED bad enough that being able to edge at all was a big deal. Now I use it as a gauge for PE work; if I have trouble with maintaining the erection or it’s not fully hard, I know I’m probably pushing things too hard.

I also think I’ve become desensitized to porn.

I should add: Smaller in the short-term. I haven’t found that it affects overall, long-term measurements.

So you recommend a break from everything? Including porn?

Reached 8.76bp today. I noticed I used coconut oil. Don’t know if that made a difference

Bro, these P.E forums are getting flooded with that mentality of No porn, no sex, no masturbation, no ejaculation and so on.

Abstinence is not the path to follow, we are not eunuchs! AND YOUR PROSTATE is not gonna agree with that.

Ask an urologist otherwise.

Enjoy life man, jerk off from time to time.

Thats really good, keep it up. Make sure it does not contain lauric acid.

I wouldn’t care about getting 9 bp, 8.7 or 9 , no girl would feel the difference, most probably can’t take it whole already, don’t care about size at this point (my opinion).

What I would focus on instead is ejaculation control and semen retention while still fucking and masturbating daily, in fact that is what I already do.

Energy levels are trough the roof, opposite sex attraction and generally being the center of attention regardless of sex of people without even trying to be is just the tip of the iceberg of benefits.

A bit over 8 inches bp lenght and a bit more than 5.5 mid girth right now and I see no need for more size, it seems to have cemented and even if it didn’t I wouldn’t care about losing 0.1 inch it is statistical error compared to what I would still have.

Information that allowed me to masturbate and or fuck without ejaculation and without blue balls for weeks on end is information from ((((multi orgasmic man)))) a book from mantak chia

I recommend it with all my being to all men who are into personal improvement

I agree, just role playing a Catholic priest is going to make you frustrated and morally equivalent to those of them who do not secretly jerk off and become beasts.

But holding semen is really important also, answer to both tasks is to have non ejaculatory whole body orgasms when you do stimulate yourself and for prostate health you can do kegels and reverse kegels/ and if not homophobic prostate massage (you can massage it from outside also.

Sexologists are full of crap, they are lagging thousands of years behind tantra and taoism especially.

Just in 21 century did they acknowledge that females have g spot and just 30 years ago they operated on women to tighten vaginas after birth, now they recommend kegels instead while easterners did them from time immemorial

As a guy who has tried abstaining for longer periods of time, especially in the last 2 years and cumming my balls out I have to agree with Jocacar. I seem to be on some kind of cumming streak lately as I have come like 5-6 times in the last 2 months and that’s a lot. I would rather have retained during that time as I generally feel much better when retaining.

Well do as you wish then. If you feel better that way, please go ahead.

But in my case, I cant tell my SO: “Hey, I am not going to cum in the next 14 days and neither are we having sex.”

There is no need to. The goal is to learn to control the arousal-ejaculation cycle, so you can kill both birds with the same stone. It is easier said than done, but I believe it’s achievable.

My bp measurements seem to be more with coconut oil. That’s weird to me