So What's Your "Real" Reasons For PE

I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. I thought I knew why I wanted to PE (or at least the front I was putting on to myself). But the more and more I have been reflecting on it in my workouts, the more I realize my real reason.

So I thought it would be a good thread for all of us to write why we are really doing PE, especially the newbies (like me). I’ve learned through business ventures that it is best to have your goals and your reason for doing what you want to do in writing.

Here’s mine:

Yes, I’m insecure about my size. I never understand why as I do not put myself into a situation to be viewed by other guys. I just know I’m “below” average (not by much, but being below average in anything has never been acceptable to me).

But where I want it most is for my wife.

I’m not the most in shape person. My job limits my physical activity, and an injury has limited my ability to exercise a lot. I’m getting through the injury and hoping to resume cardio workouts as well as resistance training after the new year. I need to lose around 30 lbs of fat and put on some muscle, and I know I can do it.

But what I want for my wife is the total package, so to speak. I want her to be sexually attracted to me physically, not just emotionally. I believe that will come from three forms:

1. A better body, leaner, with some muscle. Something a lot better than what I currently have.

2. A bigger dick flaccid, something to get my wife thinking about sex with me.

3. A bigger, firmer erection, similar to what others have said here (when your lover’s eyes roll back into their head on entry).

My wife and I have a good relationship, but we have young kids. I work full-time, she’s a stay at home mom. Her day can be fairly exhausting chasing around the kids. We are expecting our third. Just previous to finding this out, our sex life was pretty good for a couple with two kids under 3 (having sex 3-4 times a week).

Usually after having a kid it takes my wife 3-4 months to have her hormones balance out and get into a routine of rest and chasing the kids.

My 1 year goal is to gain as much as possible. I measure late last week and was 5” NBPEL and just under 5” in MSEG.

I would like to gain at least 1” in length and get over 5” in girth by that time. I believe that doing that will give my wife a lot more pleasure (all things equal I know she’d prefer bigger).

First Goal: 6” x 5”

Second Goal: 6.5” by 5.25”

Third Goal: 7”x by 5.5”

Fourth Goal: 7.5” x 5.5”

Dream Goal: 8” x 6”

2.5” in length gain is a bit intimidating to me, but I’m determined to get there. I’m gaining girth great already (up nearly .25” in just two weeks) so I hope my length starts coming around.

Of course, I want to lose about 30lbs of fat and put on a solid muscle base. I don’t care about being body-builder type physique, but when my wife looks at me, I want her to think that I’m physically sexy to her.

So those are my reasons and goals. Newbies and vets, put yours in here two. Everyone who writes here should bookmark this post to refer to later, to keep us motivated and keep us from quitting.

I want to look good naked, and have a whole lot of girls talking about it. It would also be nice to be able to fall back on porn if everything else fails… or I need a summer job ;)

My goals both in PE and in the gym also have a common motivating factor in pleasing my future wife. I’m not married yet. Although I also hit the gym for my health (I’d like to see 100 years one day) and gaining strength. I like your attitude “gottagolarger”. It’s good to see that your actively trying to please your wife. I try to share the same attitude.

My goal in PE was to first have a bigger dick, to both please my then wife and myself. Although I know in my brain that a bigger dick doesnt make you a better man, I have always carried the insecurity of having a small penis. Now that I have gotten bigger, I feel totally different about myself. My self esteem is attached to my looks and cock. Sorry but it does, again I know it shouldnt. I still PE on occassion but not often, I may get back into it since I have more time on my hands (pun intended). I have a plethora of PE gear, from the Captains Wench, Suck and Release vacuum pump, static stretchers etc. I have never gotten into hanging and that may be my next tackle.

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I am not satisfied with my current size and I want to make it bigger for myself and my gf. I also see PE as a lifestyle that helps build discipline and commitment that I can apply to other areas of my life as well. I can’t speak for everyone, but I want to eventually bring myself to greatly reduce the use of porn and masturbation and PE is something that helps out a lot with that.

I have always wanted to see the reaction a woman makes when she is confronted with a huge penis before sex, since it is possible to experience that with PE, why deprive myself?

Another reason is that I would like to experience being a swinger. If you visit sites like Adult friend finder, you’ll see that there is usually a 10:1 - men:woman ratio. If you want to stand out, it helps to have “something extra” in fact there are many women and couples who seek those rare hung males so guys with 8” plus are likely to have more fun.

I personally want to look good in the nude. Having a nice long flaccid dick is the cherry on top.

Many of those size queens in the chat could reveal to be men, I’m afraid.

I have to grow my penis just…. to have a bigger one. No particular reason other than that…hmmmm…. well yes, there is one other, I want that once I fuck a bitch she’ll tell her friends how big I am, so it will be easier to fuck her friends too :D just a nasty bastard

To be honest I’m perfectly happy with my current size. This is probably also the reason I’m not that committed to PE as I would like to be.

The reason for me to still do it is because I think it’s incredible that it is possible, and sure I want to be a stud, and I would also like every woman to comment on my size.
Having a bigger dick would also increase both the physical as visual sensations of having sex for me.

Those are exactly the same reasons that I have, couldn’t have said it better myself.:)

I have been swinging for about three years now and I will tell you that many many many many guys in the swingers circles have VERY VERY VERY average 6x5 dicks. There are the hung guys who do get plenty of attention but to be honest when you are playing with couples they like friendly, respectful and someone who knows what they are doing much more than a big cock on an arrogant guy. The guys that come across with the very intelligent line “I want to fuck your wife” usually get shot down regardless of cock size. I am a member of a number of swinger sites and I would say that single guys get shot down a lot because of their attitudes. Now in my next life I want to be a bisexual chic, yeahhhh thats where my moneys at. In the swinger circles that is a wanted commodity.

The reason ? Girth ! as much girth as I can get. Just want to be average…

Trying to make my body reach its maximum potential. Not just PE, but weight lifting/bodybuilding as well.

I want a bigger penis. It’s that simple, and I don’t need to justify any thing.