Starting today, I am aiming for 8"x5.5"

I’ve been holding off on the routine last few days because the treacherous vein has kept coming back. Last time I only did jelqs and pulls and it still came back so I’ve been doing some light pulling hoping that a few days rest will let it fix itself. I’m also thinking though that this big vein could be helpful, like big vein=more blood=more growth? That or it’s a sign that I had worked it too hard and that it’s making my penis too tough which in that case I’ll just keep working on length. What do you guys think?

It is most likely a thrombosed vein.

Nothing to worry about overly much, but back off of the stress inducing exercises for a week.

You can still do Kegels and a heat pad at night before bed.

See if it subsides. It should.

Looked it up and it definitely was a thrombosed vein Mr. Happy. I backed stopped doing it for a day or two and then eased back into it.

So, I just had a talk with a girl. She said she’s always wanted to sleep with me. I asked her what she thought it’d be like, or if my ex had told her anything.

I never knew if I had a small penis, I knew I didn’t have a huge dick but I never made it into an insecurity. I was more insecure about girls saying something about me not being circumcised but I got over that after my first two girls that gave me a blowjob.

Anyways she went on to say my ex said I was the best she ever had (ooh yeah) and that I had a small dick (haha.damn). I said on here that I started at 6” because that’s the measurement I found in an old post I dug up but I think it might have actually been shorter than that at some point and that it went up to 6” from some pulling (I didn’t really keep track of the stats). Maybe 5.5” or 5.75” I’m not sure at all really. It’s always been 4” girth though I remember that much.

This girl also said she loved them small that her “pussy was made for small dicks”. That it was short and not wide. She had actually mentioned this before she said she could barely fit two fingers in there. She even said she loved the fact I had foreskin, that she thought it was sexy. That’s a first too, maybe she just wanted to get me to sleep with her. Just more proof that small pussies exist, you don’t need huge one to please, in fact you can probably fill one up with a smaller/regular sized wang.

Point is if in fact I do/did have a small penis (Probably in between, her pussy felt kind of cave like the first time to be honest with you guys :) ) I have never had a girl give me shit about it. In fact they’ve loved the sex. It’s more about the psychology of it. The build up, the anticipation, the teasing, the finger endurance (lol), the dominance. With my ex I used to make her go crazy because I would throw her around, slap her ass, make her do all this nasty shit, make her have sex in public places. Basically pushing her boundaries and she loved me for it. I just downloaded a bunch of stuff online and pretended like I knew what I was doing.

Some girls use dick size to make guys insecure. I think this because I’ve never had a girl tell me I had a small dick except for one. And it didn’t even register that it might be true, since she had blown me so many times one night and the next morning.I just figured she was trying to make me insecure cause I hooked up with another girl shortly after that and she was standing next to me (my now ex). Well the thought it might have some truth to it but I knew that if I became insecure it would be an issue but that if I was confident it wouldn’t matter.

I really do think girls do it to make you insecure and that if you convey to them you are confident in your size and abilities to please that they won’t bring it up. I am not shy to talk about big dicks with girls. I’ve had several conversations and usually I joke around and asked them questions about big cocked guys. You have to really not care. Part of the reason I don’t is because I know I’ve done some pretty crazy stuff in my time and many times these girls knew about some of the stuff I’ve done anyways. If you’re clearly not affected it will let them know that you don’t care about your dick size because you’re obviously pretty confident in yourself/abilities enough to roll with the conversation. I see situations as these as just another opportunity for the girl to see how confident I am in myself which is attractive to them (actually I’m not, I just fake it haha)

Dick size really doesn’t determine whether you will be the best lay of her life. It may help definitely but psychological stimulation is by far the thing that will make the biggest difference (check out Sex God Method). Here I was probably one of the smaller dicks this girl had yet I was the best she had and she fell hard for me small dick and all. She actually was telling me about her new boyfriend who she guessed must have had a 9 inch or bigger dick and how it actually hurt her cause he went too deep, felt like he was poking her organs. And how she bossed him around, and made him give her oral sex until she came, didn’t give him any blowjobs and how she was pissed that he didn’t dominate her in bed and how she was a total bitch to him because he put up with it. Goes to show you guys big dicks are only a small part of the equation.

Having said that I still want a big dick so I can stretch some girls out and have them drop their jaws when they see it lol. Cannot wait.

I actually have to second the Sex God Method book, it had a lot of interesting ideas.

Yeah that and David Shade’s Masterful Lover e-book are two solid books.

**Turkey Neck**

Today while PEing I looked at myself in the mirror and noticed I had a LOT of skin hanging off, looked like a turkey neck! It starts like an inch off the base of my penis. My scrotum was a bit lose at the time so it might have made it seem more but when I lifted my penis it looked kinda funny, definitely turkey like.

I’m thinking this is only going to get more noticeable. I remember reading about this also being from PEing but it can’t be from PEing since I just started and I didn’t go all that hardcore last time. Anyone else have a naturally occuring turkey neck type thing going on when they started? Did it get bigger with the length increase? Just curious.

Actually I think David Shade is a quack, and I’ve seen the kind of girls he gets.

they’re u-g-l-y they ain’t got no alibi

My 2 cents bro- Make sure you also learn the techniques of an Orgasm. My take is a big dick is not worth much if she does not cum.

That’s true, it does depend on the highly chick though, there’s so much variability in women. I know girls who love clit play to death and I know girls who only get off on vaginal sex. All the oral technique in the world isn’t going to get a girl off who needs to get fucked hard to cum, which I think Daniel Rose covered well enough in the sex god method, although he does generalize sometimes.

The point he touched on most in the book that I liked was the fact that big dicks are a dominance display in males, that’s why we have larger penises (not testicles) than other primates. Under sexual selection in evolution men with larger penises tended to mate more than those with smaller ones, but not because women desire them. It was because they used the larger penises to intimidate other men. It’s that dominance that women tend to be attracted to, even though the sex in some cases might even be more painful. This is supported by a lot of evolutionary research. I’m going to make another thread on this, because it’s essentially a meta-theory for penis size issues in the human species. A lot of the posts/behavior here on TP can be explained by it.

Rest assured, not all women desire overly dominant men, and as Daniel Rose states, there are other ways to be dominant over a woman during sex if that’s what she needs to get off, but a big dick is just another “tool” in the box. And it’s worth remembering that although size matters to women, it matters far more to you and to other men.

Typically, size is not high on women’s priority list.

How you make them feel is number one - emotionally first, and physically second.

Where did you guys get the Sex God Method? Any other books i should get while i’m at it?

Tru dat Mr.Happy!

I think when I read it I obtained it illegitimately, but I should actually buy a copy since it helped me. It’s an ebook, not a physical product.

dchz: If you haven’t looked at one, pick up a book on womens sexual fantasies. I bought a copy of nancy friday’s “my secret garden” a few years back, it was a major feminist work in its time since it wasn’t socially acceptable to acknowledge that women HAD sexual fantasies. A lot of men are still stuck in that state of mind, so it helps open up your mind a bit. Beware though, it’s very explicit and the entries were submitted anonymously, so a lot of it might be disturbing (bestiality/incest does feature), but it makes you acknowledge that they’re things women do think about. If you can read through something like that and learn not to judge women for what they feel and desire sexually, you’ll probably end up a lot better off in the bedroom.

If anything else comes to mind I’ll post it here.

Good PE !

I am definitely aware that women are people too and they have weird fantasies… I am pretty open minded by any standard i think. Thanks for the heads up, i’ll go get a copy of Sex God Method.

This seems like a very good book, i would recommend it to my comrades in this forum.