Starting with a 4" girth, need motivation

If you find a good girl, it won’t matter. If you don’t fill her up, you have time to grow, man. Work on keeping it in her and grinding your pelvis into her clit in a circular motion. Get smaller condoms. I use Iron Grip. Can’t buy them in stores or even in adult shops. Amazon’s your friend. Wearing a condom that fits snugly makes you more confident and appear bigger. Up until about two months ago, I was goring myself with a ruler just to pull a BPEL 5.10 and 4.5 BEG/MEG. Usuable length was under 5.00. The Iron Grip condoms were still obviously long, but fit great for my girth. I never had much but I learned how to use it and I always knew how to make them laugh. Laughter causes involuntary squeezing down there - hint, hint.
Took four virginities with a sub-five boner - no complaints. They know now what they were missing, but at the time, what the hell did they know? And dated each of them for at least a year. Their virginal orifices differed in size from the get-go. Just like us men they don’t come one-size-fits-all, either. And after much sex they stretch, they accommodate. One of the girl’s vaginas was noticeably larger and the last one I had before I got into a relationship with my now wife was noticeably tighter. She just had an abnormally small vagina that remained that way a year and a half into our relationship. That tight pussy I wistfully think back on even now, almost a decade later, wasn’t enough to keep me in a relationship with her. My now wife who I’ve been in a relationship with for the past almost 10 years had sexual partners before me and has a slightly above average sized vagina. She’s ridiculed me for my size since pretty much the first time we had sex. And years back I had sex with a childhood sweetheart on a whim, the lead up having taken us well into adulthood. Knowing she had other sexual partners, I asked her what she thought afterwards. She said, she thought it would be bigger.

I guess what I’m saying is sex isn’t the end-all be-all that defines a relationship. And having gone to many Asian massage parlor’s and having even the Chinese women laugh at my small dong - 2.75 NBPFL post ejac - you just have to focus on the things you can change and ignore the people you can’t change.

As far as my experience with PE - from a guy who is smaller than you - in my first month, I increased my BPFL .25 and my FG .50. Even without much change in my erect measurements, having a fuller flaccid has helped my confidence tremendously. I’m a week away from my two month mark and I know I’ve gained more. My wife recently asked if her vagina felt smaller. *Tee-hee*

Anyway, this is my second post and I hope my attempt at being a confidence booster has helped you in someway.

Cheers!

I don’t recall what I was at that age, but it’s true that you’ll probably keep growing over time. My brother has the coveted +8/+6, and I recall dating roommates in college. My girlfriend said, Isn’t penis size supposed to be genetic? What happened?

And it seemed just about every girl I broke up with horked on my pecker size.

Then in my 30s I got divorced. Women flocked like seagulls. I had never seen anything like it. I’d gained a little from PE I did over the years (mostly masturbation — I was married, see, and self-gratification is a big part of marriage), and women commented on how nice my pecker was.

Go figure. Some of it is maturity, some of it experience, and some of it good old fashioned time. Walk around like you have the biggest honker in the room, and you’ll be surprised how the women respond. It’s the correlation between confidence and size they like, not the size alone. CONFIDENCE. Keep that attitude, do some PE, and be thankful for your looks and intellect.

- Saul

What makes you think that “if it wasn’t for {your} pencil penis”, you’d be having sex with different girls everyday”? If you are charming you can still have it everyday. People don’t talk about genitals on their first or second dates(most people anyway). Besides, even if you have a 4 inch girth, some women won’t be able to tell the difference between 4.6-4.8(which is the range of average depending on the journal) and 4.0. I’m not saying that all women won’t be able to tell the difference; but some won’t. Moreover, sex is mostly about physical attraction and psychological chemistry(I’m not saying that physiology does not matter because to some people, it does). Don’t let your 4.0 girth interfere with your ability to charm. If you’re an asshole to your ex, they may refer to you as a small dick even if you have 8x6. If you are a great lover, they may find your size perfect.

This is very true, especially the part about not being able to tell the difference between 4.0 and 4.6-4.8.

Go watch some amateur porn and try to gage the sizes of the cocks in those videos. Good luck with that.

Great lovers are always considered bigger than they actually are by their girls.

Go figure.

Women tend to confuse techinique with penis size.

I wish I was a bit thinner.. Would make my stretching easier, and then I could work up to my ideal length an then work on girth. With clamping and pumping.

Well, you get what you get.