Starting with a 4" girth, need motivation

I’ll try to keep it as concise as possible.

Starting stats (July 2016): 5.8 (BPEL) x 4.0 (MSEG)
Current stats: 6.0 (BPEL) x 4.125 (MSEG) (maybe increased EQ)

I’m 19 years old and quite charming (if it wasn’t for my pencil penis, I’d be having sex with a different girl everyday). I just really feel depressed because of my thin shaft. Normal sized condoms are .5” to large in girth. It truly sucks. I’m still a virgin because of it, but I’m willing to have sex like a lesbian just to satisfy women.

Knowing that my father remembers being slack in condoms when he was my age (I think he is rightly sized now) and that my 2D:4D finger ratio in low (0.90)—apparently one study mentioned it was a good indicator of length size but we haven’t heard about it since then.. Are there any chances my girth could grow at least 0.5 to 1.0 inch?

What should I expect? What routine might work? Any guy with the same stats can share his experience?

I’m literally an outlier regarding girth. I just feel like it should grow since almost nobody is so thin. I doesn’t make sense.

Just follow the newbie routine a few months and if your dick is conditioned enough try clamping, i just started and i like this work out the most, and if you really have that night you are going to fuck that girl i suggest you to get the bathmate hercules, when i was 17 i was alot smaller then my starting stats thats when i got the bathmate and got my confidence up before i met the girl, always gained 0.5” - 1.0” sad it was always just temporary.

Some people grow until 21 or even 25.

Dude you’re 19, if you’re that charming and otherwise got no problems with pulling just absolutely ignore what you consider a too small unit. You’ll go out with girls in the 18-22 range I assume (I dodge the legal age issue here) so it’s not like most of the will have 20 years of experience. If you manage to get them interested, the size & condom issue exists mainly in your head. You can control and influence that. If you packed 8x6 but wouldn’t be able to say a coherent word you’d be no better off, with the difference that the ladies will be far more open to an interesting guy with a smaller unit than a bigger dude who’s nothing to say. Trust me on that one. Empirical evidence of a large sampling size (no pun intended).

That aside, the suggestions made here (newbie routine et al) should set you right on track. You’ve got years to add size, right?

First, dig my signature. Know it’s possible.

Second. I’m as smooth as sandpaper. I’ve had partners but not nearly the caliber I ought to because.. I don’t have the mouthpiece I need to. I was exactly where you are at 19, didn’t even PE till after my last “growth spurt” because I started PE at age 24. If you’ve kept your confidence this far, hang onto it. It will only serve you better as you do PE.

I can’t say a bigger unit won’t make you feel better. But I can say don’t swap a bigger unit for a shy, tongue tied attitude. Be patient, start slow. You CAN get there. You WILL in time. And you are STILL growing!

Stay motivated. Remember your value, sir.

And let me add..

The confidence you have now is worth more than any size penis, because growing that is harder than coaxing tissue growth. Any man here will agree with me and as a guy still working on confidence.. I can say getting bigger on the outside didn’t much change me inside. Shy and awkward while hung is still shy and awkward.

You’ve got what most of us here dream of already in your ability with women, believe that.

Welcome to Thunder’s Place!

Absolutely possible and doable. Hardest part is to find what will work on you and stay consistent.

Years of time investiment, lots of reading and experimentation.

Start on Newbie Routine (or Linear Newbie Routine) to get conditioned and to know your penis capabilities.

Good luck!

There are a lot of women who don’t like or cannot handle girth. I have had trouble at one time or another with every girl I’ve been with. There have always been broken condoms or soreness the new day.

However, there are many posters here who have seen good girth gains. In this game, patience is key. Imagine if you gain 1/16” each a month, look where you’ll be in 2 years!

Start with the newbie routine and prioritize the jelqs. Jelqing has given me the best gains.

Good luck on your journey!

It seems you have strong purpose, that is the key to success, it will keep you motivated. Check my signature / progress log. Great gains can be made, you just have to be disciplined in your PE and give the process time to work. I started with similar stats to you and it was never once a hamper on my sex life, I was never made fun of or turned down or even called a bad partner. Those are all things in your head, go into sex with confidence because for women it’s a lot more emotional than physical most the time. Best of luck buddy.

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And let me add..

The confidence you have now is worth more than any size penis, because growing that is harder than coaxing tissue growth. Any man here will agree with me and as a guy still working on confidence.. I can say getting bigger on the outside didn’t much change me inside. Shy and awkward while hung is still shy and awkward.

You’ve got what most of us here dream of already in your ability with women, believe that.
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Confidence does 90% of the work with ladies.

I am in your boat, more or less. You’re longer than I am, and I am slightly thicker. For sex, girth gains are what I want most. I dislike being so thin. My first real girlfriend and I were both virgins when we started having sex as teenagers, but she was barely sore at all even the first time we screwed. After we’d been having sex for a few months, it was absolutely obvious to me that I couldn’t fill her up — and it was apparent to her as well. We dated for three years, and after we broke up she got herself a guy with a fat one — or so she said, and I’m inclined to believe her because we stayed friends for a while and she said this only in the context of a sex talk we were having, and not in a cruel or vindictive way.

Ultimately, though, I’m doing this for me. Because of that, gains in flaccid length are what I’m going for the most. That’s what *I* see most of the time.

I should add that having a thin penis should NOT keep you from going for what you want with women. It is true that my experience with the first girlfriend was not great. But she had wide hips, and an innately large vagina. There were others after her, and they seemed perfectly happy. I got a huge ego boost once when a girl asked me to stop pushing it in so deep (and you’re longer than me). My wife is happy with our sex life, and she orgasms incredibly hard. Still, though, what man doesn’t want a big fat dick? :)

No matter what kind of dick you have keep feeding it pussy. Or ass… Never give a fuck. Do PE for yourself. Be the best you can be.Period.

Though my dick stopped gaining in length at 18, I believe my girth continued to increase a bit into my 20s.

I persued a fairly active pumping routine and increased my girth by over an inch.

Dtwarren that is great news! I hope to have similar results.