Stress and water

Hi ,

I’m trying to find a solution to my problem. My flaccid size is ok when I’m not in stress or in water. But when I’m in a stress situation it shrinks a lot. Also when I enter water from a swimming pool or a jacuzzi and I stay in for a few min it shrinks. I visit a lot of public saunas. And it’s so hateful to have this problem there. I want to be relaxed like you suppose to be on a sauna. But the shrinking problem gives me stress. I know not every man has this problem , so maybe there’s hope how I could get ride of this problem. I do jelqing , stretching and pumping with the bathmate.