Stretching

I am really getting frustrated with manual stretching. I am afraid I am getting some numbness in my glans. I have tried grip aids and I am using latex gloves now but I don’t have much loose skin on the shaft and it seems no matter how I grip I end up choking my glans. I have had a few good sessions and then it seems like I just can’t get a good stretch. I am going to take a few days off and keep trying but I am getting really frustrated. I need length and thats why I am concentrating on the streching. I have a BIB starter but I want to start off slow. I usually stretch after a hot shower 10 30 sec. Stretches straight down. Any suggestion if about the time I hold the stretches? Help me ease back into a steady routine.

Anyone out there?

I seem to have the same problem. Also, I am uncircumcised, so my dick-skin slides right over my shaft really easily, meaning that my hand always slips down to my glans. Using rubber gloves or anything else with a grip wouldn’t help, because the point of slippage is not between my hands and the skin, but between the skin and everything inside. So when I try to do a stretch, it sort of becomes like a jelq—I start near the base so that I can at least tug on it for some amount of time before my hand slips all the way down to the glans. When my hand reaches the glans, I force myself to let go because I don’t want to be messing with the glans.

I’m already pretty thick, but I’d like some more length. But hanging is out of the question for me, so I only want to do manual stretches.

I have to be super, super flaccid for the stretch to be at all effective. I find that I get a much better grip when I’m completely flaccid. Problem is, stretching makes me go hard, so there’s a lot of waiting around for it to go back down.

My other problem is that I’m a shower, not a grower. When I’m limp, I’m 4”, and when I’m maximally erect, I’m only 1.75” more than that. My hunch is that my PE will help my flaccid length a lot more than my erect length, and the latter is what I care more about. Do you have the same issue?