Targeted Growth?

Define excessive please.. And do you mean temporarily like immediately after/subsequent erections, or longer term?

Less than half. Trust me.

Would you care trying something? Tell your husband not to touch his penis for 5 days, not longer. After that have sex. See if there is any difference.Answer the question yourself.

I used to masturbate everyday. Can you believe that shit? I was noticing hard erections during sexual intercourse but low stamina and reduced size at that point.

Due to an injury caused by overdoing PE, I couldn’t get a proper erection for 7-8 days so I stopped masturbating also. No ejaculation for 9 days. The next day when I was feeling better, I told my wife <<Love, I got something to show ya…it works again>>

We had sex and she was like <<What the fuck did you do? I feel it bigger .>>

Even I was impressed seeing an increased size. Now, don’t get crazy. I don’t mean that my dick was massive. It just looked and felt thicker and longer. Stamina was also increased.

Maybe it’s just me, but after that I started masturbating twice a week for prostate health and have sex 3 times a week, on non-masturbation days. Reactions from my wife are still the same possitive 4 months later. I know it cause I’ve been married for 10 years. I think I know too well my wife sexual reactions.After quitting daily masturbation my dick feels heavier, she enjoys it more.

I know that I ‘ve gained some size from pe, but nothing crazy. About 0.5 length and 0.3 girth. But 4 months ago I had my original size. It just felt bigger.

Quick tip. A man should never fuck with a full stomach. All the blood goes there for digestion. Same goes for women too.

That’s my opinion. For me it works. I never teach. I am suggesting.

Bill, the reason I asked is BC my husband was pretty much a porn addict, at one time he was easily masturbating 2-3 times a day every day, but some of it got taken too far eventually and when I found out it almost ended our marriage. After that he has supposedly quit looking at porn and masturbating all together (no I don’t believe it either, but he has definitely cut way back and gotten better at hiding it) and coupling that with we don’t have sex much when I’m pregnant (his choice not mine) there was a massive drop in his sexual activity and that’s when I’ve noticed the size difference. I 100% chalked it up to me just having a baby so it felt different, but when we measured the other day it was confirmed. That’s why I was asking you to be more specific in the parameters.

I have seen what you’re talking about to be true when we have sex regularly then something comes up and we don’t for a week or two, I always figured it was higher excitement levels on his part, as well as a counter effect on my part because I do kegals a lot and have since.. Well at least since I started having sex. But I think extended periods of time with decreased sexual activity (whether solo or intercourse) have the opposite effect on size, at least in his case. Extended being defined in this case as months with a significant decrease. It makes sense that it could happen that way because months of significantly less erections and climaxes would decrease blood flow some from lack of use.

Umm, scientifically, excessive masturbation leads to INCREASED penis size.

I think I posted a link several years ago regarding extremely excessive masturbation by mental patients leading to permanently increased penis size.

The patients in question were masturbating a very high number of times a day IIRC (if I remember correctly).

Edging is known to increase size in some men practicing PE — masturbating excessively (i.e. several hours a day) is in effect lots of PE.

That is my thoughts as well, but think about how excitement levels affect erection size.. I believe long term (months) of decreased or abstained masturbation probably does cause a decrease in size, but that’s why I asked him to define what he meant by abstaining. Being backed up for a week means when it’s in front of you finally all the blood rushing there might leave you lightheaded lol, and the ejaculation will likely be larger than typical, and thicker has been my experience. For instance, when hubby was masturbating multiple times a day pretty much every day his ejaculations would be thin and smaller in size, but texture wise close to water or lubricant like astroglide, but if he hasn’t came in 4-5 days it’s thicker and there is an obviously larger amount of it. If he hasn’t came in closer to two weeks or more it’s closer to the consistency of.. Idk, thick pancake batter? Brownie batter? It can get almost stringy.

I got your point. That’s why I said not for too long.

Here is the thing…I masturbate once or twice a week. I am having sex 3 times a week, some weeks 2, others 4, but generally 3.

Erection quality good. Stamina good. Size good.

Keeping that in mind and the undeniable fact that everybody is different, I can only give you what works for me. Beyond that you can research, you can experiment, see if there is a pattern and proceed.

I am not expecting you to do that. You got 2 kids to look after. Perhaps your husband can do all the dirty work. Of course he has two children too, but I think that whatever he may find, as a man, he will understand it better and surely, he knows what works for him.

Well, it depends. I didn’t catch your link but I have no reason to doubt your words.

So, in my opinion, it depends. There is masturbation and masturbation. Which means I can masturbate with excellent EQ or 50% erection quality, for hours aka playing with my dick.

Let’s define masturbation first. Did the patients ejaculate every single time? If not then it’s edging, so there is your increased size. I am not talking about edging. Edging is actually good especially for cementing gains and girth, within measure of course.

Let’see…what else? Erection quality. Was 100% all of the time? I highly doubt it. I ejaculated while masturbating even with a 50% erection. Easy stuff.

Was it masturbation or did the patients only played with their dick? Meaning, pulling it, curving it, striking it, twisting it etc… Cause if that was the case, you might consider it as PE. So, there is again your increased size. Imagine doing that for hours also for years and years. Max results.

Now…I don’t know what the survey claims exactly but as I also said to Black Rose, I can only speak for myself .Everybody is different.

Lol he seems to have lost interest in the idea completely. I think you are probably right and that there is a connection to cutting back some with Rosey Palmer and seeing larger erections during intercourse, it’s the complete halt or cutting way back for long periods of time that is bad. And that isn’t just size, as you mentioned earlier, prostate health depends on regular ejaculation as well. My husband seems to have no middle ground in him at all, like with the porn. As a general rule I don’t have a problem with porn or him masturbating, but it becomes a problem when I try to get him to have sex with me and he tells me no but I catch him masturbating half hour later. Porn doesn’t bother me as long as he’s not telling me no to sex so he can go watch porn instead. Things got out of control at one point BC the fantasies started getting interactive for him and I told him that wasn’t acceptable and it was a huge fight, but instead of dialing back he says he stopped completely. I haven’t found any evidence to prove he’s lying, but I can’t believe any male could go from 2-3 times a day every day to never looking at porn again.

Well…. I can only say this. A man likes his porn. General rule I think. The only difference is that some like it, others like it much and others are addicted to it.

As for masturbation I never said that a man should abstain completely or for a very long period of time. He ‘ll get a prostate the size of his fist…. Within measure. To put it simple, ejaculate less, preserve sexual strength and high libido. Max EQ every single time. That’s how I see it. Feel free to disagree.

As for the father of your children, cut him some slack and spice up things a little for him. More woman, less mommy. You’ll get more dick.

I am stopping. I already said enough.

Lol you shouldn’t stop, You’re fine. And I agree with you, especially after getting you to explain what you meant by abstaining some from masturbating. I asked for clarification to be sure you didn’t mean completely abstaining and what you meant as far as a timeline for the abstaining, but with the parameters you are talking about it makes sense and I agree with you.

As far as “cutting him some slack” and “more woman, less mommy,” as I said, porn and masturbation in general don’t bother me as long as they aren’t taking away from our sex life. I admit I get royally pissed off if I’m trying to get him to come to bed with me and he shoots me down but I catch him watching porn and jerking it after he’s just shot me down, but that’s entirely different that my attitude towards it if say, he got home, I’m still asleep, I wake up and walk in and find him doing it. In that kind of situation I either leave him be to finish or I join in depending on my mood. When I put my foot down about it going to far, a lot of women wouldn’t have put their foot down and tried to stop it, they would have just left. He had been on Craigslist trying to find someone to see behind my back and the responses he was getting were from bots. Automated responses that are vague enough they may or may not fit as a response to the ad, but after a couple exchanged messages try to get you to join some other paid site with the promise to exchange photos and contact info after you join the site. He was responding to these bots like they were real people he was hoping to meet, and at that point it was beyond porn for me.

Also, since I’m bisexual and we have had threesomes in the past, I’m really not sure how much spicier I can get lol. I’m a very open person sexually, he’s been on a kick lately about wanting to see some other guy fucking me and that’s how I stumbled on to this forum. We were taking pics of each other for a site to meet other couples or singles to play with and he wasn’t happy with how the pics of his penis looked, so I was researching better angles etc like the good dutiful wife I am ;)

We have some threads about swinging/strangers dating here, in case you were interested.

Wow this thread got really creepy all of a sudden lol geez…

Oooo I will have to search for them

Creepy? How so?