Originally Posted by BlackRose
Lol you shouldn’t stop, You’re fine. And I agree with you, especially after getting you to explain what you meant by abstaining some from masturbating. I asked for clarification to be sure you didn’t mean completely abstaining and what you meant as far as a timeline for the abstaining, but with the parameters you are talking about it makes sense and I agree with you. As far as “cutting him some slack” and “more woman, less mommy,” as I said, porn and masturbation in general don’t bother me as long as they aren’t taking away from our sex life. I admit I get royally pissed off if I’m trying to get him to come to bed with me and he shoots me down but I catch him watching porn and jerking it after he’s just shot me down, but that’s entirely different that my attitude towards it if say, he got home, I’m still asleep, I wake up and walk in and find him doing it. In that kind of situation I either leave him be to finish or I join in depending on my mood. When I put my foot down about it going to far, a lot of women wouldn’t have put their foot down and tried to stop it, they would have just left. He had been on Craigslist trying to find someone to see behind my back and the responses he was getting were from bots. Automated responses that are vague enough they may or may not fit as a response to the ad, but after a couple exchanged messages try to get you to join some other paid site with the promise to exchange photos and contact info after you join the site. He was responding to these bots like they were real people he was hoping to meet, and at that point it was beyond porn for me.
Also, since I’m bisexual and we have had threesomes in the past, I’m really not sure how much spicier I can get lol. I’m a very open person sexually, he’s been on a kick lately about wanting to see some other guy fucking me and that’s how I stumbled on to this forum. We were taking pics of each other for a site to meet other couples or singles to play with and he wasn’t happy with how the pics of his penis looked, so I was researching better angles etc like the good dutiful wife I am ;)
Better angles? Just take a damn picture of it and post it. I trust, you disgussed thoroughly about the cuckold thing. Cause if you go there and realizes that he actually didn’t like it, there is no going back.
About the masturbation thing… what’s happening? Do you catch him doing it and be like <<What the fuck are you doing? >>? And he is like <<Jesus, honey, you scared the shit out of me>>. It’s actually kind of funny, if you think of it that way…
By the way, I have a friend who is doing the same thing. True. I was talking to him and couldn’t actually understand why he did it..
Cause in that matter, I am like <<Let’s see…. pussy, hand, pussy, hand, blowjob and pussy, hand……tough decision..oooh what to do, what to do?>>
Man,I ain’t judging, I just don’t get it.
You should look for what Marinera wrote. Perhaps you ‘ll find what you seek.
BPEL 7 EG 5.5 NBPEL 6.5 Flaccid length 4.5. Started Jan 2015 at bpel 6.5 nbpel 6.0 and eg 5.2 flaccid length was 3.5
I have reached my goal. At least for now.