Hands free orgasms from prostate and anal stimulation can transform your whole idea of sexual pleasure. I’ve been a prostate stimulator for almost 20 years now and I can’t begin to tell you the experiences I’ve had, the extreme levels of orgasms, multiple Os, you name it, that I’ve had over the years. On average during a session I’ll have 20-50+ orgasms, hands free not touching my cock at all, in the space of 30-90 minutes. So much more cum all the time. Precum output increased permanently over the years. Boner strength increases. And when my wife is involved with me during this it is insane how sensual and stimulating it can be. I’d say give simple toys like Aneros massagers or something similar a try. No need for vibration, that’s all not needed. In fact, vibrating toys deaden and numb the prostate to the point of lost sensation and the orgasm you seek is the last thing that gland is capable of producing. Gentle, natural movements from automatic anal contractions can produce and drive dozens upon dozens of prostate-centered orgasms and you literally don’t have to do anything except lie there, breath, and the let the toy just move on its own. Porno is distracting and drives the "cock=orgasm" connection that is NOT what prostate orgasms are all about. Almost all my prostate Os come while I’m flaccid. Final release through ejaculation is also not a goal or a signal for a real orgasm.
I’d say give it a try. There is absolutely nothing "gay" or "homo" about anal and prostate stimulation. It is YOUR body and you can do whatever you want to with it! Don’t let men con you into thinking this kind of activity and sexual stimulation makes you gay or means you want men. That’s not what this is all about. Stimulating your prostate and kissing a man with passion are two completely different things that are completely unrelated. Have fun exploring, this stuff can change your life and your sex for the better, trust me, I know for certain! :)
Starting length, Spring 2003: bpel 6 3/8", bpfsl ~6 1/2", flaccid ~3-4" (never measured flaccid stretched or hanging flaccid; starting girth was probably ~5"-5 1/4")
Summer 2004: bpel 7 7/8", bpfsl 8 1/8", flaccid ~4", erect girth 5.3"
Spring 2018: bpel 7 1/4", bpfsl 7 5/8", erect girth 5 1/8"; Spring 2020: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth 5 3/8". Current - August 2023: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth mid shaft 5 1/4" (5 1/2" at base)