As Fornixator said, some women are naturally more horny than others, so it’s good to find your equal. Most likely will never be a complete match, but close if we are lucky.
She has to like you, you then need to know her (requires listening), then show her that your listening, and flirt with her throughout the day (helps remind her of her sexuality and of being desired).
This is actually somewhat of a complex formula, what one woman sees as sexy another woman might see as undesirable. Similarly, what one woman wants from a man, a man might see that as unacceptable.
Most relationships don’t work out, it takes time and work to find the match. I don’t think lots of sex in the early stages is always due to this spot on chemistry, but rather to people who are physically attracted to each other and riding that early lustful stage of a relationship.
I believe true chemistry is realized over time and it is in this setting, can be from the start as well, that both can begin to practice in the art of raising and meeting the sexual capacity of the relationship.
My wife wants a true partner, other than in the bedroom, we share in chores and don’t abide by typical gender norms. She appreciates my contributions to our partnership. By splitting the load and both crossing over to equally do chores when the other is not able to, this balance stress through efficiency in the household. This lowered/balanced stress supports an environment that I can begin to build on raising the sexual energy between us. I do lots of little things, flirt from wake up and do the random flowers to work. I know what she likes and I want to give it to her.