I started doing some basic PE a few months ago and have seen some modest gains (~1/4” length & girth). So far I have said nothing to my wife. I can imagine her response “why would you want to do that?”, “you’ll hurt yourself”. “You’re big enough for me”, “you really think that will do anything?” etc. Lately she has seemed a little more enthusiastic in bed, so I think it may be helping. We’re both in our early 50s and have been married for 20 years, so any added excitement is welcome.Since I haven’t told her anything my sessions are short and consist of simple hand work unless her and my kids happen to be gone at the same time. I’ll try to do some work before and during my shower, and maybe a couple more 5-10 minute sessions during the day.
I was just wondering what others’ experiences were when discussing with their wives? Are they on board? Do they think you are being ridiculous? Do they think you are doing it to attract another woman? Any suggestions to maximize gains in short spurts like that?
As of now I think I’ll wait to see if she ever comments on it, but I could definitely put in more time if she knew.
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Sounds like the exact conversation I had with my wife.
I need to get back into PE full time this year, I haven’t stuck to it long enough to see any results. Would like to add an inch and a little more girth, would be interesting to see if she notices anything different and what she will say about the change.