What Does The Wife Think?

I started doing some basic PE a few months ago and have seen some modest gains (~1/4” length & girth). So far I have said nothing to my wife. I can imagine her response “why would you want to do that?”, “you’ll hurt yourself”. “You’re big enough for me”, “you really think that will do anything?” etc. Lately she has seemed a little more enthusiastic in bed, so I think it may be helping. We’re both in our early 50s and have been married for 20 years, so any added excitement is welcome.

Since I haven’t told her anything my sessions are short and consist of simple hand work unless her and my kids happen to be gone at the same time. I’ll try to do some work before and during my shower, and maybe a couple more 5-10 minute sessions during the day.

I was just wondering what others’ experiences were when discussing with their wives? Are they on board? Do they think you are being ridiculous? Do they think you are doing it to attract another woman? Any suggestions to maximize gains in short spurts like that?

As of now I think I’ll wait to see if she ever comments on it, but I could definitely put in more time if she knew.

My wife is supportive, but thinks it’s funny and unnecessary. She knows I’m passionate about it and respects that.

The temporary expansion gained from pumping can really get their attention, but it can easily be overdone and result in way too much edema (fluid build up). So timing before sex and process applied all matters here.

Also, the sudden change in volume will likely instigate her to ask as to what’s going on with your cock.

So be prepared for the conversation.

Enjoy!

My wife is supportive, but sees it as pointless because she already loves my size.

On the other hand, I’ve lost 70lb over the last 9 or so months, which unlocked some length from my reduced fat pad, and now I’m hitting some deep spots inside her that I wasn’t able to before, and it’s been driving her crazy.

Like cross-eyed orgasms crazy…

Has anyone else gotten a wife “eye roll”? I also got “men are so obsessed with penises”.

Otherwise not positive or negative. It is only 4 weeks in.
We will see if she notices anything after 3 months.

I get all of that, but she is being playful.

Same…

I get a lot of eye rolls for a lot of reasons… PE included.

The eye roll is great since it’s fun.

Never been upgraded to “seriously”. That is usually not good but maybe in a while I will get “seriously, is your dick bigger”?

That would be priceless.

When I first talked to my girlfriend about it I said “how would you feel if my dick got bigger?” She giggled and asked me what the hell I was talking about. So I showed her the exercises. She basically said that it’s my dick and I should do what I want with it but just to not injure myself.

When I got my pump I showed her how it works and how it effected my cock after a pump session. A couple weeks ago she helped me measure. She’s very supportive and happy with the results so far and if I chose to stop PE right now she’d be just as supportive and happy.

I haven’t told my wife haven’t seen a reason to bring it up but have no problem telling her.

I will say that we workout together at crossfit and she is now telling me when I go there to adjust myself because my dick outline is showing, I guess I need baggier shorts.

I am in stealth mode with the wifey.

She noticed the size difference (but because it was over time she really doesn’t have any concept of how much) but I just blew it off as maybe a benefit of some of the weightlifting supplements.
The great side effect of this was/is, I don’t get any crap for buying supplements anymore.
LMAO!

Yep. All the time that I am obsessed with my penis.

Also that it is too big but then she takes it easily and has more virginal orgasms.

Strainge creatures really.

SB

My wife jumped right in to help, she thought it was a weird thought, but I told her that some women like bigger tits, I want a bigger dick. Shelped me PE, and then when she asked me to stop, I continued. Trouble to come………………………….I have it all in my thread.

Everyone who starts their PE journey with a size that is already above average should read your thread.

And listen to their wives!

My ex wife of twenty years laughed at me when she found out 10 years ago. Her ex boyfriend she says was much longer then me but thinner. I felt inadequate. When I had asked her if she was happy with my member, she remained silent. I tore my frenulum jelqing stealth when I first started PE (informally). When she saw the blood from the tear she laughed even more. My frenulum fuzed back inside my skin instead of outside. So I don’t have that awesome sensitivity I once had (which silver lining could be a bonus, I can easily last longer in bed).

My current gf of 6 years (hopefully to be next wife) gave me the eye roll many times in bed actually (she is a petite italian) and when she found out about PE, she claimed I was big enough. But then again she said she likes all sizes of dick. Since I’ve taught her kegels to tighten herself up more, and she loves the additional girth. She was more surprised I can make help her squirt now from intercourse with G o’s triggering it. She loves the extra volume when I use the Pumps/Bathmate for a few minutes before a session. She loves to feel stretched. Just before I told her about my PE, I pumped once, and all I got was, “OMG, what diiidddd you doooo?”

Asked the wife about pe tonight, she told me I’m big enough, “do I want to use my dick or just have one that’s big that won’t get used”

I said well I wanted to be bigger. Maybe length is OK as I hit her cervix already… But I said I wanted girth.

She said I told you what I think, so do what you want.

Still in stealth pe for the foreseeable future I guess.