What is the ideal penis size that most women prefer?

There is going to be a technical “optimal size” that a higher percentage of women would cite as ideal. As to what that size is, we’ll likely never know. For a whole host if reasons, most people really don’t know what it is they want. Mostly, people know what they’ve been conditioned to think they’re supposed to want, and not supposed to want. How that interacts with what they actually do want is unpredictable and often messy.

The next question to ask it’s if we’re actually after the size that will best please the most partners, or the size that will impress and excite the most partners. I suspect the two are not the same.

Lastly, while I think this is an interesting exercise from an academic standpoint, but not too useful in practice. I don’t know of any guy who selects his partners based on penis-to-vagina ratio. It will play it’s part in sexual compatibility of course, but if you’re the ideal size for 19% of women rather than 21% of women, is it going to change how you interact with women? Unless you fall on opposite ends of the preference spectrum, it shouldn’t make too much difference.

I know it’s an awesome feeling to find that girl for whom you have the magic dick, that hits all the right spots and is absolutely perfect. I had one of those, once. The sex would melt your face, but it didn’t make her any less insane, neurotic or toxic. I think it has as much to do with shape as size, and even more about style.

I suspect from personal experience that it’s probably something like 7x5 bone pressed, for the largest number, which seems to track somewhat with the info available. My own sample size is quite limited however, and some have varied wildly from that number. I think my wife is more like 8x7, which is part of why I’m here!

I think you forgot one option and how I see it is the most important one. I want the size that gives me the most pleasure in all aspects of sex. I want a hard dick that looks and feel big. I want my women to react on it and I want her to remember my dick. I want it to feel tight in here pussy and I want to satisfy her. And if she feel that her pussy have been used after sex that would be nice.

What if she doesn’t like any of that? Get a new woman?

I’m 100% on board with doing what makes me feel best. For me, that is being the best lover I think I can be. If I think being bigger will help that, as I do with my wife, then I’ll try to get bigger. If my wife had different proclivities, I wouldn’t be here trying to grow. My pleasure is best found in her pleasure. That may not be the case for everyone though.

The closest we have to this, is a study done in 2015 that has been referenced many times in many threads on to.

Women’s Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models - PMC

They asked women what their ideal penis size is for:
-one night stand
-long term partner

and to make things more realistic, instead of asking them for a number (where previous partners exaggerating size, or their own spatial estimation skill level would bias the results), they presented them with a bunch of differently sized blue “penises” and let them examine, feel, and hold them.

The results were almost the same:
Ideal penis size for a one night stand: length: 6.4 girth: 5.0
Ideal size for long term relationship: Length: 6.3 girth: 4.8

The results seem realistic because they are definitely above the average size, and a bit larger than the most popular dildos, the one night stand size is bigger than the long term relationship size (excitement of novelty vs. what you enjoy on a regular basis), and at the same time it’s not unrealistically large like the fabled “8x6” .

That seems realistic and I guess 6.3 is NBPEL witch would be like 7.4 BPEL because women don’t know about bonepress. They estimate size from what they have seen with there eyes and felt with their hands.
And 5 girt in a dildo feels much bigger than 5 in on a real penis.

I disagree about BPEL. Women are smart enough, and have enough close and personal interaction with penises to know and realize that the “useful” length of a penis includes most of what is hidden by the fat pad.

Let’s split the difference and say 7” BPEL ;)

From my personal experience, as well as anecdotal reports from others, most women enjoy grinding against your pubic bone, both when they’re on top, and when you are. It provides added clitoris stimulation.
In order for that to be pleasurable, again, for most women, they need to be able to accommodate your entire BPEL. Not just your NBPEL.

This study is definitely the best one that I have also seen.As the women involved could actually hold and feel the fake penises instead of just guessing a number.
The old 8" x 6" is definitely a guys ideal size not the vast majority of most women’s ideal size.

If you go to thevisualiser.net, 1. You can see the moderator’s preference; 2. You can see women members’ preference; and 3. You can see preferences from studies. This is partially how I got my goal of 7.5” (19 cm) by 6.3” (16 cm).

This is a good website, but if you join as a member your size is stuck to the initial. I prefer to use the guest visualiser.

Ideal size for good sex, physiologically is from 13-16cm, in avg vaginas goes from 11-13cm…now what matters the most is not lenght but the girth, plus vaginas have more sensitivity from 2-6cm from the entrance, and remember if a finger can give a lot of pleasure, why a 9-11cm penis couldn’t?? Mine is 18cm BP haven’t been constant in my PE process so i have just gained 5 ml

Do you usually have to leave 5-7 cm of your shaft out in the cold then?

You make these assumptions out of nowhere. I don’t think what you say is accurate at all.

I agree.

Please motivate your opinion why you think I’m wrong.

I tried to make a logical conclusion based on the numbers in the rapport.

I don’t know whether or not the average woman thinks about or considers how much shaft is buried underneath the fat pad, but I know for a fact that many if not most women are aware of the fat pad and it’s effect. Some years back I was the only guy who worked with about 10 women, and they were all college age. They talked about sex a lot while we were working and overall I found it a remarkably illuminating time in my life. One of the conversations all of the girls present came to a consensus that they preferred guys who were just a little chubby in the sack. Not fat, just dad-bod type. According to them, a bit of padding down there made grinding on a guy feel much better. They were all over the place on what body type they found most attractive, but they all agreed on that part. Interestingly, one thing that never came up while I was there was any conversations about dick size. Maybe because they simply assumed that it might be a sensitive subject around a guy, but they discussed all sorts of wildly inappropriate things without any concern as to my presence. I suspect they just didn’t really care that much. They had no problem talking about how this guy was great in bed or that guy was crap. One thing that did get mentioned repeatedly was when a guy’s junk was smelly. Hygiene is #1 my friends.