What stops you from finishing jelqing

Hi guys.
What stops you from finishing a Jelq?

I always have this problem that stops me from finishing a Jelq Session. My penis doesn’t realise I am trying to help it, but seems to think some lady is on it because it wants to share some white goo with her. Sorry to use that analogy but it seems slightly less dirty then the word cum.

Is this normally what stops guys finishing there Jelqing sessions or is just me?

I could never reach ejaculation while jelqing, I usually only stop if I have to do something in a hurry.

Perhaps you should try the edging approach, where you jelq until You begin to experience ejaculation, but stop and let things cool down, then continue. Doing that wil allow your body to get used to the idea, and as a bonus it will help you last longer when doing the real thing.

Jelqing is not masturbation, your unit should not be confusing it for a woman…

If you find it too arousing, you could try Dry Jelqing. You are also probably Jelqing too quickly, try making the stroke last a 3-5 second count. In either case, you are probably Jelqing at way too high an erection level: try it at a much lower level of arousal. If you feel yourself getting excited, just stop until it subsides again.

All the best.

Ok I already am performing dry jelq and strokes are from 3-5 seconds. But I do get very hard after jelqing for a while is this normal?

It’s normal. If you get too aroused just stop and try not to think about it for a while. When you get used to jelqing, your mind will get used to the idea that you’re not touching your penis to masturbate, and you will be able to stay only partly erect.

I agree: totally normal, especially if you are new to the process. I never get hard from Jelqing anymore but I do get a very full flaccid. If you find yourself getting anywhere over, say, 70% erect, then back off for a bit. Watch the weather report or something. Do you have any problem with the other PE? (Premature Ejaculation)

I slightly the opposite. I am having trouble keeping a 80% erection. It’s either fully erect when I want to jelq or it has trouble standing if I do soft strocks :S

Personally, I think it is better if you can learn to Jelq soft (I usually do it at less than 30%). Relative to your normal flaccid, there is a much higher percentage of expansion. It also provides a simultaneous stretch. You can do it without stimulation. There is much less chance of injury. And for me, I feel more like I’ve had a workout afterwards.