When does being too thick cause problems?

I’ve been pumping with a 2” cylinder and really enjoying the post-pump temporary gains. After last session I measured a legit 6.25” MEG without it feeling very ‘spongy’. Honestly though, holding and viewing my dick at that size was intimidating! I felt like I would actually be nervous to hook up with a girl if my dick was normally that thick.

That got me to wondering- when does thickness actually cause problems for hooking up? I was 5.25” MEG (5.75” BEG) when I was most sexually active, and I got a couple of compliments on being big, and one girlfriend even said I was almost too big for her. I’m 5.4” MEG now and my goal is 5.8”. I’ve noticed that it seems like a lot of the very thick dudes on this site are married, and I think that makes it easier to make sure you aren’t overdoing it.

For the thick single guys out there, has your girth ever caused girls to not want to have sex and/or made it not very enjoyable for them? It would be interesting to hear if that changed as you got thicker through PE.

Big Girth - The Downside

Try the search function. There are many many posts on this.

I think with size in general after a certain size extra size can start being problematic. In fact more modest dudes can even get some action larger dudes can’t. For example my wife’s ex had a genuine 9 x 5 inch cock, and when my wife tried anal with him for the first time she almost jumped to the ceiling, but apparently he rammed it up her all at once.

Now many years after that experience I come along with my average 6x5 (although my bellend was probably about 6) and when I asked if anal was on the menu my wife was totally against the idea, probably due to her ex. But eventually, my wife became somewhat of a backdoor connoisseur and got to the point where she found vaginal sex boring as her anal orgasms were way more intense, an ex wife was like that as well. I used to warm my current wife up with my dick for 5 minutes and then I used to make her beg for her 8x6 up her arse, and she took it all relatively easy. She was in ecstasy.

So, I’ve gone off point somewhat, but I just wanted to state that sometimes average dick gets a green light, probably more than huge cock, with the average woman at least. Of course it depends on your partner’s experience. But, generally speaking, I’d say for the average woman they would think a 6 inch girth cock was a challenge and most women would struggle at approaching 7 inch. After all, 7 inch is the girth of my wrist!

I’m not going to be greedy, I’ve always said a 8x6 cock is hard to beat, that’s if you like to be ball deep at any rate. It’s something I know I can achieve, but I can see on reaching ‘perfection’, that I’ll want to go beyond, as PE is the most addictive thing I’ve ever done in my life, and trust me when I say that I’ve done some addictive shit in my plus half century on this human infested rock.

Indeed, where would wanting more size stop? If you reached 10 inches, you’d probably then want a 1 foot (12 inches) dick. And, I believe, that 10 inches is the biggest cock I’ve ever viewed, and that was on here. As for Jonah Falcon, he’s a complete fraud, he’s 10 inches, if that. And the foreskin guy has a 6 inch flaccid. I read that someone was once offering 10k if they could prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that they were packing 10 inches. But if you’re thinking of mwxing out somebody else’s pleasure - more size, isn’t always a good thing. Just a thought.

Thank you so much for that link, Don Logan. What an amazing thread.

I will try to do better next time searching, but I had poked around in the past on this issue and just never ran across that particular thread. Having read through it, I feel like 5.8” is still pretty close to ideal for me, in that it will unquestionably be considered ‘big’ but will be unlikely to cause problems. I’ll keep that as my goal and hopefully reach it soon. If it get married again I can always do more PE or pump if the wifey needs more :)

In my best days, I get a rock solid 6.4 inches girth in the mid shaft. And I really mean rock solid. But on sexual perspective, I just knew how thick that is when I discovered Thunders.

I receive compliments every now and than, but not always, some women just look at my cock as another average (maybe because my glans are 4.7 inches?). Anal is difficult for most women I got with, but some can handle it even when it’s her first anal ever (I really don’t care about anal, I like pussy). Anyway, for me, female satisfaction always comes by the effort in satisfying them. I never felt my cock plays a important role in their satisfaction. It’s all about the motion of ocean in my own experiences.

If you ask me, I would love to get to 7+ inches girth. I believe that is a life changer size, but I don’t know because it’s an experience I never had.. When I’m rock solid hard I definitely hear more moans but it never made any woman cum harder of faster because of that. Some women, but not all of them, may feel sore with long sessions sex. That makes technique even more important, she must have as many orgasms as she can before she feels sore. Again, in my own experience, female pleasure is all about how I do things and how we connect.

I’m here because I also want to remembered by something that is beyond technique and personality.

So, if anal sex isn’t important to you, max out your girth. Don’t be afraid. I have nothing special to tell about my girth. My 6.4 inches girth is not too girthy for any woman I got laid. Believe me, I’m a 5’7” (171cm) tall and I’ve been with girls from less than 5’ (152cm) up to 5’10” (178cm) tall and even the tiniest one never complain about it’s being too thick. The only complain I received is one time a young bitch said it was not long enough, but we discovered how to make her cum from G spot stimulation and size wasn’t a problem anymore. Compliments are good to hear, but it doesn’t mean nothing if you don’t know what you are doing. I know that because I struggled with female pleasure when I started my sex life. I had to learn a lot till I get what I want from sex.