Where do I begin??

Hey guys- I am overwhelmed by all that I am reading. I have just discovered PE and am ready to try. My problem is I am sooooo busy and don’t have time to read all that is out there. My situation is this- I have 2 kids and am happily married. I am currently about 4.75” when hard. My wife and I usually spend about 30-40 minutes when we have sex. The problem is that I cannot bring her to climax on a consistent basis. I have great control when it comes to ejaculating but you can only hold it for so long. I am guessing that PE might be able to hellp me correct that. I don’t know what my girth is- I would guess about 3.5 to 4”. So if I increase in size I would expect that this will help in lovemaking- a guy she was with for several years could get her done without problems. I recently began taking enzyte- not knowing for sure how it would help me. I have read about hand jelq- takes too long - so I thought I would get the Power Jelq that I found on the net. I am not so sure about the hangning thing though- seems a little extreme right now.

My point being this-
I don’t have really great internet access because of my work schedule. So is there naybody out there that would be willing to take me under there wing and help me get started and saty with me through this process?? Perhaps a PE “coach”. I am open to any help or guidance. thanks guys!!

Hey bd,

Welcome to the forum. First, read the thread directly above this one. Then take the time to post a mentor request (it can take a while to get hooked up with a mentor, so be patient).

Hi bdcarroll,

Welcome to the forum. If you make a post; lots of people will usually reply with very helpful advice, and probably quicker than any one person as there is always tons of people online here! There is also the search that is very useful.

Another note: PE takes a long time, don’t expect super quick results by starting hardcore, if you don’t take it easy you will be out of action for more time than you will be able to PE. Just a tip, you seem to have read well around the subject, and so you should be on your way to gains soon.

Good luck,

Melvin.

p.s. Its probably a very good idea to make some accurate measures, and put them in Size’s Database, Figuring out your LOT may also help your length gains.

BD,

Listen to Thunder and Melvin. These guys have the most information and this is what you need if you’re serious about PE.

Horsehung

Hey men,

Thanks for the replies!! I will try to get started this weekend- I think I will try the Jelq by hand and see how that goes. I did some accurate measuring this morning. These numbers are all based on fully erect state:

length= 5” exactly
girth= 5” in the middle
head= 4.8”
base girth= 4.7”
LOT= 6:00 (straight down)
There is a lot of pull at every other angle- I think based on what Bib wrote that is a good thing, right?

One othere piece of adcvice that I would like is on explaining this to my wife- or should I let her figure it out as I begin to gain. If I start now I could probably have significant gains by our 10 year anniversary- wouldn’t that make a nice gift?!?

Check out ‘A Newbie Primer’ in the articles section. This is an excellent composition of threads compiled by Ike which will help you on your way. In it is a newbie routine that takes about 45 minutes 4 to 6 days a week. Do not think you are going to get results without putting any time and effort into this. You are going to have to make up your mind to find the time. I also have a very busy schedule between work, a very long commute, and am the primary care giver to my 4 year old. If I can find the time so can you.

-Mugwomp

BD: discussing with your partner, there are two angles.
If you can PE stealthily without her knowing; do it. On the other hand if you need time to PE and you have a supportive wife you could tell her.

Seems you under estimated your length and girth, and thats a good starting girth. :)

35-40 minutes isn’t too shabby. I can’t go for more than 20 minutes if I haven’t been laid in a few days. Then there’s days I can bang for hours, if need be. My wife climaxes pretty easily though.

I just saw an Enzyte infomercial on TV the other night and the way they were playing on the”average” guys fears. Assholes. Do PE, and use herbal supplements that promote virility and sexual health, and you will be so much farther ahead. Don’t fall into that, “Your dick is too small, our pills will correct that” trap.

They have found a cash cow, and they are lining up in droves to milk it.

Oscar,

What herbal supplements do you recommend?? I have been reading up on several and VigRx seems to come out on top in most studies.

Hey Thunder- where do I get one of those mentors?? I would like to have someone to talk to regularly about all this stuff.

Also, has anyone ever talked with their own son about PE?? My kid is very young but I know he will be smaller like me. I want to be able to help him out when the time is right. any suggestions??

Thanks guys- it is great to have other guys to share thoughts and feelings like this without any inhibitions.

The link is in the thread I asked you to read first.

There’s a whole forum section devoted to supplementation with much more information than I could ever give you. You might not see it as of yet until your post count goes up, but it’s a very informative section.

I’ve actually adopted some ideas from it. If you have any specific questions, I’d be glad to answer them, but remember 2 things.

1. I’m pretty sleep deprived, almost to the point of justifying narcoleptic episodes.
2. I’m basically an idiot when I’m awake.

Cya.

I wouldn’t say anything until he is 18 at least. The only way you can know that your kid will turn out to have a smaller dick than you is to acquire a time machine.

bdcarroll,

You don’t say whether your measurement is bone pressed erect length (bpel) or stopping at the skin. PEers measure bpel because it is more accurate for keeping up with progress and because a person’s gain or loss of weight (fat pad)shouldn’t be involved in penis length measuring. Good luck on your gains!

The absolute best herbal supplement is Stamina RX. It is the closest thing to Viagra out there. You can do a search for it on yahoo and will find their site. I think it is The domain name staminarx.com is for sale | Dan.com. I assure you this is a VERY good herbal product.