Originally Posted by slash
Most guys lose their erection after orgasm. Any girls I’ve talked to certainly expect that. I’m pretty sure there is nothing wrong with you. Kegels can give you the ability to have an orgasm without releasing any semen. In theory you don’t lose the erection.
Hmm. In PRACTISE you can certainly feel incredible orgasms, without ejaculating and still be at full erection. You can achieve orgasms so strong they are what are acknowledged as ‘full-body orgasms’. I have experienced this once, though it wasn’t a full body orgasm per se, rather it was this very pleasurable, overwhelming warm tingling feeling up the centre of my spine. From what I have heard it is possible (over time) to achieve the same feeling all over the body.
Find a P2P program and download the ebook: ‘The Multi Orgasmic Man’. This book is in essence a modern translation/explanation of the Chinese ‘chi’ art Taoism, which basically instructs the reader to control his sexual energy. For example, I have total control on when I become erect. It is possible of course to find all the information in this book (or most of it) right here on Thunders or alternatively on the Net somewhere.
Toaism is alike the art Tai Chi, though instead of controlling the chi energy in movement through the joints, it’s controlling the chi energy during love making or masturbation or through the sexual organs. Fascinating read. I can tell you from personal experience that all this is true, and very possible to achieve. It took me around a year of on and off PC muscle exercises to get to the point of complete and utter control that I have now. However you can start seeing evidence of superior control and strength weeks after starting the exercises, depending on diet and other variables.
I’d just like to add I never knew of Toaism when I first started kegeling. Toaism is relatively new to me. The book is an assortment of many things I have learned over the years, (including edging) and I highly recommend it. If you are interested, there are many other books on the art around on Amazon. Just one last point: edging itself can increase the strength of the PC muscle.