Who remains hard beyond orgasm,as Luvdavus said

I am a newbie to this forum and I have mostly researched answers to questions rather than waste the time of vets by asking what has been answered before.However,there is something I was unable to find an answer to:In the thread “Collected wisdom from the vets and good gainers”,Luvdavus noted at the beginning of his narrative that he started PE because he lost his ability to remain erect after blowing his load.My question is:is it possible to remain erect after orgasm?Is it that way with healthy males?I’m unable to do this and I wonder if something is amiss down there.

Can anyone shed light on this please?

Most guys lose their erection after orgasm. Any girls I’ve talked to certainly expect that. I’m pretty sure there is nothing wrong with you. Kegels can give you the ability to have an orgasm without releasing any semen. In theory you don’t lose the erection.

Orgasm with ejaculation = loss of woody for me. Recovery time about 30 minutes.

Orgasm without ejaculation (extremely rare) = partial loss of erection, but potential to recover to 100% very quickly (a couple minutes) with a little foreplay

Slash,

I didn’t know one could have a dry orgasm.How long do you have to practice Kegels to acquire this awesome ability?

Thanks.

RoomToGrow,

Did Kegels give you the dry orgasm ability or were you born with it?

Anyone who can shed more light on this will be appreciated.

I guess something is wrong with me then I can rasch wet orgasm and still maintain an erection and have been able to do so since I lost my virginity . I always thought it was normal to be able to stay hard. Since starting PE I have noticed that it seems harder after the first load is out and then by the time the second one comes I am ready to go to sleep.

hmmm maybe that is why my wife married me ?

My first wife used to take the pill. When I would “blow my load” I would just keep going. I never really thought about it, but after talking to many men, I have never really talked to anybody that would not have trouble maintaning an erection. I guess I`m blessed! I remember when I was dating,I had a girlfriend that would go for hrs., NONSTOP! I went right along with her, sometimes ejaculating multiple times, in those few hrs..
I`m a little older now, The “unit” may be up to a few hrs. of bumping uglys. I just dont know if I am in good enough shape to go that long. lol

P.S. I will be in the dating game,again,soon. I have sent the second wife on her way. I have started taking PE serious now. First because of my new found freedom, second, now I have the privacy to do so. Before there was no way I would have the privacy.

Well I wrote a big long reply and then my internet crapped out on me, so I will summarize. About three years ago I was able to stay hard after cumming. I could cum and then walk around for minutes with a raging erection. I needed that ability though cause I usually cum within 6 seconds :( but the girls love it when I stay rock hard. Like slash said, I think most girls don’t expect you to stay hard and I think most guys don’t. Now I can only stay hard after I cum if I keep it stimulated, so the girl has to keep suckin, strokin, or fuckin. Once the stimulation stops, I go down like a ton of bricks. I can usually get it hard again within 5-10 minutes, but sometimes the girl has lost interest by then. I think kegels help a lot with keeping your erections hard after cumming. Another big factor, I believe, is cardio workouts. Three years ago, I used to run a lot in football and track & field but now-a-days I don’t. I believe the cardio work helps promote better blood flow in your entire body including your schlong. That’s the only thing I’ve changed in the past three years and it makes since to me. It can’t hurt either. Alright, good luck on gains!

Just a thought:maybe men who had vasectomy have only dry orgasms and are able to remain hard.

I think they are talking about the ability to squeeze your PC muscle (by performing a kegel) right before you orgasm. That way the kegel holds the sperm in but you still have the feeling of orgasm. I know that you must have an extremely strong and well developed PC muscle to perform this maneuver :) You need good control as well. Hope that helps.

I am able to continue to have an erection after orgasm ever time I have sex. The thing is that one time haveing sex latly I didnt stay up and since then whenever I think about it alot after I blow my load I will loose my erection and will be unable to get up for a bit.

Losing an erection after orgasm is normal.

For me, it depends on whether or not I want to continue after the orgasm. If there is still stimulation and the urge to keep going, the erection will not subside. If the game is over, then my erection will go out for coffee and a cigarette. (:

Thanks so far,guys.More ideas welcome.

I am with grx, if she’s still ready to go I can stay hard for several. Although after 2 or 3 I think I just shoot airLOL. Or if it is an extreemly sweaty session, I’ll have to get up and jump in the pool.

I’m not sure how long for sure because the ability comes gradually. I practiced slowly at first. In the beginning I would just reach orgasm and then stop moving my hand, attempting to squeeze hard enough to prevent ejaculation. Gradually I worked toward holding off without stopping my hand. By doing this, not only could I prevent ejaculation, but I could have the orgasm itself come in multiple waves.

Isnt this what multiple male ograsms means?

And yea I could do it back when I was 14-16, I’m not talking about sex back then but when I whacked off. I could go 3 times in a row