Your measurements & actual responses from women

Thanks Nicholas and Titleist! Excellent advice from both of you. I am going to give her some time to adjust and see how that works out. If after a few months she still says that’s her limit, I will seek to just make sure my gains are cemented, but not go any bigger. I can’t let feeding my ego override what my wife wants or I will have a huge dick that never gets used! What good is that?!

I have never asked a woman to remotely validate my dick size. When they make comments it’s their free will.

I also don’t think any woman would appreciate my honest assessment of the tightness of her pussy compared to previous women. Can any of you guys imagine the result of that discussion?

Lol I get the exact same responses and I’m the same size as you. Perfect, slow down, occasionally to deep, not the biggest.

Oh the latest one which I don’t like is “your sooo hard” I feel like it’s a cop out sometimes it’s like she wanted to say your so big but thought he’s not huge.:..anyway maybe I’m looking to much into it.

Unless you are content just masturbating or plan to cheat or divorce your wife, it makes no sense to ignore her requests for “no more”.

Also, it’s really pretty selfish and narcissistic, in my opinion.

Some girls prefer it moderate sized but rock hard compared to larger and softer. The hardness turns them on. I am guessing she genuinely loves it.

I agree with NicholasVan

This is definitely a complement. I love it when my wife says it. She has commented many times how much she likes it rock hard.

The OP is asking for original size and comments from women. I can count them on one hand more or less.

Before starting PE I was maybe around 6.75” BPEL / 4.5” EG. None of my partners in my early 20’s made any remarks, though they always seemed to enjoy sex with me and had one partner even ask if we could continue fucking on the regular after I broke with her. (I gently told her no.)

The first time I hit a woman’s cervix, she was on top and really slamming down on me. Her eyes rolled back in her head and she gasped. “Can we switch?” she asked, and after coming hard in missionary she whispered that she didn’t want to get on the plane the next day.

The first time a partner actually told me “it’s huge” we were on ecstasy, cuddling and talking and I confessed that I while I never had a reason to be unsatisfied with my size, I still harbored some anxiety that it wasn’t big enough. She took my face in her hands, stared into my eyes, and said, “are you kidding me. It’s huge.” “really?” I replied. She gave me an incredulous look, like how-do-you-not-know, and nodded.

The next partner, I hit her cervix maybe the second or third time we had sex, right at the beginning in the missionary position. I felt it happen at the same time she jumped in shock. I froze and asked if she was ok. “Yeah.. It hurt but it was more.. Surprising,” she replied. I promised to be gentle and started moving slowly inside her. She relaxed and after a few seconds murmured, “that’s never happened. I guess you’re big huh.”

We continued seeing each other for almost two years. She didn’t say anything about my size for almost that entire time until one night we had been out in DC and frankly were both pretty drunk. I could get hard but had a really difficult time feeling like I could orgasm. I fucked her so hard and so long she left scratches down my back and above my waist. I don’t remember exactly what she said (the booze) but it was something about “keep fucking me with your huge cock.”

All of this is prior to PE.

So about that. I’ve been consistent for a year and a half now and my stats are 7.125” BPEL / 5” EG.

My current partner calls it “perfect” and loves saying “you’re so hard”, “I really feel how hard you are in this position.”

Reading this thread I think the bottom line is every woman is different. Some will orgasm from vaginal sex, some won’t. I’ve had partners that orgasmed moments after I would penetrate them, others I’d have to go down on for a while before they would orgasm. How big your cock is won’t suddenly make them orgasm from sex. I’m not saying it will never happen, you might get lucky and be the one that hits her in all the right places while her feet aren’t cold and she’s super turned on mentally by you. Just because you have 8x6 doesn’t make it a guarantee.

The best thing you can do is be confident in your size and EQ. Get out of your own head and be present.

I’ve had women go on about previous partners and how huge their cocks were, then get on top of me and break a sweat orgasming multiple times.

It’s about you, her, and the wholly unique sex that happens when you’re together.

Amen.

Well said.

You must have missed the part where I said it was my ego and insecurity that wants to go bigger, but that I wouldn’t let that override my wife’s desires or I would end up with a huge dick that’s useless.

I appreciate good advice like titleist and Nicholas gave. Not name calling and value judgments. I think most of us are here because we wanted to get bigger, help with EQ or improving other characteristics of our penis. Our reasons are what they are. Are you selfish and narcissistic for wanting to be bigger? I can’t and won’t judge you for that. You do you. I’ll do me.

Can’t really comment on the subject. I have only been with two ladies. The one was before PE and thought I was big already. The other was with me through my PE journey and didn’t say much about my size. Now that I am single and ready to put myself out there again, I would like to come back with a little more feed back.

Pre PE i was 7×6.2”…

Ive had many comments on how i fill them up and hit spots they have never had hit before… being educated i knew i was hitting the cervix, posterior and anterior fornix… however, another thing is that just hitting these areas is not going to make a woman acream with porn like orgasam… you have to have the skills and know how to work that slab you are packing… in my experience this not achieved by pounding as hard and fast into her cervix as ya can… watch her body language, her resperations, the color of her skin, the sounds she makes…

Some nice gains there👍

I apologize. I did not mean to come off so abrasive but I guess that I did.

In answer to your question , the PE is more for me than for my wife but I doubt if she minds the physical difference. She does seem to be annoyed by the “obsession”, however. She said that I am like a 13 year old kid who just discovered that he has a dick LOL!