Your measurements & actual responses from women

I think you are spot on here. Your dick is over average but it’s not big enough to comment on as big or huge. I guess you heard "nice" or "perfect fit" on numerous occasions just like I have heard over the years before PE. If you get to a legit 7 NBPEL I’m sure you will here the "big" word from most women. There is a line there between 6-7 NBPEL or 7-8 BPEL where you go from nice to big. Combine that with your girt at 5.5 or even if you can reach 6 then you have a real weapon. Good luck!

I see you were very similar to me in length at the start and use the metric system too, which is great ;-D. You are exactly right with your comments of “the perfect fit”! I have heard “the perfect size” etc quite often if I think about it.
And jokingly I said “right, not too big, not too small”. But in all honesty, I wanted her to say “it is very big” and not “it’s the ideal size”. Or even better “wow, this is big ” :-D.
Your two measurements are exactly what I’m looking for as one major goal of two. 7 Inches NBPEL and 6 inches girth.
On the other hand, to the guys who really want to be “the biggest she ever had” or some lofty goals. If you start with 7 inches NBPEL like some freaks here, ok, this goal is realistic and I wish you best of luck.
But if you start with the complete average of 5.5 inches BPEL, you are stretching the reality a bit IMHO.
I’m still a beginner and everybody has different genetic potential, but conservatively I would say 2 inches is what you could expect if you really dedicate yourself and do most things right for years.
And at 7.5 inches BPEL you might not be the biggest or you might, depends on luck a bit. I don’t have the goal to be “the biggest she ever had” because IMHO that would only be possible with high certainty
If I really reach the 2 inches of growth and a decent growth in girth, maybe 0.8 inches or more. Again, if the goal to be the absolute size monster drives you and makes you happy, I encourage you guys.
But I would stay very humble at first and think about 1 inch of gain and then maybe 1.5 or 2 inches maximum. Else, you could be disappointed.

There’s always going to be someone _______ than you. Fill in the blank: smarter/taller/wealthier/nicer looking and don’t forget has a bigger dick. Don’t let that consume you. Control what you can control.

You may not be her biggest but you can be her best, and I’d say that is much more important.

Well said.

My pre-PE measurements were 6.75x5.875, 6 inches at the base. I’ve always been a big dude, and chubby for much of my life, so my NBP length ranged between 5 and 6 most of the time. I’ve only had one time, thankfully, when a girl flat out said I was too small. It was a horrible feeling of course, but tempered by the fact that that I had already had not one but two relationships end because I was too thick and we could not find a way to make sex pleasurable. Even with the certain knowledge that I was not actually too small, it still sucked to hear.

I’ve had very few comments about my size before penetration, probably due to the fact that I am such a big guy so proportionally I do not look impressive. A few of the girls I’ve been with commented on how stretched out they felt by me during it after, but most really don’t seem to notice it care. Most of the girls that I’ve known are a lot more interested in how many orgasms you can bring them than in exactly how you got them there.

This is the reason people talk about “the motion of the ocean”. Being bigger doesn’t make you a better person, a better man, or even a better lover. It gives you a different set of tools to please her with. A guy with 8 inches can do things that a guy with 5 inches simply can not do. Doesn’t mean he knows how to do those things, or that he does them well. Doesn’t mean she wants those particular things either. A guy with 5 can do certain things that a guy with 8 can’t, in some situations anyway.

Everybody who’s here has the same goal. We all want to be bigger, and all for our own reasons. But if that reason is to please a woman, getting bigger isn’t going to do that. Not on it’s own anyway. The absolute most important thing a guy can do is to learn to use what he’s got. Those skills will still serve you well if you get bigger. The problem is, if you never learned how to handle yourself at 5 inches, you don’t have a prayer when you’re swinging 8 around. You’re just more likely to hurt yourself or your partner in the process.

The funny thing is, if you do really learn to use what you’ve got, you may find the drive to get bigger doesn’t feel so important. I know I’m already well above average, so maybe it’s easy for me to say, but if I never gained any more than I have already I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it.