Originally Posted by 3236148PRES
Hey I am new here. Just started PE. Since most guys have not seen a large number of men with erections (flaccid at gym does not count), we base the view of large on what we see in porn. Most porn stars are very large, but obviously there are quite a few large men out there who choose not to do porn. As far as amateur sex sites.if you were average to small, would you post pics of yourself having sex? Probably not, so this is an inaccurate representation. Now on to the studies.would you allow them to measure you if you were small? Again not a true random sample. Anyway, I am 7” BP X 5.75” EG Mid and 6” EG Base, and with a large mushroom head I am 6.5” there. I have been with over 100 women, and even at this size I would say I have only had truly no holds barred sex with 25% of them. The rest I had to be careful with not hitting a cervix or jamming it in before really wet. Had quite a few say there was blood after wiping. If I was any longer I would not be able to penetrate completely in most women. For a woman to orgasm there must be some level of pubic to pubic contact.
So you may ask, with my thoughts above, why am I interested in PE? LOLL After three kids my wife is not as tight as she used to be, so I would like to get my mid shaft girth up to about what my head is. This would give me a tighter fit. She says that I don’t need too.but I want too. Is there a way to enlarge the shaft and not the head? Any ideas let me know. I wanted to start a new thread but I guess being new this is not allowed.
Peace.
Welcome.
Since no one answered your question..
I think the head is the hardest to change. That is what people say, I think myself my head got a little elongated, and I saw some pics of other members who had a similar thing. But for girth of the head, it seems very hard to change. It’s the shaft that people have the big success with, and given that is what you want to make wider/thicker.. you are in luck. :) The standard girth exercises of jelqing, clamping, pumping should work ok. But if you are new, start out slow and don’t overtrain too early. Ease into it with the newbie routine.
Btw, for length, I’m like you in that I like the pubic to pubic contact. If you take away the anxiety feelings of being small, I think the smaller guys have alot more fun during sex, especially if the girl is on top and rides and them grinds away without fear of being poked somewhere that hurts. Compared to the big guy, who has to worry not to put half an inch too much, and always has to keep that barrier between the pubic areas (or pain). You even see it in porn sometimes, where the guy goes past that barrier and the girls face scrunches up in pain.