8" x 6" and not happy??

This thread is 7 years old, but I am going to post to it anyway.

I have been blessed with a natural hang of 8 x 6.5 inches. I have never thought, until recently, that I was above average by very much. It is with reading threads and posts here that I have come to realize that my measurements puts me in the realm of a very small minority.

I have been with just over 10 women in my life. Only one of them refused penetration by my unit. That was many years ago, and that young woman was a prostitute in San Juan, Puerto Rico. There was another prostitute in San Juan who could not get enough of my unit. If she saw me in a local bar, she would be all over me.

I had never experienced any of the others having difficulty in accepting the entire length. I have had several comment about my thickness.

When I first signed on here last November (2012) I had selected a length goal of 9 inches with no change in girth. I still feel that way now nearly 8 months later.

I have experience very little size gain, but have experienced gain in EQ as well as much reduction in ED. I am now waking in the mornings with about a 75% erection nearly every morning. I am also capable of edging for periods of between 20 and 45 minutes. I definitely count this as a plus for PE.

I agree with most of the people here, happiness is a mind thing. Having a bigger penis will not magically change your brain.

My penis was average, it is now pratically 8x6 and I am not happier. I still suffer from lack of self esteem. The consequence is that I can’t enter in a long or even midterm relationship.

However, the pleasure during sex has increased of about 300%.

I have been with dozens of women these years. And here is what I have got in term of satisfaction with this supposed gold standard :

- very unsatisfied with 30% of them : half whom I have not been able to penetrate (penis too large), the other half that were size queens (I was swimming in their vagina);
- not satisfied with 20% of them : I was not enough filling them or they had a weird vagina,
- quite satisfied with 20% of them;
- satisfied with 20% of them;
- very satisfied with 10% of them!

I am only concerned about my pleasure here.

When I was very satisfied i was fully filling them.

I have never got issues with the length (I mean not too long), only the girth.

To be satiated with most of the women, the pefect size according to my experience would be 9.3x7.2 (BP).

Of course it is a crazy goal, it would be smarter to cure my mind, to work on myself and learn to be happy. For the moment I am not able to stop this quest to have more pleasure.

True, it’s a state of mind but it’s about what you want for yourself - and there’s nothing wrong with that. My size would be regarded as being on the ‘huge’ side at 8x6.5, but for me, I don’t see it. I know what the tape measure says but I also know what I ultimately want it to say. I don’t have self-esteem issues and if I never gained another millimeter, I’d be okay with it. But, having said that, I have a desire for a larger cock; I have a size goal in mind and I know that just wishing for it isn’t gonna make it so. It takes effort and work to get there.

Some days I see my erect unit and reflect on my growth and I’m happy, and other days I’m frustrated by the plateau I’m stuck in and want so much to keep growing, if even a 1/4”.

It’s like being stuck in a traffic jam and being relieved to be finally on a side road but moving again.

And then there are days where the extra dick has me smiling at every turn.

A-unit, may i ask what your MEG gains have been?

I didn’t measure girth when I started, but probably 1/2” or so mid-shaft. Difficult to be precise though so I won’t make wild claims.

Where I have seen an inch or more in gain is in base girth, much of it due to increased EQ I’m sure, but the unit is much bigger than it was three and a half years ago.

Thanks a lot.

I’d love to have an 8x6. But at the same time if I ever achieved that goal, I would still probably seek to better it. I am doing this for myself and myself only though. It’s for my own personal enjoyment. Maybe it’s an unhealthy obsession, but I’ve always wished I had a huge cock. Something more fun for me to play with and something to allow me to pull off some porn star sex positions.

I am a bit shy, but once I get warmed up I don’t really have any confidence issues. Maybe I’m even a little over confident. That being said, and I’ve said this before, I am living proof that a hot woman will hook up with anyone. If you think having a big dick will get you more girls, it won’t. Maybe some skanks here and there but unless you walk around with your cock hanging out it’s really the last part of a woman’s decision to get in bed with you.

I’m past the holy grail of PE size but I’m not entirely satisfied with my unit, which I recognise is irrational but in spite of this I’m comfortable with it. I use my slight insecurities about it to make it bigger and better. Seeing the damn thing everyday of course is going to make it seem more average than it really is, my own bloody perception tricking me!

I am pretty much is the same boat as you are. I am very similar in size, but mine is 95% pre-PE.

So is most of my size. I made good length gains but I’m still undecided on whether it was from natural growth and some PE influence.

Another interesting point. Your birthday is the day after mine, but you are much younger that I am.

Wow if my penis was 8” I would never have gone to this site in the 1st place

I think I have to agree with you on this one. My wife finds I’m becoming the perfect size un pumped so I’ve had to modify my pumping routine to no more than 3 times a week. 1 “light” session and one monster session where I over pack at least 2-3 tubes and spend maybe 20-30mins in a say 2.75 x 10” tube.
I was just curious, where did you hear that about Janet Jackson, did she say it in an interview?
I personally haven’t taken measurements as I go by what I look like and I know what I want and will be happy when I reach it. But my ideal size in length and girth or at least close to it is Rocco Siffreddi who is quite large IMO and hard.

I’m spending a little more time almost every day jelqing each side of my shaft with the various grips as I’m trying to straighten my upwards curvature that I always had even as an early teen.

Most women I’ve been with, say that they prefer girth over length as the ideal length is no more than 9” long so I have no idea what us guys want here? If all the guys on the boards are going for like 10-11” long and 8-9” in girth, there should be a lot of regular Joe’s going into porn and blowing away the guys that are considered “big” with all of their cheap “camera angles” and the use of small/petite women.

The first porn my friends and I saw at around 14yrs old on Betamax was with none other than John Holmes (who never seemed to get fully hard probably all the drug use???). We thought this was normal and what all women wanted. That screwed us youngins up for awhile let me tell you. Then seeing Peter North who shoots and shoots forever it seems (celery apparently).

What’s helped my cock not to mention my over all mental/physical well being was going on a 5 day juice fast 8 juices a day, then reintroducing food by cutting down a lot on meat. Also keeping processed food to a low (not that we ate a lot to begin with mind you), exercising 3-4 times a week, getting enough sleep every night, keeping stress as low as possible.

I’ve found that watermelon and a watermelon juice (1 quarter watermelon, some basil and a lime) are amazing for over all circulation and my cock gets hard for hours LOL. It contains L-Citrulline amino acid which converts to Nitric Oxide in the body.

If anyone is interested in the juicing recipes and how to go about it let me know. But if you’re someone who isn’t in great health, too thin, or needs to loose a lot of weight it’s best to speak to your doctor first and be followed regularly.

I’ve been thinking about buying a juicer. Price is outrages on some of them. Could you recommend a decent juicer that’s doesn’t sound like a jet engine and is easy to clean?