8" x 6" and not happy??

I have seen guys here lately complaining about their
8” x 6” (+/-) dicks, being really unhappy about either girth or length, mostly girth.
This is strange, because I thought 8” x 6” was considered
the ultimate size and “everybody’s” goal.

What happened?

Are we getting greedy?
Trying to meet women’s new demands for the extreme?
Do we want dicks that scare women, that make their eyeballs pop out?
What happened to “big enough”?
Does that term even exist in this context?

Do we assume that all women are like Janet Jackson; “The bigger the better”?
That’s definitely not true!

Any opinions?

Ahund

At the moment 8 by 6 is what I am aiming for, and I know that is a pretty damn good size. But even when I imagine myself reaching that target as if I am in that moment, I still would think of myself as small compared to my friend who sports a 10” one so even in that situation of being 8 by 6 I’d still be dissatisfied :(

Well I cannot begin to understand why anyone cant be happy with that size.

I tried a cucumber on my Fiancee with those dimensions, she liked the girth but not the length. And also she could only put the tip in her mouth,so it is no good for blowjobs. She said she would not mind me to be like wurzel Gummage, but instead of changing heads,I could have a different sized dick for different purposes. The perfect size she thinks she would like is 7.5” x 5.5”, for sex and probably a 7” x 5” for a blowjob.

So there you have it I got to get myself two dicks, although she says mine is perfect.:D My current size is 6” x 5” so hopefully I will get there.

right back to the football.

Remember, Ahund, that when it comes to “cementing gains” 8x6 is not the end of the road.

If you’re growing up to a 8x6, then you have to go beyond to ensure the gains are not just temporary. Many guys also want an 8NBP, as opposed to an 8BPEL. All valid reasons, in my opinion to go for more gains.

GM

Very true Ahund! :up:

I’m still 8.5x6 but it is BP and since Ive gained about 25-30 pounds in the last 2 years, my NBP is 7.5 and I have to check the BP on occasion to to make sure I’m not losing any BP. I never think Im not big enough because I know that I am. I think one has to remind themselves that if you are near or about the gold standard then anything more is just gravy but can possibly be detrimental to your overall performance and limiting in terms of how many woman you can have sex with. So why bother getting more? The only exception to this would be a having a partner for whom 8x6 does not seem to do the trick then aside from investigating your sexual technique… you might want to ask yourself how much of size you will need to please her; In that case I would keep growing until she starts complaining that you are too big.

Fuck me super,can all the women you have had take it then. I must admit when I had the cucumber in my hands it looked hugh.

Gaining size and new abilities for the dick (endurence, etc.) is nice.

I always thought it was funny, you know: you ask a woman why she dresses nice and does makeup etc. And she says “I do it for myself!” . And I was like ,you know, “yeah-yeah..” :) . But come to think of it, now I ask myself “why do I grow my dick?” , I answer to myself:” Because I like it, for myself!” .. I don’t know if I’m dumb or not, really. :D

My opinion , for what it may be worth , is that as a persons self image changes , how we perceive ourselves changes as well . Like the old boiling frog concept , we become acclimated to slow , incremental changes , and it does not seem like a big deal to us that we have gained an inch or whatever in size . It often takes someone else telling us , ” you are huge !” To let us realize things have changed . There is also the danger of obsession , and all it takes is a visit to an extreme pumpers site , or watching that interview with the silicon injection guy , to see where that could lead . Having a goal is helpful , and reaching it is very rewarding , but stopping there , and putting away what has become a regular , daily , long term routine is a challenge unto itself . I think most people , upon reaching their goals , then set their sights a notch higher , and continue the process . I like the routine of P.E. , And the way I feel knowing I am packing some big wood , and hanging an impressive flaccid . I really never just masturbate now , I edge , but stop before orgasm , and am totally satisfied with that . I save my loads for my female friends ! :)

I do not want to be rude guys but in my private opinion when someone has ‘8x6’ and is not happy it means that problem lays in his head-not the pants.This is typical ‘male point of view’-which is ‘bigger, faster, further’. This is not what woman want! Most of all men’s problems come from ‘inside’-if you have problems with your psychology you will never be happy, even with ‘12x10’. We can not cure our psychology problems with our penises! It’s the same as with bodybuilding-I know people who have 40 cm in biceps(16 inches) and they still think “I am small-If I was a little bit more my life would be better!”(LOL). Of course we will find small percentage of woman who want BIG DICKS(more than 8x6) but this is minority-looking at this objectively.8x6 is far more than average and far more than typical women wants.Again-people who have problems with their own psychology and self-image should work with therapist-not the PE. Sorry all “big guys” :)

Working for a bigger penis is perfectly OK for me. Development is nice. But feeling unhappy or obsessed about size, that’s not good. I think that’s the whole thing.

And disi,
Wanting “bigger, better , and faster” is not a psychological problem: it is simply a characteristic of our male nature: we are competitive, and in search for development. You are right: women don’t behave that way. But here is the fact: women always choose strong and better developed men , over weaker ones. ;)

There is a fine balance here I think : working on it without obssesion.

I’m with Muscular Beaver and disi.

super and are great friends, but we fundamentally disagree on this point: the idea that 8 X 6 is a gold standard.

In reality this is a very large size. Statistically speaking both length and girth are on the high end of what the average woman can handle and enjoy. Not to say that they can’t accomodate it, and not that some don’t actually prefer it. But MOST women are interested in other things about their man as a matter of priority - they date YOU, not your dick. Most of the informal surveys that we’ve seen over the years bear this out. They want you to have a dick, they want it to work well, and they want you to last long enough and be attentive enough to make sex good for them. Size wise 6” - 7” inches in length seems very popular, with a bit of girth so they feel filled.

A 6” girth is a lot to put in your mouth. Blow jobs, already something that a lot of women have ambivalence about, are not made more desirable when confronted with a cock of this dimension (unless that is the woman in question’s particular fetish).

The idea that 8 X 6 is a ‘gold standard’ among women is just nonsense. When it comes to Matters Of Size 8 X 6 is a male ideal, not a female one. It is about our ego - which is why some guys achieve this unusually large size and remain unsatisfied.

Unless you are into size queens 8 X 6 is definitely on the high end of things.

It really has to do with our perception. Janet may sing “Bigger is better” for her it may be, but … we also don’t know what her personal scale is: it’s left to our imagination (the definition of ‘lyric’), it’s in our minds. Women tend to exaggerate this stuff and it feeds male insecurity.

You want an 8 X 6 or bigger, great! Do what you need to do, but don’t kid yourself: you are doing it for yourself. To shore up insecurity, to be competative with other men (or possibly to satisfy some size queen, I guess).

8 X 6 - not Happy.

Hmmm.
I like sex a lot, and I’m interested in women who think just like me. And I think they would love a 8 x 6 , or even more.. This is as simple as that for me.

This doesn’t mean that penis is the first priority for women, or one can’t have good sex with a smaller unit. It’s just that bigger is really better for the hot and wild kind of sex that I like. :D

Kaan,

I am of the same opinion. But I also admit that I would prefer to avoid embarrassing situations like in Gym Shower, Sauna and other placed where others see the flaccid dick.

I wonder how many percent of men have 8x6. I am glad if I reach my goal 7x5.5

Flaccid, smassid. No one can tell an 8X6 from a 6X5 flaccid. Some are showers some are growers. At some point you have to give up the self consciousness stuff and get on with life.

I’m very happy but I want to be even more happier:)