8" x 6" and not happy??

This quote was just below your post ssi. Kinda fits I think.

“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal. fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”

Robert A. Heinlein

Well I’m always impressed with your aviator’s until this last one. When are you changing that piece of crap anyway?

Avatar, Pud, avatar.

huff is on a self imposed break from the forum. I locked him out, at his request. Although I did give him the ability to view the Public Forums (howdy huff. :D ), so he may see this.

Again? Yeesh! It’s not even exam time… and his screen name halves every time he comes back.

We will have to start calling him “hu”, the next time… :noreally:

GM

He is interested in all things Asian.

Modify quote to:

“……..fight efficiently, die gallantly, no matter how big his dick is.”

I understand this whole self confidence angle to PE. I also know it has been said a million times before, but if you lack self confidence because of the size of your dick, then there is a 99% chance that the problem is not with your dick, but with your head.

I remember I was in the gym one time, and this guy told me he was saving up to buy a new Mustang.
“Once I have a better car I’ll be able to do better with women because I’ll have more confidence”.
I thought to myself “No you won’t”.
The problem with this guy was weakness in his character and a lack of self worth that would be easily sensed by women. A car, more muscles, or a bigger dick, were not the solutions to his problem.

People like that actually might do better with women by working on their “outer image”, or the facade they create for the public. But the women they will get will be as superficial as they are.
I am all in favor of self improvement. But if you find peace within yourself and the confidence that comes with being happy with who you are, then you will be the sexiest guy in the room. We will all have attributes that we are proud of, and those we wish we could change, but if you get to the right place spiritually, the size of your dick or the type of car you drive will be trivial concerns.

SSI, thanks, although in my case PE came after other areas had been restored to operational status. I think it can be thought of as a realization that some aspect of one’s life is not as fine as it could be, combined with the willingness to take action. This can apply to any aspect of our lives. Realizing I can effect change at this level makes me feel good, down deep.

Thunder, I like that quote, and I have another Heinlein quote that could be appropriate here as well: “An armed society is a polite society.”

A car is an external factor that simply refers to another underlying attraction factor of having money. i.e., “LOOK AT ME! I have this fancy car therefore its my evidence that I am successful and can be a potential good provider if you have my child” :) If ones confidence stems from having money then what happens to that individual when he has no money?

Your body on the other hand is not so external because it is an integral part of your whole being.The sort of approach and attitude you speak of Mr Avg is a more advanced approach to life that not many are ready for and so I commend you for thinking that way. There are many self perpetuated illusions in life and the idea that a bigger dick makes you a real man is in reality unfounded because we all know that this not really the measure of a man and yet we all want the bigger dick! :)

On the other hand we all have an intimate relationship with our bodies that we cannot escape until we die and we all create an image of what we think is an ideal body or face or cock size. Ask yourself why? why do we enjoy all those rating threads by DW and why do we judge women merely by the way they look, the size of their boobs, their FEET! :) faces and curves on their bodies. We simply cant escape some of the superficiality that exists in all of us. For the most part, we still choose our mates based on physical attraction and so we are all like the proverbial peacocks spreading out our feathers out to the rest and saying…”HEY! LOOK AT ME! Am I not pretty! Don’t you want me?”

Until we evolve to creatures that are so radically advanced that we no longer have any use for the shell of a body that we live in then I think the body is an integral part of our confidence because we are still at a point in our human development whereby mind and body are interdependent and work with each other.

It is certainly my deepest belief that any relationship based on mere physical attraction is doomed to fail if there is no deeper level of connection that involves the spirit but some degree of physical attraction must exist to even begin the path to such an ideal relationship. Suppose your partner lost her boobs or was badly disfigured in some horrible fire. Suppose you lost your penis in some accident then how would this alter your partners opinion of you? We would like to think that we are above and beyond such superficial things but the truth is that we are still a very physically based species of animal just like many of the other creatures on this earth. A couple that has truly bonded on a spiritual level could in my opinion transcend that physical thing and get beyond such tragedies but the difficulty of such a situation lends support to the fact that we cannot escape that mind-body connection.

Just to add to the chorus Titlest, your ex was lying or just plain wrong. She wont be able to select very big guys just from watching crotches and so her chances of beating the odds each time (1000 to 1 at least) and getting someone bigger then you every time has to be the same as winning the lottery or even smaller. She just wasnt faithfull by the sounds of it

This thread rocks.

Titleist. It’s hard to believe that someone of your immense size could be worried that you are too small! I know many people that would kill to have your size. I realize that that is little consolation when you are feeling so down though. Woman really know how to say just the right thing to cut you down. She didn’t say:

“He’s just so much fun to be with.yada yada” or ” He makes me feel so special about myself.etc.etc.” or “He spends so much money on me.”. It’s a more “primal” insult. One that hits you in the old reptilian brain, causes a surge of adrenaline and makes your balls pull up close to your body.

She may as well have threatened to cut your balls off because the thoughts that she created in your mind shut the supply of testosterone as surely as a sharp knife would have.

You deserve much better than this. Take a good look again at the pictures that you’ve posted on this site. Spectacular.

:thumbs:

I think the only reasonable reason for someone to be unhappy with 8x6 is because it’s too big! There is a percentage of women that can’t accomodate that girth comfortably, and some get married to men with 6+ girth.

I actually match ahund’s theoretical dick dimensions (BP) for the most part. My glans is about 5.5”, just behind the glans 5.25”, then several inches of 5.8-5.9” girth, and a base girth of 6.75”. It sounds oddly shaped, but it’s actually fairly consistent width-wise. I think it’s actually an advantage to be this shape and size.

It’s hard for me to think someone would be unhappy with this size. Then again, I wouldn’t mind another inch length. :p

Robert Heinlein is my favorite author. I highly recommend his books to anyone, he’s been a major influence in my life. And while he never wrote gratuitous sex scenes, he created sexual characters and explored alternate lifestyles.