8" x 6" and not happy??

I tend to agree with you Disi

Not being happy with 8x6 is the primary reason I joined. Wife and I had sex last night and now that she knows I’m actively doing PE she been more open about her preferences. She admitted last night there are times she can barely feel me, and I was shocked and a little upset. I’m 6.25 mid shaft at this point, being slightly thicker at the base. I’ve got some work to do.

Sounds like a good relationship. Communication is so important.

Has she ever done a kegel routine to keep as snug as possible? I can tell you they work quite well for men and women.

I went for a tantric massage last night and a lot of it is about proper breathing techniques. She taught me a great kegel excersize to practice and makes sex even better when you do it during sex. You need to breath in slow through your nose and lightly push your tongue against the roof of your mouth. As you do this you kegel and vision a flame at the base of your back. As you breath in the flame moves up your back till it gets to your shoulders. When it gets to your shoulders you release the kegel and imagine a waterfall going down your chest as you breath out through your mouth. The breath in should be slow and concentrate on the kegel and imagine the flame up your spine. The breath in should take 4-5 seconds. Breath out 2-3 seconds. Try this as it makes a big difference as to how hard you kegel and its effectiveness

This is one of the most sensible size posts I have seen. I suspect your fiancee’s size preference would fully satisfy a large percentage of the female population. As a guy well short of 8x6, it seems that guys craving size beyond those dimensions are in some way obsessed.

Not all are obsessed. Some may have partners that enjoy a larger size. If a larger size makes physical intimacy more pleasurable for both parties, why not pursue it.

For some yes it’s an obsession. They could be 11x8 and still feel inadequate or looking for more. For me it was about being comfortable in my own skin, winning the body dysmorhic battle. What helped me win was believing the statistics. That and remembering a finger or a well placed tongue can satisfy women immensely.

OMFG! What does she need? A fist, your cock is huge for crying out loud.

Get your wife to do kegels. Seriously. If she thinks 6.25 mid shaft is not big enough then she really needs to. In fact I’d go buy her some “ben wa balls”. Look them up. The woman keeps two of them in her vagina and uses her pelvic floor to hold them in all day. Really helps to strengthen the vagina. They come in different weights (difficulty).

Tell her you can barely feel her.

We have a good relationship for the most part, so we can be open with each other. That is very sage advice about the kegels..thank you. Focusing on the PE caused me to forget that it’s on her as well to make sex enjoyable.

I know, right? Hahaha… Probably won’t say that so I can keep getting lucky…( :

Thanks man. Since joining this site, I’ve gotten lots of “huge” comments and even though it’s great for the ego, when you can tell your spouse is holding back her feelings and hasn’t once said I’m big\huge It’s a blow to the gut nonetheless. When I first achieved 8x6, I never thought I would be in the position of feeling small(er) again and wanting more. Weird feeling, and yes fisting has crossed my mind…haha.

Wow that’s kinda crazy. How big are you thinking you need to get M8ter? 8x6 is my dream! My wife would be scared!

Man, I love this site. Where else will you find grown ass men, discussing about 8X6 dick, arguing about its effectiveness on women!!!!!

I love it!

Crazy, right? Just one of the reasons I love this site. Most women would have enough or more than they needed with 8x6. Except my wife….haha. She’s a true size queen, which are as rare as 8x6 is.

Since joining I’ve gotten a bit larger, so realistically I could maybe reach 9x7. If I had my dream, 10” and thick.