A new measurment?

I dunno about anyone else. But i can measure nbp and bp all day long. Ive found that when in the ‘normal position’ for sex i am at my smallest even when rock hard. Maybe this could become a new measurment, i mean it would be the most usefull?? Its ok gaining bp length but is that going to make a difference to her during sex? ive thought about this a lot because im not massive and can tell im not going ‘in’ a great deal, well at least in that position. Ive yet to surgest another position this early in the relationship so its hard to tell if it is the case based on her reactions.

Just my 2p.

I’d say that if you’re gaining BPEL you’re also gaining NBPEL unless you’re putting on significant weight at the same time. So BPEL is still a good measurement. It’s not the one that will “really” matter during sex, but it sure as hell is in direct proportion to your “useable sex length” (all other factors being equal).

It sounds like you are thinking of a more qualitative measurement totem. The purpose of the quantitative measurements is to track even small gains that you might not notice. It helps provide encouragement to yourself and you can more accurately gauge your progress against other memebers.

ebon00 that is a funny avatar, good work. And congratulation son 100 posts.

"Useable sex length” thats a good one ebon00. I understand Tube, even the smallest gain is going to be a massive confidence booster, and I know a lot of people on here have said how their partners have said ‘you feel bigger’, it just got me thinking is all.

Exactly.

Bonepressed measurements are a great tool for working on your dick.
They don’t allow for _any_ relation to helpfulness during sex though (except for ‘It got longer by x.xx”.’).
But then even the length and girth of a dick itself doesn’t give a clear result that is true for 100% of people with dick size xxx.
Some people just seems to be pointless when it comes to sex, no matter the size of their parts.

BTW: Guess how I got my GOAL size in the signature?
I was looking at my dick from an astetic ;) point of view and visualized what size I would feel good with.. I got the 8.5” EBPL out of it by pure accident, not by some conscious decision between the standards 8” and 9”.
Oh and you can even calculate my maximum fat pad by subtracting my goal’s ENBPL from the EBPL ;)

With the “usable sex length”: Nice idea, but you’d have a different dick size for every position and amount of thrusting with it.. And I don’t think choosing the _SMALLEST_ size possible will do your own self-confidence any good. Especially since girls seem to be so incapable when guessing or even measuring our dicks ;-)

Ys

Normal position for sex ?? Bahahahahaaaaaaaaaaa ;)

Yeah, totem. Define “normal position” for sex. I have about a dozen of them…..lol.

Missionary position, the all time classic.well maybe not :)