Another retarded question

Lets say you’re doing PE, and your girlfriend is enjoying sex more even if she may not know exactly why (bigger dick).

Now is this a normal thing to think?: If she is enjoying sex more at this new larger size, that would mean that for the whole time up until now, even with girls before her, that I was inadequite the whole time? So basically I’ve been lied to for years? This thought has been fuckin’ with my head for a little while now. I can tell my girlfriend can feel a difference… and she seems more “animated” during sex than before…which leads me to think that I’ve been pretty inadequite for the majority of my sexual life. She makes more noise now, and then I start the downward spiral of thinking, “Yeah, this is how she was with all those other guys she’s had who had bigger dicks than me…this was what I was missing out on”

Anyone else know what I mean?

I didn’t tell my wife about pe for a year. Yeah, she began to initiate sex more, get multiorgasms and “gushers” more. I don’t think I was inadequate before, she always was able to cum. I think the difference is that the orgasms are now more intense and the stroking before orgasm (plateau phase) is also more pleasureable. If you loved a certain ice cream and ate it every day and it did the trick for you, but then one day you found a different kind that you liked better, can you deny that the first ice cream satisfied you at the time? Of course not. I am satisfied with my current salary, if I got an offer to double it do you think I would turn it down because I was already satisfied? Hell no!!! I think she was likely always satisfied with you, but now you tickle her like never before - you are not getting older - you are getting better. Get it? Move out of the past. Be grateful for your gains.

…that is a crazy head game. (look whos talking) I think as we get bigger we feel more masculine so it is reflected in our confidence and performance. I think women can pick up on stuff like that. Enjoy the new you and let her enjoy it too.

I’m trying to think of a better way to say it,— but I can’t top this one, very wise indeed luvdadus. :)

I guess you guys are right and I should stop trippin’. I get more of a reaction when I penetrate her now, and she’ll say things like, “Your dick feels good.” Nothing about size or anything, but it’s gotta be the size change.

Oh well…. it’s only gonna get bigger. I mentioned it in another post, but I measured myself recently and there was a BIG difference. It totally rekindled my motivation for PE. It looks bigger just by sight as well, at least to me it does. Hope these gains stick.

I would like to give credit to DLD for his “blaster” routine…that shit really does something! And also longer jelqing sessions have really helped a great deal… so if anyone’s having doubts like I was, DON’T GIVE UP JUST YET.

Thank you for that!