Baseball stadium urinal and my light switch dick

This was the first time I sweated a flaccid hang since I don’t know.

And this was one of the greatest games I’ve been to. Only because the seats were ten rows from the field between home plate and third.

I learned the closer you are the hotter the chicks for one. So much activity, foul balls, chicks, etc.

I had alot of sex prior and before that, came off of some nice hanging. So my dick was bigger I noticed. Well night game, got cold, drank constantly and in the fourth inning went to piss.

I started pissing and saw my dick had shrunk to light switch status. (the ruler never matters here) And then “Holmes” parks it next to me and blasted into my peripherial vision with… I don’t know. Holy fuc*ing ch*ist.

I guess the point here for me is for all the flaccid hang threads that I scoffed at, I SUCK!

Nick7,

I’m a believer that flaccid hang can never be big enough. I’ll never stop working on making mine longer and thicker. I’ll always want a flaccid hang “cushion” of at least 1-2 inches so that I’ll never drop below 5 inches, even on the coldest days. Was that Phat9 that pulled up to you at the urinal?

Peforeal

As I have mentioned in the past, my flaccid gains are probably more relevant to my change of attitude than my erect gains.

Even though at times it is not overly big, I have lost all insecurites I had over it, and I take the good days with the bad. And sometimes I have a good 5” hang and get looks in the showers.

Check out the thread on thera-p velcro wrap by Peforeal.

Nick, most of us experience the same thing, but keep on with PE. It will eventually pay off. For the last year or so mine hangs flacid much better than pre-PE. I still have an occasional cold/high stress day and my dick does the turtle act.

But many times lately, i have pulled it out to find it hanging soft and plump. I remember the first time i flaunted it. I was at a meeting out of town with a bunch of women that teach at the same college that I do. It was very warm and I was dancing with all of them.

I went to the john for a piss. My dick wasn’t erect but i’m sure dancing with all those women it was puffed up a bit. When i pulled it out it was hanging so nicely that i put both hands on my hips and stood back a bit from the urinal. I was proud of it. I notice that all the other guys pissing were huddled close to their urinals. I imagined that they were thinking, “Look at that sonofabitch”. That’s the first time i had ever done that.

I also noticed that after that i had more plump days than turtle days. More and more it hung nicely. So i think besides PE, confidence makes a big difference. If you are scared to show your dick, it will definitely shrink. If you are feeling “cocky” you will be. Make sense?

One other trick, as you reach in to pull your dick out do a jelq/stretch. Just get a little blood flowing. Or even try to have some sexy thoughts before you get to the john. You don’t want to pull it out fully erect but semi-hard can make you look like king kong.

Read my thread on having a bigger flacid appearance at the urinal or in the shower. It is on this page. MagnumXL

What I usually do is start thinking some sexy thoughts as I’m walking to the the toilet. It’s usually enough time to get it a bit bigger, but it’s quick enough so it never gets hard.

May I be the Devil’s Advocate?

This may sound cruel or insensitive, but please understand it is not. I’d just like to stimulate a little discussion about this type of situation.

I’m a grower. I have always had a small flaccid hang. When erect I’m above average and was so before staring PE, but I do have some personal experience with a less than optimal flaccid show. My question for discussion is: why is this important? I can understand a man with an erection that is less than average being concerned about what his sexual partner(s) might think about his erect size. But why is it important what complete strangers might think about your flaccid size? Seems to me that it’s none of their business, that their opinion shouldn’t affect you, and that erect size is far more important. This also applies to the guys with anxiety in the gym. Why is someone else’s opinion of your dick apparently more important than yours?

There was a movie or TV show I once saw, I can’t remember which, that had a scene in a high school locker room. The guys were in the shower and the bully was making fun of the short guy’s small flaccid. The kid very scientifically pointed out that his penis had a lot more wrinkled skin than the bully’s did and that meant he would have a larger erection than the guy taunting him. He defended himself well and did not let the other guy’s opinion matter at all. He finished by noting, with a wry smile, that the bully’s dick was getting larger as they talked and that their conversation must have been stimulating. This of course embarrassed the bully and put a stop to the teasing.

So. Why does this bother some guys so much?

WestLa I believe you’re homosexual, (right??..sorry if I’m wrong..) so I dont know how your thought patterns work, but for us heterosexuals, its all about 1 - upping the competiton. It’s like drgmerlin describing how he leaned back from the urinal when he was sporting a thick flaccid, it lets the other guys know he’s the ‘man’, making them feel a little insecure (and thus making him feel that much better about himself). I’m a grower so I would been one of the fellas feeling insecure, but sometimes before I go out (to a club) I’ll do an extreme jelq session just for the sole purpose of sporting a nice flaccid (not for gains) and then I can be the one to lean back at the urinal. In fact, to me, flaccid hang is almost just important of a reason for PE as erection size is (and I’m just now FINALLY starting to show improvement). It’s all about the ego, or more correctly self confidence as I never try to come across as having a big ego.

I agree 100% kielbasa!!!!!!!!! All about the ego

I know the feeling! Thanks to pe my flaccid is about 3 times as big then when I started and I am not ashamed for someone to see it. Hell sometimes I want to whip it out and show some chic, but if my wife caught me she would cut it off. (LOL)

quest

I am gay and I’ve probably seen more dick and certainly handled more than most guys here. I know from experience that a small flaccid doesn’t always indicate a relationship to erect size and when you’re in bed with someone it’s the erect size that’s more important.

Showing off a big flaccid for complete strangers must be some kind of “King of Beasts” evolutionary thing straight guys are compelled to do. I can understand your point about ego, but that wasn’t the question. The question is - why should the opinion of others about your small flaccid make you feel bad? Who are they? Why do you care what they think? Why do you (anyone, not Nick7 in particular) start a thread about it? Is their opinion that important?

As I said, I’m a grower so I know what you mean, but I don’t care if someone looks and I don’t care if they think it’s small. I know when the time comes it gets big enough to do the job and I just didn’t understand why others felt bad enough to talk about it.

It never once crossed my mind what the guy with the horse cock thought of my tool. It’s certainly not important to me what someone thinks of my flaccid hang. It’s what “I” think about it. And I thought it looked rather sad last night.

I don’t know, I guess it is an ego thing.

westla

It’s a primal straight guy thing. I don’t know why it comes about?

quest

Westla, et al,

Having a larger flaccid size is all about ego and personal insecurity, I’ll admit. Men are often judged by other men by the size of their flaccid dicks, especially in the locker rooms and showers, since they probably won’t have the occasion to see these dicks erect. If we all walked around 24- hours a day with hard ons, I probably would not have grown up with the same insecurities, as the differences in erect size would not appear as great in general. In the grand scheme of life, size shouldn’t matter, but for me it does. I should be more evolved, but now I don’t have to be since I’ve got PE to make my dick the way I want.

Peforeal

WestLA asked, “Seems to me that it’s none of their business, that their opinion shouldn’t affect you, and that erect size is far more important. This also applies to the guys with anxiety in the gym. Why is someone else’s opinion of your dick apparently more important than yours?”

It’s not a gay thing or a straight thing, it’s a “guy thing.”

It’s about how we are socialized as we become adolescents - by our peers. If none of us ever endured snied comments directed at us or our friends regarding size by team mates or locker room sharers, none of us would probably grow up with Urininal Anxiety or Grower Stress Syndrome. It wouldn’t matter. We’d then all just be focused on what our bed partners thought. Same issue, just a different venu.

The remarks hurt, is the point. Even if you aren’t smaller flaccid than the attacker, you begin to believe you must be. Kids can be vicious people. They know all the buttons to push.

Someday I’d like to pee next to “Tony B.” He had a flaccid that flopped when he walked to and from the showers and he mocked anybody smaller than he, (exept, of course, his average size buddies.) Given the opportunity, I think I’d do a “drgmerlin,” not saying a word. Tony was a real prick when he was 15.