I’ve also found that during certain times of the year, when we’re dieting differently and exercising that size fluctuates. Depending upon which season it is, I can fluctuate between 180 and more recently as much as 203 lbs (I feel my ideal weight from my own feeling of personal well being is @ 193 lbs.). There definitely is a difference in girth in that 23 lb range. Even length is influenced by who you’re with and the mental intensity of sexual encounter. Some women just get you running hotter than others. What I have yet to see discussed is throbbing size or the size when ejaculation occurs, and that would probably be a difficult measurement to get. I dated a girl once that I got too lazy to thrust on occasion, so I mentally would concentrate on faking an ejaculation and simulating the throbbing action, while in as deep as the position would allow. That seemed to have been harder on her than any harder thrusting that I could’ve done. The more I reflect back on any Kama Sutra readings (and no I’m not going to start chanting or anything), the genitalia sizes for both males and females makes a lot of sense in terms of sexual satisfaction in the encounter, some women, even though they are designed to give birth to babies, simply have little desire to go through that kind of pain during sexual intercourse. Others may feel it necessary, even prefer it. My goal is for both of us to come away with a deeper relationship from it and euphoria of satisfaction for having spent that time together.