C-V distance and the argument for base girth

I found this article:

Female orgasms and a ‘rule of thumb’ - Los Angeles Times

…from a thread started on lpsg.org here:

http://www.lpsg .org/146526-org … course-c-v.html

Does the C-V distance decrease with a wider base girth? One thing I’ve inadvertently enlarged is my base girth. I’ve purposely stopped that due to my baseball bat shape that I didn’t want to lose. I’m now re-thinking this and would like some further input.

How were you able to increase your base girth specifically? You seem to have pinpointed the stimulus?

I think that it does, but it is only a gut feeling. I am about 6 inches around at the base, but more like 5 1/2 otherwise. Most of the women that I have been with who came with vaginal sex without any manual clitoral stimulation did so when I was maximally inserted, but they were also rubbing their clits on my pubic bone with a lot of pelvic rocking and grinding.

Vacuum pump and then, with both hands, pull the cylinder (and your dick) away from your body until it gets to the uncomfortable but good feeling. I never really meant to add base girth, it just happened. Lampwick mentioned that the girth expansion for him started at the base and worked its way up.

My wife’s most powerful orgasms are that way as well, when she’s on top grinding away. And, my base girth is 6” around as well.

This is my favorite visual aid when describing girth, shape and tightness:

clitorisfrontview.gif

Yes most of the women that have come for me with vaginal sex usually wanted me in as deeply as possible as they approached the brink. Since the vaginal canal widens a bit above the lower inch or so, being thicker further out the shaft may not have as much effect. And I’m sure the pelvic contact putting pressure on the clitoris is a major factor.

I have the same experience. My penis is cone-formed and pretty much. MSEG is somewhat misleading when it comes to key selling points for my penis ;) .

My wife was multi-orgasmic before she gave birth to our kids but she did not get them from being at top, rather using the missionary. But it was when I inserted to maximum and moved hard and deep with a steady rhythm while not too fast and with a continuous speed rather than sudden punches. But unfortunately, she lost this ability after the first kid and today really having problem coming at all through vaginal sex if I do not rub her clit at the same time. That is one big reason why I work on my size as I think being 1” larger in girth might do the trick while I am not sure if the girth gain will be equal throughput the entire penis (but from the glance).

But yes, my experience is that having a root girth that is bigger than mid-shaft will probably help women get vaginal orgasms. The trick is to not insert to maximum at first but wait until she gets going and then, when she gets closer, use all size of the unit. :)

Interesting points.

I’ve observed my wife’s most powerful orgasms when she’s on top and I always thought it was her cds that was giving her that blast. I’ve asked her a couple of times to try explaining why it’s so extraordinary, and either I just don’t get it or she’s not explaining what I want to hear. I’m thinking now it’s a combination of cds and clit stimulation that’s doing it.

I will ask my wife later on tonight and see if I can translate her own observations. ;)

is it really this simple to get base girth? Anybody else gain this way? If so, I am buying a pump tomorrow!

Noted. Thanks

Admirable restraint.

That’s very clever actually. That way you really do have something left when she starts yelling “deeper, deeper”.

Everyone’s different. Some guys have great luck expanding base girth with hanging, some people can’t get girth if their lives depended on it. Some guys swear by ADS’. After 7 years of on again off again experiments with my pecker, I hardly call it “simple”.

Hm…women’s way of expressing feelings :( . “It depends, it’s different time to time but yes, I like that your base girth is bigger than mid shaft but it’s not THAT important. My mood, how the day has been, cycle in month, how long foreplay we’ve had is much more important.” Thought I had something there.

Sometimes when I get cynical, I tell me wife that the foreplay begins 3 pm (for sex in the evening). A single mistake in helping out in the kitchen, taking kids to bed, watching the wrong TV-show can ruin it. All I need is like 1 minute and then I am ready to go! ;)

Pump’s never worked well for me, keep that in mind guys.

Welcome to the woman’s mind. I’ve been grappling with that communication gap as well, but I think our last attempt at bridging that chasm went well. She basically said when she’s on top her clit has an easy time grinding on my pelvic bone and the orgasms are further magnified by the depth and breadth she’s stretched. When we grind on her cds she usually says, “Oh my god, that’s deep.” Sometimes in a good way, and sometimes in a bad way, depending on how battered she feels in her deep spot.

I do think that she and I agree that the stretched out feeling laterally and longitudinally, give the fucking a lot more intimacy as it feels like there’s more of me inside her.