My wife knows because I told her that I was going to try it. She said she was against it — and I said, “Well, OK”.
However, I would never let her see the contortions my poor dick is subjected to. She’s seen the devices in the box and just shakes her head. I think it would upset her to see her little toy fitted, however. She has asked to see, and I say, “Do I ask to see you change plugs when you’re chumming?”
Perhaps you should get a different device to wear when you’re around her that can be kept hidden and keep the hanging to yourself.
I mean to say, my wife knows I’ve got it on, but I doubt she could handle seeing the process. I’m afraid her attitude would change for the worse.