Coming out of the closet...

I’m sure this has been brought up several times in the past, but hey what’s another thread for us to read, right. It has nothing to do with same sex love or anything like that. This has to do with coming clean with your spouse. Here’s my dilemma, she knows I do this stuff, she’s found all the exercises I’ve printed, the pump, weights, etc. She notices the time I spend in the tub. But, how do I come around and just sit in my living room with 20lbs around my cock while she’s sitting in the other couch. I’m missing out in a lot of PEing because, when she’s home I can’t do anything in front of her because of embarrassment. She knows what I’m doing, she feels the difference, sex is 100% better, her juices are coming down like a water fall now. But I can’t get the balls to do it in front of her.

How did you come around to do your PEing in front of your significant other?

Just walk out with a dumbell hanging from your johnson, and before she says anything, go “What? Ya wanna fight about it?”

You have to say it just like that short dude on Family Guy.

I remember a guy here telling us about how his girlfriend liked to give him blow jobs and hand jobs while he was clamping. I think she even tried to screw him once or twice with the clamp on. She really got off on his extra thick and extra, extra hard clamped cock. So she was obviously all for his PE efforts. Perhaps you could get your wife involved some similar clamping fun with you. That would bring the PE right out into the open. Then the hanging would mean nothing to her.

Beautiful!:rolling:

I know my wife likes the efforts I put into PE because it makes sex more pleasurable to her. So, I naturally told her. At first she thought I was demented and almost perverse. Now, she encourages it and I have a little fun with it myself.

There is a big difference between knowing you do it and watching you do it. There are plenty of things people do that I don’t want to see. However, it sounds like some guys have girls who know, enjoy, and encourage PE. (That is a great story in the other thread, Vater.)
I wouldn’t just start doing it in front of her. She could really freak out and change her opinion of you. Maybe you could start with a conversation, like, “When are you going shopping? I need to do my dick exercises when you are gone.” Which could lead to asking her if she would mind if you did it in front of her. She might be curious, and you might end up being as lucky as Vater.

Of course, I am not the best person to give this advice, as I haven’t even told my wife about PE, yet.

Wow, I just realized I passed 1000 posts!

I need to get a life.

Congrats!

Oh, you mean Patty Tanniger, Caddy manager.

But where will this end? Jelqing in front of your room-mates? Hanging on the long drive to work? Pumping during those oh so long church sermons?

Let’s turn the tables: I know women menstrate, I know what it basically involves… In NO way do I want to see my wife changing a tampon at the dinner table.

Accept it, some things should be done in private.

I told my wife about a month into it. I showed her the site, the exercises I would be doing and what they were for. Then I started having a regular PE schedule and she’s been fine with it ever since. I don’t do it in front of her, in the living room, but she’ll come in the bedroom while I’m exercising and think nothing of it. Just don’t ever pay more attention to PE than you do to her. Good luck.

If she knows about it and she doesn’t really make it to be a big deal then I think you can be honest with her. Besides, she is your wife, it’s not like this is going to be such a huge deal that she is going to divorce you. Also, you need to understand the reason you are doing PE. Why are you doing it? We all know it’s for a bigger penis but is it for her or mainly just for you to boost your own ego. You can always just tell her “I want a bigger penis”, most women would understand.

You could start by leaving the bathroom door unlocked and she might question you about it and so on

I told my girl… it started with the “blah blah blah penis size” talk. She did the classic “oh no you don’t need to…” and then showed interest, doing her own research. I never showed her this website though. She supported it a lot… she was interested in doing my exercises for me and all that. Cool stuff… it can be a really positive thing. If you’re dating someone who is so offended by that and appaled… maybe you should re-think your relationship.

Patty Tanniger, Caddy manager- yeah, it rhymes big woop wanna fight about it?

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