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I’m about average girth, 5 inches. And most of the girls I’ve been with have said I’m rather large, this is without me saying anything. Also, most have really enjoyed the length. When I go from shorter strokes with my girl now, anywhere from 3-5 inches to full strokes 7+ inches, she really digs it. Theres been a couple of times where I’ve hit the wrong spot, but it really hasn’t been a problem. Its also nice to be long enough where you can grip your penis at the base with all for fingers and still penetrate fairly deep. I really would like more girth, but I can’t seem to gain any for the life of me.

Originally Posted by Krtel
Hello everyone. This is Krtel’s sister. I was reading this thread and decided to post my opinion.

(yes, I know by brother does PE exercises, please don’t ask me questions about that)

Girth is a LOT more important than length. I mean, a long penis makes me aroused, it’s visually attractive and nice to hold but what matters most is how if feels inside me. So, I would prefer a thick penis with average length than a long penis with average girth. I can assure you most women think like that.

Having sex with a long penis can be painful if he doesn’t know what he’s doing. If he does know what he’s doing, sex with a long penis is not painful but it has no advantage compared to sex with an average length penis (it makes no difference in most cases).

But sex with a thick penis has clearly its advantages and I always get more pleasure that way. You men are always worried with the length of your penis but true size is mainly given by girth, in my opinion. I won’t consider a 17 cm or 18 cm penis a big one unless it is thicker than the average. But I will consider a 15 cm penis (length) with good girth a big one.

By the way, I am not a very experienced girl. That is, I’ve had sex with 5 men until now (not saying that is not much, but it is not much compared to other girls out there). I haven’t reached 20 years of age though.

Sorry about any spelling mistakes.

Hi Krtel’s sister,

Thanks for your female perspective. A lot of people here talk about the pleasure a woman receives from having the back of the vaginal wall stimulated by the penis during intercourse. This part of a woman’s anatomy is referred to (here) as the “cul-de-sac,” or “CDS.” Of course, it takes a certain length penis to stimulate the CDS. So it seems that length would be important for this reason, though I understand and agree with your point that more length than this serves no functional purpose but at best is an aesthetic bonus.

Do you have any experience with men hitting your CDS? What penis length do you think is ideal?

And what girth (measuring the circumference) do you prefer? In particular, what size girth would you consider too much?

Originally Posted by motivated
Hi Krtel’s sister,

Do you have any experience with men hitting your CDS? What penis length do you think is ideal?

And what girth (measuring the circumference) do you prefer? In particular, what size girth would you consider too much?

I’ve had my cervix hit some times, if that’s what you were asking. It may be unpleasant/painful in the beggining of the act, but it can eventually help me get a “full” orgasm some time later, by the time we’re finishing.

I don’t consider any length to be “ideal”, in what concerns pleasure during sex. However, as visual stimulus, I obviously like the image of a long penis, like 20-21 cm (8 inches), as long as it is not too thin (girth must be at least proportional). That would be my ideal length, more than that doesn’t do nothing for me.

But average length is more than enough for me and as I previously said, I prefer an average length penis with more than average girth… than… a long penis with just average girth.

Considering my ideal girth, it’s hard for me to give you a number, as I am not used to measure my partner’s penis’ girth (I’ve measured the length and girth of 2 of my partners though). But there’s nothing more exciting than having a really thick penis “climbing” the walls of my pussy! (desculpa, mano) ;) I’m sorry for the details, but my pussy gets soaked just by the thought of that! (mano, desculpa outra vez…adoro-te!) :)

I’ve read average girth is about 12,5 cm (5 inches), so I would say my ideal girth is something bigger than that. Perhaps 6 inches or even more. I have never been with a guy whose penis is too wide to make sex unpleasant (although one of them must have really high girth, I couldn’t reach my thumb when I grabbed his penis).

Originally Posted by Krtel
I’ve had my cervix hit some times, if that’s what you were asking. It may be unpleasant/painful in the beggining of the act, but it can eventually help me get a “full” orgasm some time later, by the time we’re finishing.

I don’t consider any length to be “ideal”, in what concerns pleasure during sex. However, as visual stimulus, I obviously like the image of a long penis, like 20-21 cm (8 inches), as long as it is not too thin (girth must be at least proportional). That would be my ideal length, more than that doesn’t do nothing for me.

But average length is more than enough for me and as I previously said, I prefer an average length penis with more than average girth… than… a long penis with just average girth.

Considering my ideal girth, it’s hard for me to give you a number, as I am not used to measure my partner’s penis’ girth (I’ve measured the length and girth of 2 of my partners though). But there’s nothing more exciting than having a really thick penis “climbing” the walls of my pussy! (desculpa, mano) ;) I’m sorry for the details, but my pussy gets soaked just by the thought of that! (mano, desculpa outra vez…adoro-te!) :)

I’ve read average girth is about 12,5 cm (5 inches), so I would say my ideal girth is something bigger than that. Perhaps 6 inches or even more. I have never been with a guy whose penis is too wide to make sex unpleasant (although one of them must have really high girth, I couldn’t reach my thumb when I grabbed his penis).

Or maybe you have small hands :)

Thanks for your opinion Miss. It just confirmed what I was thinking about my PE goal.

I have had this discussion with a number of women, and yes, all of them say the same thing as Krtel.
Visually, a long dick is exciting to see, although once inside, to be able to stimulate the vaginal wall is what its all about. 95% of the women I spoke to agree, the other 5% just love to be hammered.
My wife enjoys my girth as it stands now, 5.75-6.0 inches, a year ago I was constantly in the 6-6.5 inch bracket, and she loved that, she would and still does, have multiple orgasms in one session.
As for myself, I would be happy to be 9.0 inches in length, and 6.0-6.5 in girth, I used to 8.25 inches in length before I had a 12 month break, currently at 7.75 inches in length.

BK..


Gettin Bigger

Originally Posted by Krtel
I’ve had my cervix hit some times, if that’s what you were asking. It may be unpleasant/painful in the beggining of the act, but it can eventually help me get a “full” orgasm some time later, by the time we’re finishing.

I don’t consider any length to be “ideal”, in what concerns pleasure during sex. However, as visual stimulus, I obviously like the image of a long penis, like 20-21 cm (8 inches), as long as it is not too thin (girth must be at least proportional). That would be my ideal length, more than that doesn’t do nothing for me.

But average length is more than enough for me and as I previously said, I prefer an average length penis with more than average girth… than… a long penis with just average girth.

Considering my ideal girth, it’s hard for me to give you a number, as I am not used to measure my partner’s penis’ girth (I’ve measured the length and girth of 2 of my partners though). But there’s nothing more exciting than having a really thick penis “climbing” the walls of my pussy! (desculpa, mano) ;) I’m sorry for the details, but my pussy gets soaked just by the thought of that! (mano, desculpa outra vez…adoro-te!) :)

I’ve read average girth is about 12,5 cm (5 inches), so I would say my ideal girth is something bigger than that. Perhaps 6 inches or even more. I have never been with a guy whose penis is too wide to make sex unpleasant (although one of them must have really high girth, I couldn’t reach my thumb when I grabbed his penis).

I had to take off my cock ring the last time I got hard, because it was hurting. She could barely get it in her mouth. There are advantages and disadvantages of having a thicker dick. No anal, and bad BJs unless they know what they’re doing, or have a big mouth……or anus. :D

Joer

Stop talking to her about your dick and use it.

Talk about her, give her attention, a back rub, a shoulder rub, hugs, kisses, whatever turns her on without bringing up sex, dick, pussy, fucking, etc. And she will take your clothes off and want you deep inside her.

It looks like a decent sized dildo starts at around 5.5, that’s probably enough stretch to feel nice without being too big for just about any women. That’s probably the safest bet for an “ideal” size.

Originally Posted by Krtel
I’ve had my cervix hit some times, if that’s what you were asking. It may be unpleasant/painful in the beggining of the act, but it can eventually help me get a “full” orgasm some time later, by the time we’re finishing.

I don’t consider any length to be “ideal”, in what concerns pleasure during sex. However, as visual stimulus, I obviously like the image of a long penis, like 20-21 cm (8 inches), as long as it is not too thin (girth must be at least proportional). That would be my ideal length, more than that doesn’t do nothing for me.

But average length is more than enough for me and as I previously said, I prefer an average length penis with more than average girth… than… a long penis with just average girth.

Considering my ideal girth, it’s hard for me to give you a number, as I am not used to measure my partner’s penis’ girth (I’ve measured the length and girth of 2 of my partners though). But there’s nothing more exciting than having a really thick penis “climbing” the walls of my pussy! (desculpa, mano) ;) I’m sorry for the details, but my pussy gets soaked just by the thought of that! (mano, desculpa outra vez…adoro-te!) :)

I’ve read average girth is about 12,5 cm (5 inches), so I would say my ideal girth is something bigger than that. Perhaps 6 inches or even more. I have never been with a guy whose penis is too wide to make sex unpleasant (although one of them must have really high girth, I couldn’t reach my thumb when I grabbed his penis).

Well, there you go, 8 x 6 again!

Originally Posted by MX
No sarcasm here. It’s a very “James Bondish” sort thing to do. In fact, in the directors cut of Goldfinger there’s a deleted scene in which Sean Connery badgers Honor Blackman (aka Pussy Galore) about the size of his winky.

James Bond: “Pussy, is my ding dong okay? Uh, I mean is it like, big enough?”

Pussy Galore: “Yes James, it’s fine.”

James Bond: “Have you had bigger?”

Pussy Galore: “Yes James, but yours is plenty good. Can we get back to business now?”

James Bond: “How many inches was it?”

Pussy Galore: “I don’t know. What do I look like, a board certified cockologist? I’d say eight inches”

James Bond: “Is that bone-pressed or non-bone-pressed?”

Pussy Galore: (Pussy stares at James like he’s lost his fricken’ mind)

James Bond: “Q told me about a special jelq technique that will turn my 007 into a 009 incher. I’m thinking about doing it two days on, one day off with a five minute hot wrap. Or maybe one day on, one off with a ten minute hot wrap. What do you think?

Pussy Galore: “Oh James, you sure know how to turn a girl on.”

The scene was deleted because the censors disapproved of the word, “cockologist”.

Man I just spit my drink on my monitor reading this, funniest thing I’ve heard all week.

Thanks RackHunter I apprecitate your desire and efforts to do this for me. I can’t wait for the results. Your a true man of science. :)

Originally Posted by versache
Thanks RackHunter I apprecitate your desire and efforts to do this for me. I can’t wait for the results. Your a true man of science. :)

Thank-you…thank-you very much .

Funny story . Actually I tried this out last night as a joke on my ex . Turns out that the wrap I used was kinda soft and squishy so my “new 6 1/2” girth” penis did not feel quite right to her . She said it felt huge , but it’s not as good if it isn’t rock hard . So , her opinion is that a 5 1/4” girth dick that is solid feels better than one that is 6 1/2” at a 65% erection level .

Any other thoughts on this theory ? Krtel’s sis perhaps ? Sunny ? Anna ? Sheena ?

RackHunter,

Why don’t you try a series of different size dildos? Start with the “real thing,” and then, without her knowing, …

Originally Posted by RackHunter
Thank-you…thank-you very much .

Funny story . Actually I tried this out last night as a joke on my ex . Turns out that the wrap I used was kinda soft and squishy so my “new 6 1/2” girth” penis did not feel quite right to her . She said it felt huge , but it’s not as good if it isn’t rock hard . So , her opinion is that a 5 1/4” girth dick that is solid feels better than one that is 6 1/2” at a 65% erection level .

Any other thoughts on this theory ? Krtel’s sis perhaps ? Sunny ? Anna ? Sheena ?

(krtel’s sister)

Obviously, hardness is the most important aspect in sexual intercourse, by far. I won’t get to a full orgasm if my partner’s penis is not hard, no matter how big it is.

I want to make a comment on the length and thickness issue. I am 7” BPEL X 5” girth….close to 5.5 at the base. I’ve been told my dick isn’t thick enough, but that is a different thread :) I’ve made an observation the last few times I’ve had sex. The position was pretty much standard missionary (at that point in the evening). I can’t describe exactly what I am doing but I am able to angle myself in such a way that I am rubbing ‘something’. When I rub it, my partner goes friggin crazy. Whatever that is…it has everything to do with length. I’m not arguing the importance of thickness, but there are some things a 5” x 6”, for example, cannot do.

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