Originally Posted by microbrew
Trust me, she’s not lying. There’s no reason to lie, I’ve never met more of an honest person. I asked her a simple question and she gave me an honest answer. I know probably 15 people that I know she has been with and I’m sure there’s some I dont know so 20 was a good number.I question was simple, I said do you think I have a small penis, she said yes and then I said have you been with anyone with a smaller penis then me and she said yes one person. That’s the reason why I have always believed the myth that black guys are bigger. Because I am the only white guy she has been with and just to prove size didn’t matter, I’m the only one that she has totally been in love with.
We would still be together today if it wasnt for the distance, which is a long story.
Micro
Whether or not the racial component is relevant, I don’t know, as the only “evidence” that black men are bigger is anecdotal, at best.
Still, I believe you, and I find such a senario very plausable. Statistics generalizes over things, people, and people’s experiences, which are all unique and distinct in themselves.
First, black men may be bigger on average. Second, in my opinion, larger men tend to get a lot more action, which is relevant to a woman’s experience. Third, it’s just like rolling dice, one woman may “roll the dice” and sleep with fifteen or twenty men who, with the exception of one or two, are all above average. It is statistically less likely that someone rolling dice several times in a row will get all sixes. But it happens!
I’ve known women who, based on their experience, sincerely found me to be average size. I’ve also known women who, based on their experience, equally sincerely found me to be above average. Fortunately, I’ve never know a woman who believed I was small, or at least who ever told me this. But then, the women I’ve slept with have probably slept with few or no black men!
In short, you cannot argue from statistics to actual experience; at least, you cannot draw this inference directly.