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Originally Posted by Krtel
Dude, she obviously wasn’t telling you the truth. Your penis is bigger than the general average. It’s very very unlikely that only 1 out of 20 men had a penis smaller than yours…

If we ask women about the size of their mates, the average is at least 2-4 cm higher than the real penis average size. But if the guy himself (the mate) asks the girl that same question, the answer will be different for sure. And if the relationship has already ended, she will most of the times try to make you “feel” small, even if she doesn’t have any intention of making you feel bad.

When I asked this question it was at the beginning of our relationship 8yrs ago. We are very good friends, I just dont understand how you guys can find it hard to believe that she was being honest with me. And I didnt ask about what part (length or girth) that she was preferring to. My guess would of been girth.

Originally Posted by motivated
Whether or not the racial component is relevant, I don’t know, as the only “evidence” that black men are bigger is anecdotal, at best.

Still, I believe you, and I find such a senario very plausable. Statistics generalizes over things, people, and people’s experiences, which are all unique and distinct in themselves.

First, black men may be bigger on average. Second, in my opinion, larger men tend to get a lot more action, which is relevant to a woman’s experience. Third, it’s just like rolling dice, one woman may “roll the dice” and sleep with fifteen or twenty men who, with the exception of one or two, are all above average. It is statistically less likely that someone rolling dice several times in a row will get all sixes. But it happens!

I’ve known women who, based on their experience, sincerely found me to be average size. I’ve also known women who, based on their experience, equally sincerely found me to be above average. Fortunately, I’ve never know a woman who believed I was small, or at least who ever told me this. But then, the women I’ve slept with have probably slept with few or no black men!

In short, you cannot argue from statistics to actual experience; at least, you cannot draw this inference directly.

Very true, I’ve known her for along time and mostly all the guys she has been with before me are all players. So of course there more confindent and probably have bigger dicks. I for one can say if I had I a bigger dick I would be alot more confindent.

But like I said before, she has never complain about my size. I’m usually the one complaining about it.

There is as much as a .25 inch flucation in my measuring depending on my hardness, so I dont think thats lying.
Besides not lying out of principal alone, consider that ex-GFs may know your male friend or even someone that knows him and leak information, i.e., word gets around.
This is one of the reasons why I say If you are going to advertise your size to the world then make sure you sleep with the woman that has the biggest cell phone bill. :)

Do guys lie?
Sure they lie but those who think about lying or have lied on this forum do the forum a big disservice because we need accurate stats we can count on. We are among brothers here. Its OK to tell your secrets! :) We will still love you after-wards and/or envy you! :kisskiss:

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2006.

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Originally Posted by ModestoMan
It’s possible that she thought the other guys were bigger, whereas in fact they were not. Black skin does a wonderful job of bringing out definition. Muscles look bigger and better when covered with black skin versus white. I wouldn’t be surprised if penises looked bigger, as well. So it might just be an optical illusion.

Also, and this is a stretch, she might perceive your penis as being smaller simply because she does not wish to think of you in a crass, sexual way. In other words, her sense of reality may be distorted by the lens through which she views you. Also, she may buy into the stereotype that black guys are more sexually powerful than white guys. She may have unconsciously demoted your size because she believes white guys are supposed to have smaller dicks than black guys.

I was about to say what you said.

Originally Posted by microbrew
Remember I’ve known her for about 7yrs before I even dated her. And it’s 15 that she’s been with that I know of.

Dude, I don’t know how many times my best female friend (not my girlfriend) has sex per month. And I don’t know the numbers of sexual partners she has had this last year. Also, I’m far from knowing how many guys have “fvcked” her until today.

Did your ex-gf tell you she had sex with 15 guys before you?
According to your words, you’re the one who’s assuming that.

Originally Posted by microbrew
I just dont understand how you guys can find it hard to believe that she was being honest with me.

I don’t find it hard to believe at all. A large percentage of the women I’ve been closely involved with are very honest people. After all, it’s not hard to spot a scammer.

However, I suspect that the following two things might make it hard for certain other men to believe you: One, unfortunately, women seek nothing more than to screw with a man’s ego. No doubt, this is because most or all of the women they have been involved with have been like that. And chances are good that these men have developed the same desire and tendency toward women. Sad. Very sad. There are women like this, but they are probably in the minority. At any rate, there are plenty of women who are not like like this. Just remember: Like attracts like.

Two, there are some men who would find it very disheartening, and even disturbing, to realize that a reasonable number of women have had adequate to ample experience of sleeping with men with big dicks—even worse, that some women have mostly slept with men with big dicks. Why? Because they suppose that these women would find average, let alone small, men extremely disappointing. I think the evidence is reasonably clear: A certain percentage of women find a large cock a near necessity. But it also seems clear that this percentage is relatively small. The significant majority of women appear to prefer the 6 to 8 inch range, with 7 inches being the consistent winner! Of course, they also like a bit of girth. I recommend that anyone who hasn’t seen this thread yet check it out.

Yes, size matters—up to a point! More importantly, if you believe that most women reduce men down to the size of their dicks, you are both wrong and unfortunate. You are also probably hanging out with the wrong women. But once again, beware: Like attracts like!

My girlfriend will probably kill me for posting a comment about our personal life but I think it’s really relevant to microbrew’s problem.
1) My girlfriend had mentioned being with one guy that was really large before and it caused me alot of frustration until much later on she told me it wasn’t so huge but only really large for such a small framed guy.
2) that she had dated a guy that had the most amazing physique one time and was very dissapointed to discover how small his penis was. It was a major turnoff for her because her expectations were probably very high.

If microbrew is a bodybuilder then this seems to be the obvious problem. If Arnold Schwarzenager’s arms are 20” around and his dick is only 5” then things just aren’t going to look right. Unfortunately, it seems muscle size isn’t really relevant to dick size but it certainly does affect how our ‘members’ are perceived.

I think the important thing is that the girl loved you, and only you. And this site has proven that regardless of her other experiences you have more than enough to satisfy her.

Originally Posted by meumembro
My girlfriend will probably kill me for posting a comment about our personal life but I think it’s really relevant to microbrew’s problem.
1) My girlfriend had mentioned being with one guy that was really large before and it caused me alot of frustration until much later on she told me it wasn’t so huge but only really large for such a small framed guy.
2) that she had dated a guy that had the most amazing physique one time and was very dissapointed to discover how small his penis was. It was a major turnoff for her because her expectations were probably very high.

If microbrew is a bodybuilder then this seems to be the obvious problem. If Arnold Schwarzenager’s arms are 20” around and his dick is only 5” then things just aren’t going to look right. Unfortunately, it seems muscle size isn’t really relevant to dick size but it certainly does affect how our ‘members’ are perceived.

I think the important thing is that the girl loved you, and only you. And this site has proven that regardless of her other experiences you have more than enough to satisfy her.

Your right, I am a bodybuilder. I’m not huge, 6ft 230lbs but my 7 inch dick would sure look alot bigger on a smaller man.

I’m off topic, and I’m not a bodybuilder, but I’ve always thought Dave Draper had the best looking body build when he was in his prime. He won titles, and even once appeared on The Beverly Hillbillies. In one funny scene, Ellie Mae lifted a barbell he could hardly pick up.

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After that, he asked Ellie where she got her nutrition from, and she said Granny’s cooking. He immediately headed for Granny, asking her to cook for him. If I had ever taken up bodybuilding seriously, I probably would have strove to try and copy his physique.

That’s why I barley work out… I don’t want a bodybuilder physique, just a good buid :) .

My 7.4 incher looks a bit small on me (almost 6 feet tall), but it’s getting better!

About guys lying… YES.

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Originally Posted by Stretchin
Size matters, that's why my dick is blue and brown and has a sharp pain in the left side.

Previously known as Ben Dover.

I also think that the more disproportionate your body is to your penis, the more likely you will be to lie or exagerate. It’s only natural.
I remember my friend in 9th grade, he was only around 5’ 5” and had a very skinny frame and he was very proud of his 6.5” dick. He kept saying that for a guy his size and build it seemed pretty big. I was bigger than him at the time but I think I was impressed that a guy that size had nearly the same size package.
So it really is relative. I’m always wishing I had a bigger one and this guys was smaller than me and I was still impressed.

6’ and 230lbs is by NO MEANS small. I’m 6’ and I weigh about 180. I’ve even dipped down to 170 while dieting. Either your all bulk or your a fucking muscle monster. Haha. I only know one or two guys at that height to weight ration with less than 10% body fat. And they’re Giants.

By the by, I’ve never lied about my size. It just seems like pointless bragging as it can only make other guys feel worse, and disappoint the ladies later on if they found out. And why would you tell them you had a big dick unless you wanted them to find out.

One time, I was at a party and all these girls were flirting with me (years ago) and some how they got it into their heads that I had a big dick. One of the girls even approached me and asked if it was really big. I asked her what made her think that and she said she had ‘seen’ it through my pants.. Haha. I didn’t tell her the truth and I guess I did enjoy pretending even though I didn’t have any desire to take advantage of the situation. I can see where giving girls that empression is an ego trip, but I would never lie about it. Anyone else out there ever have this happen to them where they were mistakenly taken for having a big fatty and seen how women start coming on to you?

Yes.

Well, I have to admit, I prefer to avoid talking about the actual size with friends. Only when I was in my puberty did I discuss it with close friends. However I was discussing penis size with a friend and he said he knew he was well endowed and larger than 18 cm. So I didn’t reply to his question, he didn’t tell his actual size anyway. Besides you won’t know how anyone measures. Another friend recently asked how big it was, and well I just told him my realistic size +/- variations I commonly get. But I doubt I’d tell it to anyone else especially not girls. They will just have to wait and see. A girl I know said: well you are probably not unhappy with your size(kind of hoping I’d be big, because she has a crush on me, fantasizing about having sex with me or I don’t know what). So in that instance I kindly refrained from commenting.

So I’d rather not tell my size, than lie about it :D

Originally Posted by meumembro
I also think that the more disproportionate your body is to your penis, the more likely you will be to lie or exagerate. It’s only natural.
I remember my friend in 9th grade, he was only around 5’ 5” and had a very skinny frame and he was very proud of his 6.5” dick. He kept saying that for a guy his size and build it seemed pretty big. I was bigger than him at the time but I think I was impressed that a guy that size had nearly the same size package.
So it really is relative. I’m always wishing I had a bigger one and this guys was smaller than me and I was still impressed.

6’ and 230lbs is by NO MEANS small. I’m 6’ and I weigh about 180. I’ve even dipped down to 170 while dieting. Either your all bulk or your a fucking muscle monster. Haha. I only know one or two guys at that height to weight ration with less than 10% body fat. And they’re Giants.

By the by, I’ve never lied about my size. It just seems like pointless bragging as it can only make other guys feel worse, and disappoint the ladies later on if they found out. And why would you tell them you had a big dick unless you wanted them to find out.

One time, I was at a party and all these girls were flirting with me (years ago) and some how they got it into their heads that I had a big dick. One of the girls even approached me and asked if it was really big. I asked her what made her think that and she said she had ‘seen’ it through my pants.. Haha. I didn’t tell her the truth and I guess I did enjoy pretending even though I didn’t have any desire to take advantage of the situation. I can see where giving girls that empression is an ego trip, but I would never lie about it. Anyone else out there ever have this happen to them where they were mistakenly taken for having a big fatty and seen how women start coming on to you?

I didnt say I was small, just not huge. I was bulking alittle acouple of months ago and was up to 240lb. I’m actually 225 right now, been sick the last wk. But at 240 I was still around 10% Bodyfat. My waist is around 33 right now. I’m going to try to hit 250 by the end of this yr, but I have to be honest, I’m not natural.

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