First New Results In A While
I took quite a long break from any kind of regular PE routine. I mean, I’d do some stretches and the occasional manual clamp in the shower here and there, for bursts of upwards of a week, but nothing sustained. Just enough to not lose any size.
Between feeling very validated by both my wife, as well as my swinging experience with other women, I didn’t feel that the juice was worth the squeeze in terms of PE.
But we took a break from swinging when we had our son and last year we got back into it and I found myself having some performance issues with new partners and in more public, social settings where there were a lot of people around, so I got a prescription for cialis, which worked like a charm for swinging activities, but I feel that at my age (38) and in the shape I’m in, I shouldn’t need to rely on medication for my erection quality, so I decided to get back into some PE, as it had always improved my EQ in the past.
Since January, I’ve been making a more concerted effort to do PE on a semi-regular basis and I’ve been doing manual stretches and clamps in the shower in the morning, and 2x 10 minute sets of interval pumping in the evenings (10x 1 minute intervals 5 minute break wirh firegoat rolls followed by 10x 1 minute intervals).
I do one day on and one day off, with weekends off because I’m too busy with life.
I finally got a chance to measure after being forced to take a week and a half (so far) off due to getting a god damn yeast infection on my foreskin, and ok and behold, I have actual gains!
I went from 6.75” BPEL to just a hair under 7in.
I was not able to measure girth at 100% erection, but it was a bit over 5.3in mid-shaft.
For sure, lately it’s been feeling thicker in my hand when masturbating and I’m almost packing my 1.75” tube 5 minutes into pumping.
I knew I was growing because my tube has a measuring scale and I’m over 7in while under vacuum, close to 7.25”.
My wife has been commenting that it feels bigger as well.
On the swinging front, I had two experiences recently that REALLY stroked my ego…
We see one couple regularly, about once a month or two. They’re poly and they each have another long term partner they see separately.
1st experience:
Having sex with the other wife, the entire time she keeps saying over and over how hard I feel inside her and orgasms on top of me and then compliments me on “how well I top from the bottom”
2nd experience:
There is a recurring dance and play party this couple introduced us to. The party has a dance floor, a BDSM dungeon next to the dance floor, and an orgy area (several attached rooms full of beds and hampers of clean sheets and baskets of condoms, lube, wipes, and sanitizer)
The husband of the couple we see comes up to my wife and I along with his other partner, whom we have met previously in a vanilla setting as friends and ask us if we’d like to play with him and his partner.
We agree and go up to the orgy room and find a bed.
We sit down and have a chat about boundaries expectations, consent, safety, etc. and the topic of whether there are any fantasies or desires comes up. The other partner confesses that it is her fantasy for “all of us to suck your cock” meaning me…
So my wife, the other woman, AND the husband of the couple we regularly see all take turns worshipping my cock.
We’ve been seeing them for a year and I didn’t even know he had bi interest…
Man, teenage shy virgin me would never believe this shit.
STARTING: BPEL: 5.9in EG: 5.0in
2018: BPEL: 6.7in EG: 5.3in
NOW (start 1/2024): BPEL: 6.9in. EG: 5.4in