If you restore your foreskin and have enough to cover the glans, yes you can skin it back and it will likely stay that way for a period of time. As wt indicated, it takes a lot of skin to keep it forward since your ridged band was removed during the circ. However, it will likely look a bit odd from all the skin bunching and, depending on the amount of skin, will probably go back on its own after a bit.
Seems like your better choice would be to address the girlfriend’s view of an uncut/restored penis. This way you can restore enough to get *all* of the benefits instead of just getting the ones that happen from being covered all the time. I am specifically referring to the gliding sensation during sex as you won’t really hit that (depending on whether you are a grower or a shower) until you have enough skin to slide over the glans easily while erect.
Also keep in mind that this process take quite some time. So there will be plenty of time for you or her to change your mind along the way. It just seems kinda silly to me to even bother restoring if your major concern is what your girlfriend thinks about it aesthetically. I mean, is your girlfriend even going to be with you by the time all of this is said and done … what happens if the next one doesn’t like it all, gonna get chopped again?
Sorry if I sound harsh, but restoring your foreskin, just like PE, is something you gotta do for you. Her opinion shouldn’t affect your decision other than to indicate that if she doesn’t support you in this (something that affects the very core of what you feel and experience) then she probably won’t support you in other important things. It isn’t like you are getting a tatoo that she doesn’t like - there is more at play here than the visual aspect. Many guys who have gotten push back from their wives at first end up with great support from them as they realized the importance and the benefits. Hope that happens for you to.
- Chris