Growers VS Showers

I’ve been with alot of women from swinging in my younger days. Until I was in my mid 20’s, I was always self conscious about flaccid length. I am a grower. Add to the fact that, there were always a few guys at parties that were really hung. I’m 39 now, and what I’ve learned is most women get off watching it grow. Especially now that I’m out of the swing scene. Hate to use this term, but most “normal” women are in awe when they get something unexpected. Hell, at times I’M in awe watching them go down on 4 and ending up at 7.5.lol. It always helps to have a great tongue, magnificent hands, etc.but anything to add to the “wow” factor really helps. And being a grower does that for me. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

I think this is along the same lines as a woman saying that it’s “cute” when it’s at it’s smallest flaccid, but VERY happy when it grows to maximum potential. :D

I guess I’m a shower. I got over 6 inch flaccid, over 6,5 on a good day and I grows to a bit over 8 inch when erect. Don’t know how important it is with flaccid size but I like my size. Have recieved some comments on it and my girlfriend likes it both erect and flaccid. She says it’s bigger flaccid then many others are erect.

Yep, same here keybord. I hang at about 6 and get hard at over 7 and 1/2 inches and every woman I’ve been with said they liked it both flaccid and hard. My current GF will stop and watch me get dressed while it’s bouncing all over the place. Or if I’m walking around naked she will keep her eyes glued on it. Trust me, women love to see a long, plump, flaccid penis bouncing around. I used to be a grower, and I’ve see the difference in the way they look at my flaccid penis now. I highly recommend hanging for flaccid gains.

Hehe yes it’s nice. But don’t know if i wanna get much bigger flaccid. This is what i start with, might have had some small gains. But to get erect gains there Will be some flaccid gains allso. But as I’m ok with a bit over 7” flaccid. Bigger then that is to big for me. Don’t wanna get to much looks in public showers and such.

I’m a shower also. I think it may have some disadvantages for PE. It seems harder to stretch your penis. Even after ~ 3 months of PE, I still can’t reach my BPEL when stretching. Also the extenders (I have the andropenis) can be difficult to use even if you get any type of semi-flaccid or if you have a large flaccid girth. You end up clamping even if you don’t want to.

Hello Everyone,

This forum interested me. I am not really a shower but I have been working on becoming one. I noticed about 1/2 inch increase in my flaccid state since I have been stretching the penis. However, measuring with any integrity has been a struggle. Sometimes my flaccid length is between 4 and 4.25. Other times it seems like its closer to 5 inches. I wanted to find out if others have had the same struggle. Is there a trick to when the penis should be measured in relation to work outs? Sometimes its frustrating to see it smaller causing me to think I am going backwards.

It’s normal for your flaccid to change size.

It means your dick is healthy.

Never really thought about flaccid size until until discovering Thundersplace about a year ago. Think that I and the other males in my family have always been showers. I’m 7.75 NBP and my flaccid is usually in the six to seven inch range and full. Also, never crossed my mind that women paid any attention to guys’ packages. So thought all the posts one reads on this site were more or less just a lot of wishful thinking. However, now that I pay a little more attention myself, it does seem that some women do indeed check you out. Some are not very good at it and thus not very subtle. Made me uncomfortable earlier today as a dental assistant kept having her eyes go down there. It seemed that she was even aware that I knew what she was doing, yet it was like she couldn’t stop herself from doing it.

I’ve always wanted for my unit to be bigger as I felt small when flaccid. Since getting married, my wife introduced the concept of grower / shower and said that I’m a grower. Says she likes the girth and the big head. Still, I like to gain an inch or two.

A good reddit conversation on growers vs showers. Sorry if linked already.

TIFU by not wanting to show a girl my flaccid dick : tifu

See defstones123 comments.

Fuck flaccid.

I really don’t care about flacid size. Whats important, I think, what it is when it’s ready for action.

How can I highlight this enough? Let’s see….Oh I know…. FUCK flaccid!

You only use it to pee.If someone mocks you about your flaccid in the locker rooms or anywhere, you may say ” Would you care to see it hard?” If the response is negative or insulting your respond may be ” Then shut the fuck up”.

Another good one may be ” Weird right? Cause last night when it was hard your girl was choking on it”. Of course be prepared for a fist fight. :-)

I care about flaccid. It’s a nice part of how I fill out my jeans and slacks.