Has having a bigger dick made any difference?

Hey Guys

First I have to apologize for not reading the entire thread. Having a bigger dick does make a difference. I am currently compiling a comparative analysis of this very phenomenon (alright calling it a phenomenon may be a bit overboard, but you get my point). My soon to be wife, is a new woman, now that she has sampled my gains. ( It’s in my tread “I love Pe, but this might be the end”) I hope to post detailed data on her behavior “pre-big cock” and “post big cock” as I call it in a month or so.

At first I thought it was simply because having a bigger dick makes you more confident, now I’m not so sure that confidence is a determining factor. It does merit consideration, but if you are nervous and lack confidence, 8x6 still feels like 8x6. True you may wield it a little better if you are confident, but in my own personal very limited experience, I’m finding that confidence helps to get you to the bedroom, but skill, size, variety, and how much fun you have factor more so into pleasing a woman.

Just my two cents, Zerone

I wouldn’t know because I started PE over two years before I ever even lost my virginity. However, I do believe going from “average” to greater than 8 x 6 has put a confidence in my attitude which I wouldn’t otherwise have. I think the “big dick confidence” is no greater than the confidence from knowing you know how to rock a woman’s world in the sack and the confidence from knowing how to pick women up with regularity. If you have all three when it comes to sex you have the “trifecta” going on, in my opinion.

I’m only a couple of months into PE and I would have to say yes, huge difference already. My girl’s comments so far are priceless.

I’ve been married nearly 30 years, so I don’t think increased confidence enters into it. I think it is true that men who feel more virile, for whatever reason, will be perceived by women as being more virile, so I think that is part of it.

My wife has made no comments on my size. She has shown a general increased interest in sex and makes more appreciative noises in bed with vaginal sex. She has never been terribly orgasmic with vaginal intercourse and I can’t really say that has changed.

Well I guess to answer the original question of “Has having a bigger dick made a difference?” The answer is “Yes!” I for one say the difference is in what it has done for the individual much more so than the recipient.

Chances are, if you didn’t tell your long term girlfriend or wife your doing PE; hey have no idea there was a difference. It isn’t like one day you had 5 inches, and the next day you had six and they say “Oh my your so much bigger and thicker and I like it better.” Chances are that you feel so much better about yourself that your giving your performance a boost and your woman is responding to it. Shoot, your woman will come harder and more often just by giving better foreplay and also saying sweet loving words to them before hand makes for a better performance.

I think too many guys are trying to answer for ladies here. Of course the guy with the Bigger ones will tell you that its better than the littler ones and will give you all kinds of stories to back it up. We are men and want to be better than others since we were kids. I got more toys than you do therefore I’m better than you. I make more money than you therefore I’m happier than you are! I have a bigger dick than you so women want me more than you. Sad are the people who believe this.

We all(Men and women) have let our sexual education be pornos!We as men think we need a big dick like those “Actors” to get a sexual reactions like those “Actresses” do. Many young women think they must act like the actresses in bed to be having a good time. So For the guy who has women begging him to stay even though he screwing others…These women are all under 25 aren’t they? Most women under 25 dont even know what they truly like sexually (That’s coming from my wife) Dont take my word for it, ask any women over 30-32 years old. So many misconceptions and “Acting” going on in the bedroom. Many women are well into their 20’s before having a real orgasm.

Once we all get beyond what we see in movies and can get to the real art of sexual gratification, we all have much better sex. I am 40 years old and I have seen many stages in sexuality and personality. You all can believe the the guy with an 8 incher can do your woman better than you with a 5 inch but that is just not true. (Well…..unless he has a good grasp that it isn’t just size that matters.)

I have a cousin who has a 4 inch cock and a friend who has a 9 incher. My cousin is very outgoing and fun and (When we were younger and unattached of course) he would get all kinds of girls. He would even make fun of himself having a little dick calling it his mini me. But women loved him and he got all kinds of tail. Now my friend who had a nine inch dick wasn’t a very well versed man. When talking to women in the bar (Drunk women) He would just flatly tell them he had a nine inch dick. Now this did get him laid a few times, but I seen him get laughed in the face many times mainly by older women.They would say stuff like “Is that all your proud about yourself?” And my cousin with the four incher having a blast cant understand why me and my friend weren’t getting as much as he was (I was kinda shy).

Young girls are taught by porn to want a guy with a big dick and apparantly will put up with anything. They are taught how to act in bed from porn as well. DO you realize women are also selfconcious about thier own performance in bed? But mature women know it takes more than a big dick to make them come. So once these young girls !8-24 finally find their own body and quit following what porn is, they realize chasing a guy with a big dick like all the other little girls is just a waste of time especially when that guys’ ego is the only thing he has in life.

No man ever became a great lover on his own. If he is, he has been taught well by mature women. A young guy with a big cock shoving it into a squealing young woman is learning nothing! Eventually they will meet a mature woman who knows he body who will say “Hey bud, ya got a nice hunk a wood there but let me show you how to use it. I don’t want to act like I’m having a good time, I wanna have a good time.” But I’m sure she will be more discreet about it lol.

Guys, we are dumber than we think. We need to listen to the women, don’t listen to the guy with more toys, more money, a bigger dick. Because were born to want to be better than the next guy. I think its a survival thing. You need to be happy with what you have. If you can improve it, then do so. But keep humble. If your woman says the Volkswagen will get her to and from where she needs to go….believe her! Now if you can upgrade to a Corvette…Cool! But dont be disappointed if you cant ever get her the Hummer. Because you’ll be more disappointed than she will.

I never plan to write this much lol. I am not arguing or disputing anything or anyone. I have been screwing women longer than many of you have been alive. I am only putting in my input and findings. Its ok if you disagree. Just make sure its not your ego talking. Our ego gets us into so much trouble.

Peace!

Our ego gets us into trouble. Spell check didnt pick that on up sorry.

Dawgbone, older women get addicted to what the dick did all the same as younger women. In my experiences, I’ve noticed no difference. Having a big penis gives them something rare that pushes them to the limits physically. If the man knows what he is doing with it, it acts as another aphrodisiac.

It’s not more important than character, but it can “spice” your character quite a bit.

I promise I’m going to try to make this short lol. The question was “Has it made a difference” I say yes! for myself more than my wife. I don’t care who you are, women can take more than you have. That doesn’t mean anyone with a bigger one than yours is better at screwing than you are. It doesn’t mean they can pleasure women better than you.

I could say my wife liked it more but I would agree with 10inch that it is something new (He said rare but in the same concept) It gave me confidence and virility. Which made me more desirable to my wife(I think).

So many more factors go into how women act and react in bed. Sure making your dick bigger may get her interested, but so would having a hard body with 6pack abs. Or having longer or shorter hair, maybe being taller. Maybe more of an even tan. Maybe not so hairy, or maybe being hairier lol. Maybe if we smelled better, or used sweet words in foreplay etc. Any of those things and more can make the women a little more frisky in bed sure! It isn’t just having a big dick.

I’m 40 years old, I am married for 18 years. There are many guys out there with bigger ones than I. My wife had men with much bigger ones than I. But she married me. Why? well it wasn’t for a big dick! I’m not rich. She loved my character, my personality, confidence, humility and taught me how to do it to her good! And I have been dong it good for 18 years. She don’t want another man. She has had what bigger had to offer and it didn’t impress her as much as I could.

Guys, don’t let anyone tell you that someone with a bigger dick than yours can pleasure women better. That’s not true. If it were, what hope does a guy with a 4 incher have? If true, what hope does a guy with a 9 inches have? If someone is bigger than you, than that means they can do your woman better than you? NOT! Women need more than just a dick of any size. It is so much more than your dick that brought that woman to orgasm. If a guy with a bigger dick than you came along and did the same woman you did but he is short fat bald and hairy; he may not get the same response.

10inch I agree with you, but it don’t matter how big you are, if you know how to use it, it does become an aphrodisiac.

Don’t worry guys, take pride in yourself and be confident but be humble as well, there are many single 30-40+ year old guys with 8 inch dicks. There are somethings that count more than size.

It has certainly made a difference for me personally, though frankly I`m glad
I didn`t have 6 7/8” when I was single and dating three years ago.it was hard enough breaking off with a couple of women because they were into a guy my age being fit and looking like bruce willis, and took my decision hard.

I still see one woman occasionally in town and she clearly hasn`t dealt with it.

My personal confidence level has sky-rocketed since realising an inch in gains and knowing that the growth will continue.

This has nothing to do with anyone else.this is about my feelings.

My ex made me feel like shit about only having a small white dick.

She constantly went on about going to jamaica on holiday with her friends for the big bamboo.and I hate her for that.though her treatment brought me to Thunder`s place and my “self-help”.

And no, I wouldn`t like to show her the difference.

She doesn`t deserve the chance.

I walk around with 5 1/2” flaccid hang and that makes me smile every day.

I don`t know much else in this life that does that.

Dude, bigger is better. End of story.

Stats?

Dude, bigger is better. End of story.

Are you a woman? End of story.

a-unit, the reason why she said that stuff and rubbed it in your face is because she knows it hurts you. Women KNOW men are self conscious about our size and will do and say anything to piss you off. It may not be that you had a small white dick, im sure her having a huge gaped twat made a difference too. It isnt your fault she needs jobless Jamaican cock to make her feel good. Let her go, those guys make it a business of fucking dumb white women and getting money from them. There was a show about it I seen how these guys only job is trying to swindle money and gifts from these women who show up. They don’t care about them other than their money. One way or another, they pay for it, don’t feel bad dude,

Sorry, forgot to add my stats

Began PE in 2003 and started with 5.25x4.75
In 6 months I had 6.5x5.05

I didn’t keep up the PE regularly, I did occasional Jelqs and stretches in the shower but no routine. I lost maybe .25 in length but its ok.

Once I found my confidence along with keeping humility, my sex life has gone through the roof! I wish I could have found it when I was a young teenager.

If you think bigger is better…I feel bad you you. Because you will NEVER be content with what you have. And women pick up on it. I don’t want to argue or debate the issue especially when we dont have any women putting in their points of view. I am only trying to help.

Does having a bigger dick make a difference? “Yes!” But mostly for our own ego.
Is bigger better? “No!” Try passing that off to the girl (Or guy) whose had a 10x8 shoved way past the pleasure zones.

I hope to make this my last post, I didn’t mean to take over on this thread. I don’t speak from ego or ignorance. I’m 40 years old and have been around the block and back with many different women. I only speak from experience (With young and mature women).

I’m out!
Peace and good luck!

Dawgbone,

People like you keep saying things like “learn to fuck her right”. I hear this all the time. It’s never obvious to me what it means. How do you fuck her right?

People are so cryptic about this. Please explain.

P.S. I assume people mean be able to last for a while, figure out what she likes from her body (or verbal) signals, and keep doing that. While at the same time keeping it fresh by trying new things. But seriously, what else is there? WTF does “it’s how you use it” mean? Am I missing some magic trick, other than the obvious things I just typed out?

Lol and I thought I was going to get away from this thread.

Well Esc you bring up a very good point. WTF does “Use it right” mean? I guess that phrase is not quite correct. The phrase should say “Do her right!” Because its much more than just using your dick no matter what size you are.

First off, it don’t matter what size you are, you got to get her in bed first. Its using your words, using your eyes, using your body language,(By the way being cleaned up and smelling good factor as well) it is using your dick, your fingers, your tongue, whatever she likes and needs. Did you read my first post about just asking her what will make her feel good? I cant tell you what the next woman you screw will like most…but she can! Because what works for one woman doesn’t always work on the next. And one bit of advice I can give is; what some women find pleasing, others might find annoying.

I guess I would say try to pleasing as much as you can to all her senses. “Sight” try to look as good as your able (Wash up and dress nice) “Sound” tell them the things they love to hear about themselves, also look interested when listening to them! “Smell” Use nice cologne, Old Spice is for old farts! Don’t buy the cheap shit, spend a few bucks women love a good smelling man. “Taste” like I said, be clean!Women like a man who understands hygiene. “Touch” From foreplay to sex, this is where dick, tongue, fingers and whatever she likes, comes in to play.

I am sorry if that is too cryptic or vague, But women are very complicated and no one can just sum it all up on how to “Use it.” But this your journey! Fortune favors the bold! “Everyone man dies, but not every man lives!” (Brave-heart)

Your own experiences will teach you well as long as you consider yourself a learner and not a know it all, find some confidence while grasping humility (Being humble).It is easier said than done, but you got to begin somewhere.

Ok! I’m out!