Have you ever let your gf jelq you?

A while ago my girlfriend asked me if I could teach her how to jelq. My first thought was that it would be the ultimate PE, just lay on my back and let her do the painful job. And damn was I right, but not in a good way.

After a slow start with explaining and some careful practice, I let her have I try. But after a while I quickly understood that this was not going to be as effective as I had hoped. She could not feel the pressure inside my unit, and it really hurt when pushed forward. I thought my unit was going to explode. She could not control the pressure and it was extremely painful.

It seems to me that the key with jelqing is to have a fine balance with the pressure around the trauma line, but this is not easy to communicate to a second person. Not for me at least.

An other problem was that it was not easy to control the erection level as my girlfriend worked my soldier with all her heart.

So has anybody else had similar experiences, or maybe found a way to make it more effective?

I’ve had it done by a g/f before. Found it a little pointless because she was too afraid to give it high pressure, so I got little or nothing from the session. She only liked the fact that she was greasing up my penis and semi-masturbating it. She didn’t get the whole need to push blood into it..

So since then I havent bothered getting a second person to do it, I know my own threshold better than anyone and although I could effectively kill two birds with one stone by letting my g/f get her jollies and getting a PE workout, i just havent been bothered to invest the time to show and explain what its all about in the PE sense of it.

Maybe have her try helping you with pumping where its a good thing to have an erection. Have her rub your balls as you pump so you stay 100% erect in the tube.

Most of my ex girlfriends couldn’t jerk me off for shit, so I am guessing they wouldn’t have done a good job at jelqing either. Thank you goes out to the fine man/woman that invented the good old blow job.

My girlfriend is scared of my pump, so I guess that would not be an option.

No, would never let her do that.

It took me a while to get develop ‘muscle memory’ for my hands on how to hold, squeeze and push blood forward along with timing the kegels.

Props to whoever taught their girlfriend to jelq them.

I wonder though, would a guy be more effective than a girl at jelqing ?[I hold that jelqing by another person is pointless regardless]

Any guys out there have experience in that?

I dunno, you should give it a try acer :D

I agree. I don’t think I could let my wife do it just because she doesn’t know the pressure and plus I would get more turned on if she did it and it wouldn’t be a jelq session it would be something else. Now I will let her pump me because she likes that anyway.

Hot. I put my clamp on a few times when I had sex with my girl - she told me she’d be willing to help me “exercise” any time.

My wifes wanted to jelq me before but I didnt think that was a good idea. She has however watched me PE on several occassions and helped with the pump a little and passed me the lube. lol

Oh yes, same with my wife too. ;)

My wife offered to jelq me. In order to keep the right pressure I said no. However, she has helped me in my jelqing. I have trouble maintaining a hard on (only) while jelqing. Prior to sex, she has played with my balls while I did the jelqing. We also tried a cherry flavored lube that she would suck the tip of my cock while I jelqed. That was more trouble than it was worth. I have not jelqed for 8 months. No time and I mostly do manual stretches.