horror story update

Couldn’t agree with you more, god. I got a king-sized bed and I can’t get far enough away from the wife. Been married 13 years. It was definitely my main reason for starting PE.

Wad, sorry to hear about your situation. One of these days, probably in a million years or so, we might be able to figure out one iota of what goes through a women’s mind.

Marriage scares me, my divorce will be final soon and I’m not saying I will never get married again but…..

Dino,

We can’t live with them. We can’t live without them.

Horse

Hey Wadzilla.

I’m new here, and I dont know you, per se’, but I have read many of your posts.

Sorry to hear about the marriage problems. I am 44, been married for 21 (or something like that) and went thru some “shit” 4 years ago, marriage counseling, etc. I just didn’t feel like being married anymore. Anyway, I know it’s a tough and or pain in the ass thing to go thru, so I’m feeling your pain and anger.

Hang in there, keep your wits about you, and it’ll work out, one way, or another.

There should be a limitation put on marriages, like 10 years or something.

Sixer

Wad,

Sorry about the wif. More importantly, can you give some more detail about the pulse stretches and the direction you are pulling. Also, maybe more detail about the break, change in LOT, change in size, etc. Thanks.

Is married life really as bad as it sounds? I told my girlfriend about PE and when I say that it will benefit both of us, she says it will benefit me. I think that this is because she thinks that if i want to improve myself it cant be good in the first place. And i would also a agree with 8inches dont tell them till they ask else they will tell you its bigger when it is actually isnt.

As for (gas) petrol UK is the worst. Over 80p a LITRE! So nearly 7$ a gallon.

Sorry to hear, best wishes Wadzilla.

NB! The petrol in Norway is worse than 80p á litre.. I “win” :p

Godzilla,

I have actually lost a few more pounds since I updated my signature, and I may have gained a tiny bit more, but I’m waiting to officially measure after this long weekend.

We are more alike than just PE, I have been married 10+ years and we have 2 kids. My wife and I are ok everywhere except the king size bed, for some reason, all she wants to do in it is sleep.
I’m not sure that, the thought of having a bigger dick to please other women after marriage, had anything to do with me starting PE, but I know that having a bigger dick does give me more confidence that I would be more desirable to other women.

I started PE because I genuinely wanted to please my wife more, and hoped that if she found sex more pleasurable that we would have it more often. But alas, that wasn’t the case, she finds it very pleasing, but she still could take it or leave it. I have even tried learning how to “seduce” my wife, and have tried many of the techniques on her but no results as of yet. I have examined my “inner game” and found many areas needing improvement, and have been working on those. My wife had her testosterone level checked and it was normal. We have both been working out and loosing weight, although she is dissappointed in her progress, she has made progress.

Sometimes I feel like I’m trying to fix a broken clock, all the gears are in good working order, I wind it up tight, but the main spring is sprung and it just won’t keep ticking.

Actually you are on to something with this statement. If you tell her that you beleive your dick isn’t large enough (which is what you are doing when you tell her you want to make it bigger) then you are telling her that what she has isn’t good enough. This can be a turn-off for her.

Part of what I have learned from Twat and others concerning seduction, is that if a woman believes you are a good catch, she will want you. If she believe you may not be the best catch, she may not want you. Telling her that you want to PE, just puts the thought in her head that you may not be the best catch.

You can’t un-ring the bell, and you can’t put the genie back in the bottle. My advice for anyone thinking about telling their wife, GF or SO about PE, is to wait until you have improved your sex life, and they notice and ask about it.

I would also advise you not to tell them too many details about what you are doing. My wife knows everything I do, and she reads some of the posts here on this forum. (hi honey) What she reads here influences her comments about me, and I know they influence her opinion of me and my dick.

I can’t put her back in her bottle, so I’m stuck with a wife/PE coach.

Never tell the wife about thunders, PE is one thing but never thunders this is your sanctuary

>>>I started PE because I genuinely wanted to please my wife more, and hoped that if she found sex more pleasurable that we would have it more often. But alas, that wasn’t the case, she finds it very pleasing, but she still could take it or leave it.

i_want_8,
I believe some women are not into sex all the time. I married a virgin (mistake for me) because I was busy having lots of sex prior to marriage and got wrapped up in the idea of marrying this girl, time was right, love???, etc. She is very shy and never opened up even after 10+ years. She is a ‘thinker’ and always looks like she’s troubled about something. But we do laugh together and I think that’s why we ultimately stay together… that and the kiddies.

Wifey has nice tits… but she has an inverted or backwards uterus and it feels like I am hitting her anus when we fuck… she used to complain about it here and there.. now that we confirmed it was something physical she complains about it all the time… and my bigger dick really doesn’t help in some ways. Now she craps forever after a fucking (sorry guys… but it’s true) and it’s a turnoff. She cums quicker now since adding an inch or so length… and she did suck me the other day… without a fuss… which is rare.

PE overall has helped me make wifey cum easier. Much less stress on me to ‘work her’ and grind forever and ever. She has said I’m ‘long enough’ while when we were first married she wished I was ‘just a half inch longer’.

I am pleased with my results and feel much better about myself.

Peace.

BTW, Dino… yes, this does feel like some kind of sanctuary!

Wad, I want eight, and others,

As some of my few other posts have revealed, things between my wife and I have been rather rocky. Over the course of the last year she has spent less time with me and more with work friends, going to concerts, etc… She has always been rather cold in bed, which has probably spurred my interest in pe. While my schlong has always been slightly above average, I thought and extra inch or two might make the difference for her and help her around to really enjoying our sex life. With other girlfriends I’ve had amazing sex, and have always been certain that it was my wife that was, well, lame (she’s also quite tall so I thought it might be a physical thing, though once I hit eight inches she said that the length was plenty). So the pe helped add size and while my wife has enjoyed the growth she has never really come around to being the wildcat I’d always hoped for. Nonetheless, sex is just sex, I love my wife for a myriad of other reasons and have always been willing to deal with a less than amazing sex life.
However, rocky as things have been, she up and left me nearly three weeks ago. We still remain in communication, she hasn’t cheated on me, but is essentially flaking out on our marriage. Even after nearly three weeks she won’t commit to even agreeing on counseling.
I love my wife, but as crappy as things have been, as lame as our sex life has been, and as easily as she is flaking-out on our marriage, I am beginning to think maybe this is all for the best. Whats more, the longer she’s away, the more comfortable I’m becoming with her absence.
This thread has begun to show a common, well, thread. I thought I’d throw in my own tale of woe and see if it helps further the conversation. My thoughts and concerns go out to all the others in a similar situation. While my wife and I haven’t any children, a marriage is a terrible thing to lose. Perhaps pe for the married man is a sign of impending doom. Best of luck Wad and I want eight.

Wad,
I’m glad to hear you’re still around. Sorry you’re going through another rough spot in your marriage. Don’t really have any advice for you, but I have faith that you’ll come through this okay. You seem like a tough guy.

Craig

So what you are saying is never get married unless it is someone like 789’s wife. See, that is why we need cloning. Support your local cloning lab. Seriously though Wad, sometimes things cannot work even if we try to hold them together. Kind of like holding a fine vase, the harder we hold the more the pieces crumble. Just remember that there is always something better around the corner. Good luck.

-TF

No. Married life is not all bad. I’ve been married almost 11 years, my wife knows I PE and everything is sweet.
And yes at 80p per litre (AU$2.05/litre) you win!