How Big is "Too Big"? (post your opinion)

The biggest thing I worry about when it comes to size is not being able to insert the whole of it (I want to be ‘balls deep’ when I screw— that’s my main concern. I don’t want to have to hold back with an inch or so outside of her (for me that would be bad).

The worst thing I could think of is finding someone I wanted to settle down with (miracles can happen) but being too big to insert it the whole way and having to hold back.

If you’re truly concerned about it, why not just go for a classic, conservative 8 x 6?

That’s a good question— my original goal was 8x6 but now I’m thinking if I can go balls-deep (i.e. not ‘bottom-out’) at 9”BPEL then it might be good to have that extra length.

I’m wondering how long is “too long” when it comes to bottoming out.

Plus, going for 8x6 would be a lot less trouble, especially since I’m sure some of the girth exercises are going to increase my length a little.

There are some good threads around here on “cul de sac” orgasms and bottoming out where a lot of really long guys discuss this sort of issue.

From what I’ve read most of the biggest guys can seem to go balls deep. Maybe certain positions are better for them than other positions, but I’ve read few threads where women can’t take their length. Most average sized girls seem to be able to accomodate a lot, both from expansion due to arousal as well as from stretching deep into the cul de sac.

You might want to check out that forum for really large guys and size queens, though I can’t remember the url. Anyone have that link?

Lpsg.org

yep, that’s it.

Thanks, joe-joe

You can always continue PE after you find the girl you are settling down with.

It’s quite an eye opener looking at a website that treats having a big-dick like an affliction.

There’s one post I’ve found so far that details a guy not being able to insert more than 7.5”

I’ve not been able to find any others— is “Cul de Sac” a popular term? (It didn’t turn up any results.)

Neither did “bottom out” or “bottoming out”

I’m at 7.5” now and I’m bottoming out in my wife’s CDS.

She’s a size queen and even though I’m hitting the trampoline, I want another inch to nail it with more authority.

One of the problems is (for me at least) getting past the cervix. I always used to hit it prior to PE and she said it felt like someone hit her with sock full of batteries down there and we’d have to stop. Now, I seem to slide right by it most of the time.

Try a search on CDS or cul-de-sac here.

Good luck.

Is it only hitting the cervix that’s painful? If you can avoid the cervix is it okay?

Thanks— I was running searches for those terms at the other site (:

I’m going to have to read up on this as I’m not sure if I should reduce my new goal of 9”BPEL back down to 8”BPEL

I liked the idea of being 9”BPEL/8”NBPEL, but I don’t want to bottom out (at least not too much, especially if it’s painful) I want to be able to get ‘balls-deep’

To my wife it is. The CDS is beyond the cervix, so when I got a lttle more length, the pounding I was giving her slid past the cervix. I wasn’t bottoming out when I hit the cervix, but my angle and thrusting, I would sometimes just nail it and fuck her up. Now it is so infrequent that we hit it. When you hit the cervix, it is hard and unfortable for you too, but the CDS is soft and cushiony. (See photo) I think the Fornix is the CDS area.

I am hitting my wife’s CDS already but I want to hit it with more force and pressure, so it shouldn’t be a problem with your goals.

Vater— thanks, that’s excellent.

It looks from the diagram that the cervix is about level with the top or very beginning of the mons pubis. If that’s universal it might be a rule of thumb for estimating how much length a given sexual partner might be able to handle— a small mons pubis may mean they can’t handle as much length.

I found another diagram— it seems the cul de sac is the posterior fornix

http://www.bart … /illus1166.html

Thinking back to my last girlfriend I seem to remember her saying that if I went too deep it was painful and that was before PE. She had quite a diminutive stature however (she was kind of small).

7.5" might be common, even an average, although the post I found on the other forum reported the guy bottoming out for the first time, so I’m guessing he’s been with other women where it’s not been an issue.

3’x1’

Mr. Fantastic,

As you’ve probably realized, the length required depends on the woman. I’ve seen some women say that 6” was too long for them. I’m at about 8” BPEL and have only a few times have had the sensation of reaching the end of the tunnel with my wife.

I believe that you can give her cul de sac orgasms by way of the anterior or posterior fornices. From how these orgasms are described by members on here stretching the cul de sac often results in very easy to have, multiple orgasms where the girl’s body pratically convulses and she makes all sorts of moans and screams. They apparently come one after the other and leaves her dizzy, unable to speak, and sometimes crying in happiness. :D

That’s why I wouldn’t worry too much about getting too long. The cul de sac needs to be really stretched to get these orgasms.

Lucky Bastards!!! :D