How do I get it rock hard?

Getting right to the point, I’ve had a problem getting my dick 100% rock hard for intercourse, or even masturbation. Once I’m naked with my GF, I’m completely limp still… after her stroking it a bit I get a 100% hard on. Then just as I’m about to enter, it goes completely limp again. I figure this must be a psychological problem as one of my friends had said. But when I’m by myself I have the same problem… I would get a super hard for about 30 seconds at most before it goes to about 60% hard.. then it just stays that way. While this is most likely psychological, which I have no idea how to fix at the moment, might there be anything else that could help? Any tips?

How old are you? Are you overweight? Do you have an issue with your size (who here doesn’t??)? Any traumatic events? How much PE do you do and do you give yourself time to rest (too much PE can tire your fella out). How long has this been a problem?

Once we know this we can make a detailed diagnosis, by which I mean guess.

Or maybe you should speak to your doctor.

Hi hydroxpl,

Well, beside what Lordbase has mentioned and since we’re still waiting for your answers you probably have to kegel more. It really help with that.

Good luck!

Best regards,

D’

Anxiety may be a cause.

But Kegels will help

The same is true for me. I do kegels too, but the most I can do is five 3 seconds before I can’t do no more and things become limp.

What?

You dont need to be erect to kegel.

Try entering flaccid, after a grueling day of PE I sometimes have a problem getting it 100%. Trying to not be concerned and entering flaccid works wonders and it doesn’t take long to become fully erect.

It is not a requirement to enter pussy erect, let nature take over.

When you finish a PE routine you should be 110% harder at the end of the day, Not being, 100% is when your over doing it, and working against good gaining.

Crashhex, yes that is mostly right, I appreciate the concern. Thanks to diminishing returns, I partake in extreme measures. I PE with the devil and am fortunate I’ve been O.K., I can boldly say I am very conditioned.

If I was not able to get an erection, I would be worried, it just takes a little more than my hand to cause it. My dick sees enough of my hand . :)

Do you ever get rock hard? Like when you look at porn do you get to 100%?

Yes, of course, otherwise I would be backing off. After two or more hours of manual PE, I’m just saying my hand just doesn’t do anything for me. I’m kind of desensitized, if you catch my drift.

Sometimes, my little snake needs coercing, that’s all. :) , There is nothing like some wang dang sweet poontang to coerce it.

Thanks, Mr. Nine. But I was asking hydopxl. Now I see he said he does get 100% hard in his first post. Hydopxl, do you have a problem staying hard while you masturbate?

Ahh, shit!! Sorry Ike.

No biggie. Nice to know your story too.