How obsessed with PE are you

I enjoy PE. I haven’t gain much but I enjoy the challenge. I enjoy doing it (I don’t orgasm when I do it). I enjoy the prospect of being bigger (even if it doesn’t materialize). That being said. I’m a little worried that it is becoming too big a part of my life. I think my obsession with penis size is making me less secure about my relationship with my wife (we have been married ten years and have two kids but I’m still jealous and untrusting - this makes it worse because I’m more concerned about whether or not I’m large enough for her). I try to limit the amount of time I spend doing PE (less is more theory) and average about 30 minutes per day (more on weekends). But if I include the time I spend in here and thinking about PE the amount of time is much higher.

I am the type of person who obsesses about everything. I don’t gamble because if I did I would be broke. I don’t smoke because if I did I would be dead and broke. I guess I just find it difficult to find balance in my life. When I do something I like to do it 100% because I hate to fail. Just wondering how large a part PE plays in others’ lives and if you also worry about it becoming too important or contributing to your insecurities.

Cheers.

Once you pee, you become a PE brother!
Wecome!

It becomes an obsession! First you want 7 then you want 8! Soon 9! May be 12!! Then? Who cares!!

Well I just turned 21 so I can say you have a lot more shit to do and a lot more responsibilities than me. It becomes addictive to me just in the way that I have to remind my self (today is break day, don’t touch the unit) but it doesn’t interfere with my life. If you have an obsessive or addictive personality and insecurities I personally think it’s best to talk to someone to get those issues worked out. Fix the mind first and the body will follow. (In theory anyway)

For me it comes and goes.

Obsessed then nothing.

But I always come back, eventually.

Mostly off, then really on, for awhile.

When you squeeze it in your life style (like in 2 hours hanging at night, taking your dinnner, watching tv, checking your mail, downloading music, well, things that you try to do all in the night, before bedtime) it gets really easy, plus, if you know that every month you get a 1/16” - 1/8” gain, well, you try to MAKE IT part of your daily routine.

Its not obsession, its just a “plus” in my life! :D

Not obsessed enough.

Pe is the same for me as brush my teeth, showering, eating etc

Hi northof60 ,

I know where you are coming from , and I appreciate your concerns . I think they are justified , especially if you think that your focus on P.E. , And penis size could be making you more insecure about your marriage . I think that many men are insecure about their penis size , I mean , just look at the number of people here , and on other sites like this , which shall remain un-named . :) I would encourage you to follow this practice for the joy of it , and let the reward be in the doing . I think that should apply to most of what a person does in life , actually . The real treasure lies in the journey , not in the destination . As far as your relationship concerns , you need to work those out with your wife now , before they become worse , and possibly be the end of your marriage . Insecurity and jealousy are the death of many a marriage , my friend . Nip it , nip it , nip it in the bud , to quote a very wise , skinny man .

Looking at my stats made me think that I’m dangerously close to my final goal (8 NBPEL - 6EG).

I hope I don’t PE more than that, I must stop the obsession in some way!

/Swensk

I’m pretty obsessed with it. I arrange my timetable around it; I’m doing it every waking moment and miss meals sometimes.

I have to reach my PE goals, so the faster I can reach them the better.

Generally speaking I hang from the moment I get up until I need to sleep and if it gets too painful to hang I strap on my autoextender or I pump.

I’ve got about a 1/2” in length to gain to hit my goal of 8” (but now I’m thinking of going for 8 + 1/2” (apparently being any longer than eight-and-a-half can cause problems with full insertion/grinding etc.).

I’d say that for me PE has become a discipline, obsession and lifestyle, but I should reach my goals soon and be able to cut down.

I met someone recently and was considering giving it up but it didn’t work out so I’m back to get the last half inch (still 5 & 1/2 years & counting since I last fucked anyone).

Mr. Fantastic - With some women over six inches can be a problem for full insertion/grinding.

Uncommon, but it goes up in probability as your length rises.

Sitting at 7.75 myself.

Q: How obsessed with PE are you?

A: I would say, about 5.

GM

PE is so much fun :jumpblue: I personally love stretching. I stretch everyday nonstop. I’m worried about becoming a stretching addict and not being able to stop it after my length goal is reached.

Hey, sort of off topic; well, really off topic, but Fuel in your signature it mentions NBP and BP, but I have trouble measuring NBPEL. I have these two tendon-looking things on either side of the top of my shaft connecting my penis to my body and these tend to add to the fat pad while the area between them is flatter/shallower. How do you measure your NBPEL?

I place the ruler at the base and measure to the tip of the glans without pushing the ruler. When I first started PEing I used to measure sitting down. I always measure standing up now because it gives more accurate results.