I’ll chime in on the side that says that limiting one’s solitary ejaculations (not orgasms BG-lol) helps with overall potency/erection frequency/and quality of erection. The less you come, the more raging your hardons are. The more raging your hardons/excitations are, the more your dick will swell. The more your dick swells to it’s absolute maximum, the more it grows during PE.
That said, I feel that giving up the juice is healthy as well and if you’re not doing it at all then you need to let her rip at least once a week to keep that part of the pipes well lubed and used too.
And in a similar vein, it’s reputed that if orgasming without ejaculation (seminal retention) is practiced without proper digestion of the tremendous amount of “chi energy” which this (reputedly) creates, then this method can (allegedly) lead to a sort of manic increase of the sexual desires which is said to likely cause an eclipse of some of the more subtle energies which can also be exchanged during lovemaking- i.e. intimacy, trust, psychic bonding, emotional bonding, and a mutual uptake of the “more refined” essences which the man and the woman (purportedly) bring to the table. By creating large reservoirs of purely sexual “ching chi” within the body which then go “undigested” the aspirant invites an ever increasing cascade of sexual desires upon himself which can eventually wreck health rather than create it. This “proper digestion” of aroused “ching chi” (kundalini/pure sexual essence) occurs through meditative exchange of the breath and the passing of the “yin” and the “yang” essences of the male and the female during lovemaking. Basically what this says is that if you hold the seed you get your sex energy quotient up to a very high level and if you don’t “digest” some of this energy back into your nervous system that this practice can eventually burn you out and leave you dissatisfied with even the most extreme varieties of sexualized experience.
I’ve played around with a lot of the so-called yogic and tantric sex practices and have found from first hand experience that NOTHING we are doing here is NEW….nothing.
In fact, In my opinion, most of what we do here is a sort of shallow facsimile of what is truly possible in the realm of dick health/sexual Knowledge.
Ancient Chi-Gong masters swung iron and lead off of their dicks, Taoist masters cultivated their sexual energies to very refined levels through seminal retention and active sexual meditation, and Yogic adepts of the various Tantric schools got their “swords” as “sharp” as they possibly could because they believed that the act of sexuality was both a dance of war and a dance of love and that it was therefore a high-wire act over a pit of danger and reward. These masters developed techniques whereby they “inhaled” various healing (and sometimes caustic) substances up into their prostates via their peckers…they took concubines for the sole purpose of “sparring” with them sexually….they developed the capacity to shoot their loads tremendous distances…and they all used herbal medicines to “refine” their seed through techniques which they developed into various schools of sexual alchemy. These practices were then held in trust and passed on very carefully to regents, kings, and noblemen for the purposes of increasing virility and spawning auspicious progeny.
And the one thing all of these ancient sexo-yogic schools had in common? They all did PE. Within all of them there is a tradition/practices for growing more whang. These guys knew their shit.
When we debate the value of saw palmetto or damiana or horny goat weed or etc.etc.etc. I can practically hear the ancients from just beyond our place in the fabric of time saying, “well, DUHHH!!!!”
I then imagine that they think to themselves, “and now if you only knew how to gather it yourself and prepare and use it PROPERLY!!!!”
But since we really don't and even for those of us that do, rarely allocate the time to do shit properly, I believe that MODERATION and the middle way are basically the soundest course: hold your shit most of the time. Jerk off and workout with an eye towards preserving endurance and your ejaculate, but when the need really seems to be building up- LET HER RIP…..
And shit, I guess with all of this yoga talk I guess I’ve totally blown my cover…..
Thunder, just change my screen name to “newageguy” and get it over with…..
