I feel like such a failure.

First off i just recently took a 2 week break(still used TheraP, and ADS) from PE(actual penis exercising), been really busy and a little lazy. But regardless I think the break was good for me since I’ve been consistent since Sept 05’. But heres my issue, I use to have alot of control while edging but about a week before my break, during my break, and now after my break I can’t successfully edge without eventually blowing my load. And I know some of you guys dont think its a big deal but I do. Its just that I’m losing control, the sensations are to strong and are taking over. And since my workouts can take anywhere from 90-120 mins sometimes even more I feel like I’m completely wasting my hard work and time. What do you guys think? I keep telling myself that I’m not gonna blow my load for at least a month but I just cant do it anymore. Just curious how long have some of you gentlemen gone(In days not mins/hours) before blowing your loads from Edging(not including sex, thats a must except for some of you Pros like Big Girtha)? And do any of you guys think i completely wasted all those workouts that eventually ended with a nut?

Thanks,

MrC

I once didn’t came for 2,5 months. What helped is that I am multi orgasmic. Read the book “The multi orgasmic man” and become multi orgasmic yourself.

I don’t think you wasted your time. When you edge, for instance a half hour each time you will have more sexual stamina than the regular guy who blows his load with his girl in 5 minutes.

Guys. You don’t have to be a monk. I mean I have never pushed celibacy, especially for you young guys who are a perpetual hard-on looking for a place to happen anyway. Sure keeping yourself erect and engorged as much as possible is good for girth, but complete abstinence is not necessary. Edging is fine for two or three days of heavy girth-work a week if you are really advanced into edging, otherwise don’t torture yourselves. And never, EVER pass up pussy for PE.

The Gospels According to Girtha

Fuckin’ aye.

Yeah, I think im gonna go to Barnes and Nobles and look for that book. Thanks for your input BG. Not to sound weird or anything but Im always conscience of what you say and I remember you saying that you dont cum even when you getting pussy on girth days. And that my friend I admire. You have complete control over your body, and thats what I want. But anyway I’ll focus harder for myself so that I dont feel I’ve wasted anymore time.

d_sut here, I wouldn’t give up pussy for a blood transfusion.
I don’t edge for girth, I edge because I can feel like I am blowing heaps of times in a row, without making a mess on my sheats, and being able to get myself off nicely.

peace out

I nut after each and every PE session. I’ve gained 1 1/4” length and 3/8” girth. Nothing earth-shattering, but I strongly disagree with the notion that orgasming affects gains.

This is a very good idea.!! Do you have the book? If you want it ..let me know.I can send by mail.
Good luck.

To all of you, read the book if you want. Read some stuff here to help you become multi-orgasmic. It’s fun. Practice and get good at it.

But do remember that your prostate gland needs a certain amount of exercise, too. It benefits from ejaculation and is designed to be much, much more active than once in two and a half months. By witholding for long periods of time, you take the risk of clogging the multitudinous little pockets in that gland (the arcinii) and thus create breeding areas for all the lovely bacteria we may become prey to - even through the lining of the large intestine, inside which they abound and which lays right up next to the prostate. These bacteria can sometimes get through that barrier on their own, according to some experts on prostatitis. You don’t want prostatitis. Been there. It is absolultely awful.

Best to try to figure out what is a “normal” ejaculation frequency for your age group. Most of you are in your 20s - 30s. Try to at least keep to its minimum number of times a week/month. More often is better, according to recent studies. Fluid exchange is healthy.

For those of you worried about sapping your Vital Energies, have sex or masturbate at times when you don’t have a pressing need for chin, chee, hoo, whap or wah. You can figure this out. Otherwise, you may have a hell of a time, trust me, figuring out how to get cure an infected prostate gland.

So many guys mistake orgasming with ejaculating. It is possible to do the former without the later, and abstaining from the later is what helps with girth. But a healthy abstinence is a few days, not months. I think holding ejaculations more than four or five days is probably hard on the prostate, as Avocet pointed out. I usually hold it for the three days I work girth, then film a nice facial on the fourth day.

Wow, this is all good news to me. And Im going to take this all in. I dont know where I thought that holding Cum in for long amounts of time was good. Im going to try and get that book today.

I do both after each PE session and have had continued gains.

I agree with Avocet8, This can cause problems in the prostate. You really don’t want to trigger any future prostate enlargement problems. Has anybody here experienced an enlarged prostate. I have and it was not only a constant running to the restroom to finish urinating that I was trying to force out from the piss before, not to mention the constant leakage creating the wet spot on the crouch area of your jeans. The antibiotics perscribed constipated me and I gained 20 pounds in 1 1/2 months. Thank God Saw Palmento (an herb, better than the Anti biotics).

Although, edging is good during foreplay. Mywife masterbates me and sucks my dick till I stay, “Stop, stop”. We do this about 4 times until sex or if she feels its time to shoot the load.

I will not edge and hold back the ejaculation. It’s a great exersice, but dude, enjoy life.

I don’t edge for girth, I edge for the other reasons- stamina, enjoyment etc. Is my edging inhabiting any length gains I may be getting?

I used to wank to blow just about everyday, and just about 100% of the time I took a shower! Now I am down to maybe blowing once/twice a week! Don’t particualary feel any different or stronger, or “girthier” for that matter. However I am enjoying being able to get myself off so much!

I can’t think of any good science that would support the notion that blowing a load after a good PE session would hurt the gains. We’re either increasing the blood-bearing capacity of the cells in the corpus cavernosa, or actually increasing the tissue - but neither would be at all affected by ejaculation. The idea of needing the “hormones” or whatever in the sperm to grow, and their being somehow expelled through ejaculation, is utter nonsense.