I hope this ends the problems

A little bit over a week has past since I made my first post. Actually I wanted to express all my opinions about the responses I recieved since then.

Well to start off I am a 21 year old high school grad with no colledge degree, and it so happens that I am a black male. I am very well capable of spelling and speaking proper english, as well as writing it also. The reason I mention this is because its seems to me as if spelling should be the main part of your daily pe excercises. Lately i forgot the reasons i stared coming to this board.

Now lets be honest, I understand that there are proper ways to spell words. Which would mean there are also proper ways to pronounce these words also. My next question leads to how many of us use proper pronunciation? You may complain when words are spelled like “dat” instead of that, or “dis” instead of this, but how many of you pronounce it like “dis”, or like “dat”. My point exactly.

Another matter since we are on the issue of spelling. Why is it that this forum has problems with the way i spell things? You mean to tell me when you are reading a post and a word is spelled incorrectly or spelled differently that you cannot distinguish what the person is meaning to say. Whatever happened to reading around a word you didn’t understand to find the meaning of it. Maybe I’m old fashioned and I was the only one taught to do that. Now here is something very important to think about (especially to all the readers who had a problem with my first post and my spelling. Since you claim you care about the english language so much). I respect everyone and I do not treat people with disrespect of any kind (ex. Intelligence, attitude, or spelling). I also believe if you get as far as to read, sign, and become a member of this forum that you must be capable of some type of spelling. That would mean you are very capable of reading. So if a word is spelled in the wrong form either the person who wrote it choose to do that or didn’t know any better. I am now getting off the subject, but here is my point. We are all adults( I hope). So, if you so concerned about the english language and the spelling of words. Why is it that when there is a post and words such as MY COCK or MY DICK or CUM or Pussy or WAD or Load or JERKING OFF or ( should i really continue). HHHHHHHHMMMMMMMMMM. For some reason those words and spelling bothers nobody. Now are we spelling those words correctly. Those words or terms aren’t in the english dictionary. So how do we know if they are to be spelled a certain way. HHHHHHHHHMMMMMMMM… Maybe some of us are just perverts and we use these terms or words on a everyday basis, so we see no problem with them. Do you use these words with your elders, or your boss, or better yet, Do you teach your children the correct way to spell these words? When did they actually become part of the english language. And when did they really get the meanings that we use them for ( ex. COCK).

I can keep on going and really become an asshole, but i won’t because I feel we have hit real low and as if i was insulted. So I will stick with the real reason I joined this board. I hope i didn’t offend anyone. All that was meant by me was to express my opinions just as everyone else did in reply to my original post.

Now I will leave you with my stats. I took into consideration what was said about bone pressed erect measurements and have done so. My bone pressed erect lenght is a little over 7 inches right now with my girth increasing a little over 5.5 inches ( not near 6 though). As far as my nbp, I see much improvement because my erect lenght stands near 7 inches and much above 6 and a half. I also wanted to know if stretching is also a good way to make gains. and out of all the pe excercises which one gives the best results… Personally i think it would be pumping but i noticed jelqing did make more of an improvement… Also would love some input from pumpers who made gains and the amount of time it took to see dramatic results . Thankyou!

Hi Nine Inches,

Haven’t read that earlier thread and can’t see anything wrong with your spelling. One can definitely understand it.

What would br nice, though, is splitting big posts into paragraphs
with empty lines in between. It makes it easier to read that way.
Perhaps it’s just me… :)

PEnister

I did read that other thread, and I also contributed. I was one of those who found your original post annoying to read…it wasn’t an annoying post and no-one meant to insult or attack you. You are very true about spelling…many a time you see “you’re” spelt “your” etc, and it is simply annoying. That said, I have made exactly the same mistake in some posts, as when one types quickly the the fingers try to keep up with the mind but are unable.

I do not profess to pronounce every word correctly as I have travelled quite extensively, and understand every country, every region, has its own accent and intonation.

But I don’t say dis or dat. Do you? This board is virtually the only contact I have with written everyday English. Sometimes I am embarrased to see that my English is becoming worse, and I often have to get out the dictionary to check spelling. Sometimes I’m too lazy.

Again, welcome back. You’ve started with a larger dick then most guys here. I hope you achieve your goals.

And now that you have shown you do know how to spell (as you obviously did anyhow), I for one would appreciate it as I’m a lazy bastard and if a post is hard to read or simply too long, I tend to skip it anyway. Take Jabari’s post as an example.

And all the best with your PEing.

P.S. Excuse any mistakes :chuckle:

Hey Nine Inches!

Welcome aboard, I wish you success in your Pe efforts. I can understand you fine, it just takes a bit longer. Big deal! We are all here for one reason alone. i hope others are here for it too.

I am white, almost 27 soon, over educated with three majors and already looking for a masters degree too. I attended a prep school for high school. So, I should be a blue-blooded snob over this. But hell, maybe I will learn something from you or the next guy. Slanguage is an evolving art form in any tongue. I can comprehend you so don’t worry about it.

half of us here ramble on about the weirdest shit(i am one), so don’t get bent over the dumb shit. personally since I got a computer 2 years ago. My spelling has really gone to shit. Funny thing!

If I can contribute to a post started by you i surely will. The others do as they want, I am here to learn and grow a anaconda sized member. I hope we all want this for ourselves.

Street slang don’t bother me though I am not used to it. i do read around the words to guesstimate their meaning. As you said in your post above.

Welcome aboard! TT

Yep, my speeling (he he) has also gone to shit. I am addicted to spell check. I remember your origional post and had no trouble with it. However, when I first started posting here I simply adapted to the local culture. In this case that’s rather proper diction, grammar, and spelling. When in Rome…

Also, as Guiri points out, not every one at Thunders has English as a native language. It makes it much easier for everyone if we stick to generic international style English.

It is rather funny though, how quickly many became alarmed at violations of local etiquette.

Hey Nine, it’s nice to see that you stuck around. I participated in the thread that launched from your first post, and I’m glad that you’ve stayed around. Welcome aboard!

One thing I feel I should point out, is that your post wasn’t really the focus of criticism in said thread. It was the general trend towards poor English on the internet (especially on Usenet and fora), that was being addressed. Your post had a few more colloquialisms than I’d like, but not enough to really annoy me. However, people who actively encourage (let alone defend) poor English annoy me terribly.

Anyhow, that’s my twopence.

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Nine Inches

I never throw stones, I still believe what goes around comes around although I’m starting to have doubts. And I don’t spell very well, except computer related words. That’s the one thing I miss about the old forum it had a spell check.

Dino

Nine Inches wrote: “I also wanted to know if stretching is also a good way to make gains. and out of all the pe excercises which one gives the best results… Personally i think it would be pumping but i noticed jelqing did make more of an improvement… Also would love some input from pumpers who made gains and the amount of time it took to see dramatic results . Thankyou!

Starting out at the size you are already, chances are you’ll get to have a very large cock quicker than some of us have unless you are looking to be utterly humongous. What’s your goal and it is realistic? Frankly, I don’t want to reread all the debate again about language to find that out if you already posted your goals.

Gains take a lot of work and concentration, imo, and from reading thousands of PE posts over the past year it seems clear to me that what works for one does not necessarily work for another.

If pumping interests you, try it. (see the Pumping Forum here.) I use routines that involve both pumping and jelking techniques. My feeling is that sensible pumping gives over-all tissue expansion whereas many of the jelking exercises tend to concentrate on particular areas of the shaft or head in length or girth. Since I first got into PE I have been looking to have the same shaped cock as I used to, only more of it. That has turned out to be the case and my belief is that pumping contributed to my maintaining my basic contures. I may well be wrong about this of course, but whatever works works.

As for language, I believe strongly that too many colloquialisms distract from intended meaning and from one’s message. I don’t mind at all filtering through a member’s English language problems to get to his message but I do mind very much when the writer could write clearly and chooses not to do that. I add this paragraph only because you managed to turn off a number of your readers without intending to do that. Aim high, not low. That goes for PE, too. :-)

well I gotta say this…
Dis or dat..Is english..isn’t it..if a large percentage of people are speaking or writing like that..then it’s English….

now for me..well My spelling SUCKS..really I can’t spell to save my life and my grammar is worse…but hey I get my message across.

also LOGIC is most important..If you can’t understand a word like wats up..then try logical thinking…
The world is changing evry second, new words, slangs, etc..are being created and brought back for retro use as I write this..
knowing more of them is benefical don’t you think…
the more you know the better you are….
I believe one should never criticize anothers writing or speaking style..he is who is is, if you can’t stand it, then!
thats your problem.
I go to 4 BBS everyday and make my opinions…
some board members start to argue about my grammar, when they are losing a debate on a certain issue,I find that very childish.

of course my other 3 boards which this is one of them , that should not happen because we are all members and we should all be getting along..because we share the same interests…
But I will be honest,,like I said my english sucks..
but I have read many many others who also have bad english..
but I would never comment on that…none Of my business…
and my logical thinking is hign so I can fully understand what he is saying…
I feel people who write back and say, :what are you talking about?I couldn’t understand a thing you were trying to say..
Those people are just plain stupid with logial at all…!!!

<<<Dis or dat..Is english..isn’t it..if a large percentage of people are speaking or writing like that..then it’s English….>>>

That’s just the point…it isn’t (common) English. If a lot of people WERE using it this debate wouldn’t have occured.

<<<I believe one should never criticize anothers writing or speaking style..he is who is is, if you can’t stand it, then!
thats your problem>>>

At the end of the day it is all communication. If I cannot understand what another says, it is just as much HIS problem as mine…or more so. I have been to many foreign countries, and my inability to make myself understood caused me more problems than those to whom I was speaking.

<<<but I have read many many others who also have bad english..
but I would never comment on that…none Of my business…>>>

Many people on this board do not have English as their mother tongue. No-one is knocking that - it is fully understandable.

Well said, Guiri. I couldn’t agree more; writing properly (not necessarily to perfection, but the best as one can) helps EVERYONE involved, except maybe the poor soul who doesn’t have the 12 seconds to spare to bother writing something properly.

And Earth Walker, your English isn’t all that bad, I found it quite legible. But some of your logic leaves to be desired:

<< I believe one should never criticize anothers writing or speaking style..he is who is is, if you can’t stand it, then! thats your problem.>>

Nope. It’s his (or her) problem, because nobody will want/be able to read his/her comments, let alone reply. See Guiri’s post above.

Nine, do you currently have a partner? The reason I ask is that you already have a pretty decent size, and at 5.5+ are already pushing the “Blowjob Envelope”. You’ll want to be careful about reading your body, reading up on the exercises in the FAQ, measuring carefully and going for length (unless you have a “girth queen” partner). As a relative newbie, I can’t really offer more specific thoughs, but I figured to note my observations.

Nope. It’s his (or her) problem, because nobody will want/be able to read his/her comments, let alone reply. See Guiri’s post above.

sorry but I don’t agree….

just because you or me don’t understand doesn’t mean some else doesn’t..so acually its our problem , because we didn’t learn the lingo, slang , street style talking…what makes us better than them, In my logic..I feel stupid if I can’t understand it..
there for I make an effort to learn street or new style English words….
If some one here starts talking in Greek..then what is it? his problem or our problem, that we can’t communicate…

anyway It doesn’t matter…no point nit picking..
fact is im 6x5 and I want a bigger shlong!.ahahahaha

I read your whole post awhile back, Nine, and will explain why it bothered me a bit also. Dont get me wrong, I’m sure your an intelligent individual and an all around great guy but the issue in my case was the excessiveness of the slang. If I were to have a conversation ,face to face, with you and you spoke to me like that, I would leave feeling somehow psychologically assaulted by it. If my friend pokes me in my arm, no harm done. If he does it twice , I would still be o.k. with it. If he followed me around , poking me each time I interacted with him, I’d be very annoyed to say the least.

We may use words such as ,”cock, nuts, hardon, pussy…Ect.”, but these words dont typically dominate our posts in an ,”every-other-word” fasion. They are words that get the point across without being over-excessive in frequency. After all, we ARE on a forum that deals with manipulating your DICK.

I hope that I explained this reasonably and I realize I was a bit blunt. I’m sorry if you take any offense. Fact is , were all friends here and it’s o.k. to be blunt when it’s called for.