For the record, I have started again, after a long break, with the hope of some gain at all.
The main reason right now is so that if my wifey decides to get sexual again, I will have something “different” to present. My motivation is for her to wonder what she has been missing, and maybe, wonder if I have been active somewhere else.
She has not seen the bottle of CIALIS on my computer desk yet (empty), and when she does - if ever - I guarantee that she will ask about it. I don’t know what I will say yet, but I am sure that it will get her attention.
I am following this thread with interest, because I think that like many others have said, the motivation moves from “what can I do to please her” to “this is all about me.” I am not too abashed to say that openly.
This is NOW all about ME!
shalom
alex
ps - I wouldn’t mind her saying “ouch” … heh-heh
"Treason doth never prosper; what's the reason? For if treason prosper, none dare call it treason." - Harrington
“I SWEAR BY MY LIFE, AND MY LOVE OF IT, I WILL NEVER LIVE FOR THE SAKE OF ANOTHER, NOR ASK ANOTHER TO LIVE FOR MINE.” Ayn Rand, (Atlas Shrugged)