I must be completely honest

I know we all want to please our lady partners in the sack, it’s obvious, and I do deep down believe that size can be an important factor in delivering pleasure to the female recipient. However, I have to be dead honest. I really just want the reputation of having a large unit, that’s my main motivation.

I’m totally confident I’m my ability to please a female with standard sex, and my unit is not lagging by any means. My unit is roughly 6 1/2 X 5 1/2 , but the popularity, and feeling of domination that would come with having a larger penis would just be marvelous! Maybe my priorities are a little distorted, but hell, I just have to be honest.

You never hear of a woman saying “Wow, I hooked up with this guy last night, and his cock was 6 1/2 inches long!” But I’ve heard plenty tales of men with 8 inches or bigger! So it’s mostly about the ego to me. I’ll gladly take constructive criticism on my view point if necessary.

Honesty is good. Knowing what makes yourself tick is good too.

It’s how you feel. Make no excuses or apologies for it. I want to be the best I can be for the woman I’m with, I don’t apologize for that either and yeah, I want her to worship my cock.

Such is life.

There has been discussion before about women overestimating penis size, not to mention bragging to their friends. It’s hard to say for sure, but I bet a fair number of women bragging about the size of their conquests (!) really had a 6.5” to 7”, which is a bit bigger than average. when they’re saying 8”. From the reports of actual experiences, quite a few women would be intimidated or even put off entirely if they encountered a real 8”x6”, and even more likely so if much bigger than that.

My combination of observation and estimate is that most women will think anything over 7” is really 8” - remember, in part, besides overestimation they are likely to see it from the perspective of the underside, which will make it seem larger - and be intimidated by anything actually over 8”.

FF

Dude, listen, I gotta keep it real. Ive been 7.5 NBP my whole life and NEVER has a woman been put off by the size of my penis. It’s all been joy and stuff. Some PRETENDED to be scared but said “oh my i dont know if i can take it ” whilst invitingly spreading their legs.

You’re not the only one, my purpose for PE in the beginning was to get my unit thicker because I was ashamed to have an 8 inch long slugger with no meat. I wanted to wear basketball shorts (the very thin ones) and flop around in them and hear the women whisper, “Wow, his cock is so big”. After about 9 months of PE my girth picked up a bit, but I continue to do the workouts because I want so bad to hear a woman say it hurts. Kind of sadistic I know, but I hear so many guys talk about how tight a woman was. I would like to experience that in my lifetime, I have always had a long skinny unit so all sex to me was like sticking my unit in a cup of warm water.

But yeah dude, you’re not the only one to have such a selfish and self centered reason lol.

Well, I knew I wasn’t alone, and I’m sure many other people feel the same.

Don’t get me wrong, I do want to please my women, that’s for damn sure, and I have no problem doing that. In light of this fact, I figured why not get a reputation having one huge unit as well!

Starter you said everything that I agree with. No one wants to be just another guy that she had sex with. We want to be “that guy” that she’ll never forget. I can imagine what my life will be like once my goal is reached. I want to be the guy that gets sick and tired of all the women calling me all day long. I have an older brother and he has a large penis and when we hang out his phone rings all day long. We once went to the gym together and when we returned to the car, he had 20 new messages! You don’t see average guys getting that kind of attention.

7.5’ is probably right at the beginning of where guys start to report length problems with female partners, so it’s plausible that you are not quite big enough to have run into this. I also have to wonder if you’re picking a particular demographic of women who are less likely to have or to report any problems.

Look around at some of the postings on various threads about size, and you’ll see the reality of guys with larger sizes running into problems with women.

I’ve definitely been aware at 5.5” girth (and I realize, I could have been a bit thicker when younger) that I’ve been prone to make partners sore, with the result that they’ve been less eager to have sex too many times in one day, or more than one day in a row. Have you run into any such effect?

FF

That’s how I feel about your avatar.

I don’t think we have do many guys on this forum who don’t want a bigger dick, it’s like saying you just read the articles in penthouse.:)

Boy, that must have been awkward for your parents when you were born.

GM

If it were true women are overestimating so much, and never underestimating, it’s a wonder they’ve ever encountered any they thought were small units.

Lol yea he came out hugging it.

I’ve had the same ‘pretend’ fear. My girl is like ‘its so massive’ ….. with a smile on her face.
Some have been genuinely scared at first, but others haven’t batted an eyelid except mentioning after I have a bigger dick than most if not all of the men they’ve seen.
This leads me to believe that I too am on the border of invitingly big and potentially uncomfortably large.

I’ll be honest too, I like the idea of my girl or someone I’m sleeping with telling her friends that I have a big penis. It helps with confidence, which, although it has its ups and downs, I have increased ten-fold since being at thunders.

I would have to say that I hae a strange kind of turn-on feeling knowing that I’m going to get a widened eye reaction from a girl, or I’m going to get a pleasured moan when she grabs it, or those sweet words…
It’s less about her and ALOT more about me being turned on by my own penis and its ability to cause reaction…though this does sound wierd to me.

To Thine Own Self Be True.